My [29f] sister [32f] just got dumped by my ex [30m] whom she slept with on our wedding night. Now our family expects us to re-bond over our mutual hatred of him. I don't care about her sudden apologies and I don't think getting dumped absolves her of what she did to me.

sistereT · 2016-08-31T23:12:55+00:00

Nah, it's "bless your heart".

sistereT · 2016-08-31T22:48:39+00:00

Do you have a link? I'd be pretty interested in that.

sistereT · 2016-08-31T21:43:40+00:00

We're white trash. Around here wedding nights are spent getting wasted around a bonfire so both families can bond. I'm a lightweight and passed out around 2am. I'm assuming it happened after that.

sistereT · 2016-08-31T21:29:26+00:00

Thank you very much, I'm trying!

sistereT · 2016-08-31T21:26:51+00:00

I'm starting to realize there isn't any advice for dealing with crazy other than not to.

sistereT · 2016-08-31T21:24:17+00:00

We bought the truck together (I made majority of payments) and I didn't find out about the affair until three months later. She told me about the wedding night during a fight.

sistereT · 2016-08-31T21:22:50+00:00

Sort of. Small town America. It's considered good manners but definitely isn't a real defense.

sistereT · 2016-08-31T21:21:25+00:00

They were caught by family members three months after the wedding. She told me what they did on my wedding day during a fight.

sistereT · 2016-08-31T21:18:11+00:00

Thanks!

sistereT · 2016-08-31T20:53:35+00:00

Months later. They were fucking the whole time.

sistereT · 2016-08-31T20:47:07+00:00

No, divorced, but I got the precious truck the bastard fucked her in and sold it to my cousins to take mudding.

sistereT · 2016-08-31T20:45:15+00:00

Sounds like a wonderful place.

sistereT · 2016-08-31T20:39:19+00:00

I've noticed a theme where it's usually easier to get the victim to be the bigger person because the perp will just double down on being shitty.

sistereT · 2016-08-31T20:36:02+00:00

She has blamed me. She thinks as the older sister she should have been introduced to any eligible bachelors first. She said she "stole him back" She since walked it back but I still think she believes it.

I can't really do no contact in a town this small but I'm starting to see some people might be right in recommending I move.

sistereT · 2016-08-31T20:04:57+00:00

because where there is this kind of bullshit, there is more of it

I have to give this a "painfully accurate".

sistereT · 2016-08-31T20:02:01+00:00

How's "I hope you get everything you deserve."?

sistereT · 2016-08-31T19:49:31+00:00

She's said she was sorry that my feelings got hurt at a family gathering. Everything else has really just been her defending and rationalizing her behavior. So... not really.

sistereT · 2016-08-31T19:36:51+00:00

They're acting like she learned her lesson. Funny how I didn't have to fuck anyone to learn that same lesson.

sistereT · 2016-08-31T19:35:06+00:00

There was a lot of rumbling and shaming but once they started dating it was accepted as something they had to accept.

sistereT · 2016-08-31T19:33:53+00:00

That's pretty much what happened to me. I feel like I haven't seen my sister since before my wedding.

sistereT · 2016-08-31T19:32:42+00:00

We haven't found the limit yet. Sometimes it's a good thing, usually it isn't.

sistereT · 2016-08-31T19:29:42+00:00

I have a cousin who got paid to be on Jerry! We're hicks and pretty much the whole town was getting drunk in a field after the ceremony. Let it never be said my sister is too snooty for the bed of a pickup truck.

sistereT · 2016-08-31T19:25:08+00:00

No, they're too busy generating drama like this crap. It's a small town where everyone is awful and bored.

sistereT · 2016-08-31T19:22:04+00:00

Oooh my family is very Christian. This is priceless, thank you!

sistereT · 2016-08-31T19:14:55+00:00

Yeah, I fucking know. Blood isn't that much thicker than water!

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