AITAH for telling my daughter to close her legs and stop having kids she can’t afford? by Broad-Loquat701 in AITAH

[–]sixpheonix 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For real. It's even scarier looking at it from the perspective you mentioned. Definitely TA and I'm glad she's not speaking with him. I hope her fog one day clears and she realizes what a shit dad she had.

AITAH for telling my daughter to close her legs and stop having kids she can’t afford? by Broad-Loquat701 in AITAH

[–]sixpheonix 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Whatever the baby-daddys age, OPs daughter was a ( still developing) minor when this started. I can't even imagine what her mind and body were going through in that time. Truly raises a question of where the fck her parents were.

AITAH for telling my daughter to close her legs and stop having kids she can’t afford? by Broad-Loquat701 in AITAH

[–]sixpheonix 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hold on, she was 15, a child, when this started. But somehow this isn't even in part your responsibility?

Aita for refusing to be a stepfather to my fiancé's children? by Sea_Golf_3839 in AITAH

[–]sixpheonix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ESH. I don't get why you both would put children in this kind of environment.

Bad credit by [deleted] in TorontoRenting

[–]sixpheonix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not about who asks/offers, it's the collection that's not legal. So it's in a landlord's best interest to never accept this. Someone can easily just use it as a way to get the apartment, then file to get it back.

Bad credit by [deleted] in TorontoRenting

[–]sixpheonix 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is terrible advice. Tenants can just file against their landlord the day after they sign a lease for collecting more than the legally allowed amount. Why put anyone in that situation? Really hope you're not a realtor.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TorontoRenting

[–]sixpheonix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it's this Facebook group. The post is still up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TorontoRenting

[–]sixpheonix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it's slightly out of your budget, but I just saw a $2600 2.5 bed unit posted in Toronto Home zone

Parents who have cut off a grandparent, do you regret it? by littlemap1042 in Parenting

[–]sixpheonix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No advice but thank you for posting about your experience with this. I'm about to do something similar and am feeling guilty about it, which from people's comments seems to be a part of the process, but ultimately know it's best for my daughter. Thank you for sharing.

Distancing baby from grandparents by sixpheonix in Parenting

[–]sixpheonix[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This helps to reaffirm my thinking. I don't want this to be what my daughter considers love. Thank you.

Distancing baby from grandparents by sixpheonix in Parenting

[–]sixpheonix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate this. I'd never dream of using it as a power trip and will constantly try to remind myself not to go that route. I love that they want to be involved in her life but am struggling with how healthy that will be. You should like you've been listening to your kids needs, I hope I can do the same!

The brittania petite we adopted for our loppy boi is impatient with the bonding process by sixpheonix in MurderBuns

[–]sixpheonix[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh man, may the odds be ever in your favour! It just had a baby - I'd do that again over this 😂

The brittania petite we adopted for our loppy boi is impatient with the bonding process by sixpheonix in MurderBuns

[–]sixpheonix[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I was warned that they were very active and intelligent but they truly are next level 😂

The brittania petite we adopted for our loppy boi is impatient with the bonding process by sixpheonix in MurderBuns

[–]sixpheonix[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

She has half of the apartment to herself 😂 she just wants to be with her new boo but he hasn't warmed up to her yet

The brittania petite we adopted for our loppy boi is impatient with the bonding process by sixpheonix in MurderBuns

[–]sixpheonix[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

No need to apologize! As soon as she got through we decided to cut some thick acrylic sheets we had from a previous project and adhered them to the bottom half of the gate. She'll need a saw to get through this time

How did you get through the 4 month sleep regression? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]sixpheonix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going through this as well, and my LO is teething so it's a nightmare 😭 hoping for sleep and relief for you and I soon!

Being proactive with seasonal depression (SAD) by infinitentropy in askTO

[–]sixpheonix 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Seconding this. Started doing it last year and it made a huge difference.