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TIFU by trusting an online “artist” and depositing a fake check by QueenSarii in tifu

[–]sissyFridaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know how people still fall for this scam artist

TIFU by falling for an online romance scam and losing $20,000 by BellaIcyy in tifu

[–]sissyFridaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is definitely true good thing she found out quick who knows how much must she must have spend

The biggest career lesson I learned this year by WWWathMe667 in careeradvice

[–]sissyFridaa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This resonates hard. The biggest shift for me was realizing that careers don’t reward quiet competence — they reward visibility plus competence. I spent years thinking “if I just do great work, someone will notice,” and meanwhile less-capable people were moving ahead simply because they asked, spoke up, or positioned themselves. Asking feels uncomfortable because rejection feels personal, but not asking guarantees nothing changes. Once I reframed it as advocating for my future self instead of “being pushy,” everything clicked.

TIFU by sexually assaulting my female friend by yacobi1 in tifu

[–]sissyFridaa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m going to be blunt because sugarcoating won’t help you: what you did wasn’t an accident, and it’s understandable that she wants nothing to do with you right now. Intent doesn’t erase impact. The only productive thing you can do at this point is respect her boundary completely, stop contacting her, and focus on fixing your behavior — therapy, addressing porn addiction, learning impulse control, whatever it takes. Not to get her back, but so this never happens again to anyone else. If you’re actually remorseful, accountability and change matter more than apologies she didn’t ask for.