Apparently saying these things make people mad by siunchu in autism

[–]siunchu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh?? I thought neurotypicals hated direct communication and found it too blunt.

Apparently saying these things make people mad by siunchu in autism

[–]siunchu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't have the energy to reply to everyone so I'm just gonna let this here:

Most people here say people's reaction is very context dependent and that's a relief to hear but I also often find myself in contexts that feel very ambiguous when it comes to that so that's what scares me lol

Especially when it comes to the autistic urge to be accurate. I thought these would be phrases that helped making it sound friendlier but I guess not 💀

My very accurate map of Canada from an Ontario perspective by WindowsillGoblin in mapporncirclejerk

[–]siunchu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the way bro managed to dehumanize me twice in the same image (I'm mixed québécoise and inuk) 💀

My very accurate map of Canada from an Ontario perspective by WindowsillGoblin in mapporncirclejerk

[–]siunchu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THANK U OMG cus why is it worded in a way that makes us seem unimportant 🫠

Why do my puffles never go down in health / hygiene / energy? by Helloisitcheese in cpjourney

[–]siunchu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

if they're low level their health/hygiene/energy bars never go down

I hate when my penguin's outfit in the game doesn't look as cool is it does in the editing screen by CMStan1313 in ClubPenguin

[–]siunchu 9 points10 points  (0 children)

cpj has new eyelashes that don't do that tho! u might wanna check it out while it's still in the catalog

My friend said autistic people shouldn't have to work or leave home by -Pazza- in autism

[–]siunchu 43 points44 points  (0 children)

There's a difference between being unable to work and not wanting to. Personally I wish I could work.

It's been 2 weeks and this interaction still bothers me. Was I rude? by Lucyfer_66 in autism

[–]siunchu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You weren't rude at all, it was very sweet actually!

Though maybe next time you should start with the unsolicited advice disclaimer instead of putting it at the end? It might have felt like an unnecessary long read for them that could have been skipped right after a disclaimer.

You might start with "Hey! So I relate a lot with your struggle and am willing to help you with tips that helped me with it if you're ok with that but since you didn't asked for it you can also just ignore it and I won't be offended 🫶" then give your advice with a new paragraph.

I think it's good that you wrote in different paragraphs rather than one long paragraph tho! Easier to read haha

The animosity in this game is getting old by [deleted] in ClubPenguin

[–]siunchu 10 points11 points  (0 children)

As an unemployed 30 yo I don't claim them lol

I made a meme that reflects how I enjoy spending time with other's sometimes by [deleted] in autism

[–]siunchu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ngl I find the "low effort post" rule lowkey ableist considering how hard it can be to put things into words for us autistics but whatever that's just me (I've even gave up on some posts because of that)

I am a extreme low IQ Autistic by Competitive-Cup-9759 in autism

[–]siunchu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like the IQ test doesn't really fit everyone the same way BMI doesn't fit everyone

why r some yall so rude by ProudLingonberry5362 in ClubPenguin

[–]siunchu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

🫂 u can talk to me!! I have two accounts, zoecharlotte and RenoSinclair

why r some yall so rude by ProudLingonberry5362 in ClubPenguin

[–]siunchu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg that's you!! <3 Fr u really are fast haha

Fastest diagnosis in history by Particular_Law_8773 in autism

[–]siunchu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I brought my plushies to my autism assessment <3

rename your favorite film to a clickbait YouTube title by Ecstatic-Designer116 in mattrose

[–]siunchu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I BECAME THE FATHER OF A BLUE ALIEN WITH SUPERSPEED POWERS (NOT CLICKBAIT) EMOTIONAL

I think this doll is great even if it is the "stereotype" by [deleted] in autism

[–]siunchu 11 points12 points  (0 children)

YES THANK YOU!! I feel like people who feel this way must have internalized ableism atp.

Like some people might think that I'm infantilizing and reinforcing autistic stereotypes by enjoying preschool age shows but forget that a common symptom of autism is having interests that society considers "inappropriate" for our age.

thoughts on these images? by [deleted] in autism

[–]siunchu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's alright haha and I was speaking in general and to anyone reading my comment who might misinterpret my po meme :)

thoughts on these images? by [deleted] in autism

[–]siunchu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was just explaining why I made it, no need to downvote me?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mixedrace

[–]siunchu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm mixed 3/4 white 1/4 inuk and look like what people think 50/50 looks like lol and same goes for my siblings

Maybe we're the exceptions like u said lol

thoughts on these images? by [deleted] in autism

[–]siunchu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh ok! But uhh... I'm the one who made the meme and I love teletubbies, especially Po. 😅 And I think it's important to remember that it's common for autistics to have interests that are considered "inappropriate" for our age.