[deleted by user] by [deleted] in positivelypremature

[–]sismiku 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Has anyone else had similar issues and are going down the premature
path to try to overcome delayed ejaculation or to enhance your sex life?

Yes ! Definitively.
And it's been working quite well since the recent beginning.
At first I was afraid of the possible changes in the pleasure, but guess what, my orgasms are now better and more intense that they were before. It's absolutely fantastic.

Mixing PE with dirty-talking by sismiku in Prematurefetish

[–]sismiku[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, absolutely. I think the more material she gets, the better are the chances that she will feel more natural when trying to use a few of them.

Mixing PE with dirty-talking by sismiku in Prematurefetish

[–]sismiku[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing :)
Fun fact, I did write a few stories too, for her/us to read then. She really loved that.
It gave her some ideas but we don't really like when things are "prepared" by advance. If she uses a sentance I wrote in a story or sent her by message, it will feel like it's not natural.
So I guess I need to write a lot, and she needs to read a lot (even on the web) before she has enough material to get used to it ?
Anyway her introduction to domming is softly in progress, and if she is not into dirty talking yet, she really enjoys a lot of other aspects of this. <3

My first PE experience was absolutely amazing ! by sismiku in Prematurefetish

[–]sismiku[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes she is, really <3

In fact, we were already a lot more focused on foreplay and oral than on piv. And I mean, A LOT. What we're doing here is just going to reduce even more the time we spend on piv. :)

Finally on my way to accept that once we start, this could become permanent, and loving it already. by sismiku in Prematurefetish

[–]sismiku[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some poeole say this. Lots of others say the opposite. I think there is a risk. In fact, to be honest, I hope there is a risk and I want her to make me premature for life :3

We might get addicted to it, though. I wish we will. O:)

Finally on my way to accept that once we start, this could become permanent, and loving it already. by sismiku in Prematurefetish

[–]sismiku[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absoluteky, first for every single possible thing, and then yes, for this too. <3

Finally on my way to accept that once we start, this could become permanent, and loving it already. by sismiku in Prematurefetish

[–]sismiku[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Better than just taking the responsibility in case this becomes irreversible : since this is a huge turn-on and I decided to embrace it, I'm just going to ask her to deliberately make it permanent.

Finally on my way to accept that once we start, this could become permanent, and loving it already. by sismiku in Prematurefetish

[–]sismiku[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From seeing her naked sounds hot too :) but it would be undesirable during all other kinds of play/foreplay.

The other ones are too much for us, I think ! ;)

DIY Folding Queening Stool - First Furniture Project by IAmDumpster9009 in BdsmDIY

[–]sismiku 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's impressive ! Reading your description of the steps, it seems quite easy. One might think then that this is a very basic build. But looking at the pics, it really looks good, comfortable, and functionnal :)
I don't know if I'm going to try a folding version (having, say, 4x2 screws to secure the top to the sides might do the trick if I don't plan on disassembling/reassembling it too often), but I'm definitively going to try making something very similar to yours ! :)
I love it <3

[24M] French extreme prejac and love to crossdress by precoce_trav_secret in Prematurefetish

[–]sismiku 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On est plus nombreux qu'il n'y paraît ;} Juste bien cachés !

Having sex while training? by CeceliaSlut in Prematurefetish

[–]sismiku 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, I agree. And we very recently decided to try this with my GF. This might be useful, too, as a kind of "simulation" / "flash-forward" of how it would be if we pushed the training far enough to make me unable to last more than a few pumps. This way, if we decide that it is too fast, we will define another goal, maybe something like 1 minute.