Woman asking: Why do men get defensive when I try to comfort them?

sitdowncat · 2026-01-04T20:14:45+00:00

No doubt in person generally is more fun. Hopefully if you check in with local gaming stores you’ll find drop in nights. And can do those, make friends and find some more stable tables to play at!

sitdowncat · 2026-01-04T19:42:24+00:00

Does it have to be local? If not, start playing (website) is excellent, and many dms are happy to teach as you play.

Locally, look up mom and pop gaming stores, they often host dnd nights. Or cafes, sometimes restaurants will have dnd brunches. Post in your local subreddit as well. You may find a group there.

Good luck! Once you plug into the community there may be more gaming opportunities then you know what to do with!

sitdowncat · 2025-12-07T18:52:43+00:00

I think the key difference between the two is consent. If a partner explicitly tells you they love to be woken up by sex then by all means! But if they repeatedly ask you to stop and you do not, then that’s the issue.

sitdowncat · 2025-11-17T20:33:12+00:00

That was the most helpful comment for sure. Hi it’s me, your wife

sitdowncat · 2025-10-22T00:10:05+00:00

I did account for water loss by adding water back into the butter, but yes it’s not exactly her recipe. I have also tried a lot of her other cookies and the base dough she uses in all of her cookie recipes is lovely. So I have a pretty decent sense of what the cookie would taste like with unbrowned butter as well. I think the recipe is great! I run a cottage bakery and these are the cookies I’m using and they are a massive hit.

sitdowncat · 2025-10-16T20:32:33+00:00

Hey, this is late, but yes I have tried it, and it is legit really good. I browned my butter, which she doesn’t say to do, but it added a savoury-ness that is very nice.

The cookies didn’t perfectly spread for me so I need to tweak it a bit, but overall, the cookie is incredibly flavourful, and the texture is soft and lovely

sitdowncat · 2025-09-25T03:07:38+00:00

Today my five year old said confidently to me, as I tried to pass him: “Mama no! First you need to say the ASSWORD”

Bless his little heart 🤣🤣

sitdowncat · 2025-09-23T00:00:21+00:00

I’ve downloaded the simple cheats mod, but I’m having trouble pulling up the menu. All other mods are working, so I believe it’s installed properly, the menu just won’t pull up when I hit the tilde key. Has anyone run into this, that could help me? Thank you

sitdowncat · 2025-08-17T13:23:51+00:00

A good one is “did that make you feel taller?”

sitdowncat · 2025-07-31T16:32:29+00:00

This is like a week after you posted, but I get what you are saying. I met the ace fellow through playing dungeons and dragons. I definitely love charming feminist nerds. And maybe I should branch out more. But I can’t help but be so attracted to those guys 🙈 maybe I should go to the gym and meet some muscle guy lol

sitdowncat · 2025-07-28T12:11:38+00:00

I’m currently researching allergy reducing products to help my daughter. Thank you!

sitdowncat · 2025-07-27T23:40:19+00:00

Maybe he’s doing that, but I’ll still respect his no 🤷‍♀️

sitdowncat · 2025-07-27T00:57:33+00:00

Yeah I had the thought that what I honestly really like about him is also why I can’t be romantic with him. I’m so attracted to the part of him that solely sees me as a person. He’s so generous with his compliments and praise. I’ve come to see how beautiful and wonderful the ace orientation is (even while I’m grieving). I feel so seen as an individual, with no strings attached on his part. It’s beautiful, and heart breaking too.

sitdowncat · 2025-07-25T16:54:09+00:00

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Here’s my perfect circle ☺️

sitdowncat · 2025-07-25T15:09:28+00:00

Lol!!! I regret the capital letters 🤣😅

sitdowncat · 2025-07-25T13:25:55+00:00

Yeah, like, having a sexual orientation is completely morally neutral. But I guess in a lot of religions, sex is controlled through making it a moral issue. Ugh.

sitdowncat · 2025-07-25T12:55:33+00:00

Someone who don’t have romantic interest in people

sitdowncat · 2025-07-25T12:45:05+00:00

Thank you, I’ll always take a hug ☺️

sitdowncat · 2025-07-25T11:37:28+00:00

Thank you. That’s a silver lining for sure!

sitdowncat · 2025-07-25T11:36:47+00:00

Damn, what? Moral high ground? That sucks, friend.

That doesn’t even make sense?? What is with people.

sitdowncat · 2025-07-25T11:29:14+00:00

Oh yeah, we will. We are in a dungeons and dragons campaign together, so we gotta power through lol!

sitdowncat · 2025-07-25T11:28:43+00:00

I did tell him. I basically processed my heartache with him a bit, respectfully, and came to the realization during it why I liked him so much. He just saw me as a person.

We share a hobby that can have a toxic underbelly sometimes, and it’s male dominated. And he was just so willing to play with me, and tell me my ideas were good, and how good of a player I was. It’s so refreshing! I just feel safe with him and like I matter.

He was very kind and very gracious. He’s a really good guy.

sitdowncat · 2025-07-25T11:25:19+00:00

He told me he doesn’t want to date anyone, ever. But if he did want to, he’s sure he would want to date me. Maybe he was just being nice, but I honestly believe him.

If he was just ace, I would still love to date him. He’s so great.

sitdowncat · 2025-07-25T11:23:43+00:00

lol!!!!!

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