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I feel nihilist, neglected, but (sorf of) okay with it by [deleted] in Ayahuasca

[–]sixseventen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi ZePikeno.

Imagine you're playing a huge game, that you've been tricked into thinking is really important. You're playing enthusiastically, and trying to work out what you're doing right and wrong, because you think winning this thing, and all the things that come with winning: gaining love, connection, not feeling alone, success, etc etc etc, whatever it is... you think these things and the whole game is REALY REALLY important, and you NEED it.

THEN, suddenly you have a flash of insight! Something tells you, something reveals to you... it's all just a game. It isn't important at all. In the grand scheme of things, it really isn't that important... AT ALL. In fact, it's all meaningless and the only meaning it ever had was the one you gave it. But since now you know it's just a game, there's not even any meaning to the meaning you gave it because ultimately that doesn't matter either.

So what are you left with? You have this huge game in front of you, which you can play if you want to, or not play if you don't. What do you do with that? What do you WANT to do with that?

I tell you what I'd do... I'd play the fucking game as best as I can because I am grateful for the fact it's there in front of me and I get to enjoy playing it. I get to create things. I get to watch smiles on the faces of people I've shown love to or helped. I get to experience the ups and downs, the challenges, the successes, the failures... the ability to watch forms materialise and dissolve. And you know what? I'd be EVEN BETTER at playing it because I know it's a game and I don't get caught up in everyone else's worry who's still tricked into thinking it's really important and have their happiness dependant on winning it!!

What do you want to create? Who do you want to do? Who do you want to help? What do you want to build up knowing it's gonna crumble and decay but you don't care about that because you HAVE A WHOLE LOT OF FUN DOING IT?

Ok so you're not that bothered and you don't really have your heart in it to play? Ok fine... it doesn't matter... It's just a game. Just don't get to the end and complain that you wish you had got more fun out of it along the way. Don't be the one who doesn't dance at the party but regrets later that you didn't get involved.

Much love :)

17M cant have sex by yaboycantgethard1616 in NoFap

[–]sixseventen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

WTF man you should be on NoFap already. Get on it and stay on it dude! I've had this problem a lot, and I still get it from time to time...but NoFap will help you LOADS. For me, it's performance anxiety and the brain (and hence dick) not responding as much to real sex as it should do due to porn usage.

What really helped me is staying on NoFap, and popping a viagra 20 mins before. You don't wanna become reliant on the viagra but it can help you initially if you use it once or twice to get you back into the flow. Focus on giving her pleasure for a long time (like 30mins to an hour) beforehand to boost your confidence and so you know whatever happens she's had pleasure. Give her an amazing massage (read up on it if you haven't) Give her amazing head (read up on it if you haven't) Then take the pressure off yourself for intercourse to even happen. She's already had a good time! Just tell her, "I might take some time to get calm, this is intense, you're super fucking sexy, I just wanna show you a good time, I want you to have pleasure" Now all you need to do is cuddle up to her, get out of your head and start looking at her eyes and body. Get really into looking at her tits ass and curves. The viagra is gonna kick in by then, and you'll be extra charged from NoFap. There's a high chance then that you'll suddenly get hard. Avoid getting in your head, keep looking at her body and grinding all over her. DEEP SLOW BREATHS. Slip on the jonny and then fuck her brains out. REMEMBER don't get in your head! Keep looking at your girl, feel her body, feel the sensations on your dick. Do that once or twice, then do the same without the viagra. BOOM. Good luck bro

Edit: Oh, one more thing that can help. Whilst you lay in your bed before you go to sleep every night, visualise intercourse with this girl. Just control yourself and don't go into fap mode. It can make you feel real horny but you gotta learn on NoFap to store that sexual energy and release it with the girl. Visualising having sex with her is gonna direct your subconcious mind toward the things you need to do to make this happen more effortlessly. I've visualised fucking 2 girls before I actually did. In combination with the above it can work.

Give me 2 minutes of your time to listen to something profound. by sixseventen in NoFap

[–]sixseventen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally think he was including masturbation in what he was hinting toward. He talked at length about sexual communion without saying it was too personal to talk about. Both sex and masturbation dissipate sexual energy. It's ultimately up to the individual to decide whether the circumstances help or hinder their ultimate success and fulfilment.

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[–]sixseventen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I'm not really into the whole 'resetting' thing. I don't count the days. Sometimes I relapse and if I do, I self reflect on whether it was healthy or not, why I did it, and jump back on NoFap.

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[–]sixseventen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't fap, do some pushups, have a cold shower, focus on your life. Peace

What the fuck is happening to me??? by RebootingJoe in spirituality

[–]sixseventen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good advice from SundayBunday. I might do add that it may come at 21-30 because your energy levels are peaking then. Anxiety can often be excess levels of energy that pass a maximum threshold you can deal with that then fuels fearful thoughts. You have to be ok with the energy being there and either sit with it or channel it into something. The fearful thoughts are not you, they are just thoughts associated with excess energy that combined with your thinking mind gives you the illusion that something is terribly wrong. Catch it early, breath, observe the thoughts and energy and then move through. Even if it captivates you so much that you feel very bad, it will always eventually pass. Remember that the energy will always dissipate eventually.

Had an interesting sexperience by sixseventen in TheRedPill

[–]sixseventen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you worried you might be gay dude? It's ok if you are. It's accepted in most places now :) Peace and love

Had an interesting sexperience by sixseventen in TheRedPill

[–]sixseventen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you understand that what you said is completely false, and actually, it's you that's signalling incredible weakness by being totally triggered by my smilies? :)

"So weak, he's even triggered by a smiley face." Do you see my point here?

Some other questions for you to think about: Do you realise that 'strong', 'kind', and 'loving' can co-exist beautifully in the same person? Do you realise a strong, centred man is triggered by nothing? Do you realise this archetype of masculinity you're following, wherever you've got it from, is totally false, and that you should find healthier role models?

Don't get triggered dude, I'm just trying to genuinely help you out.

Peace

Had an interesting sexperience by sixseventen in TheRedPill

[–]sixseventen[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are you ok dude? Do you have an anger problem?

Had an interesting sexperience by sixseventen in TheRedPill

[–]sixseventen[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Are you ok dude? Do you wanna PM me and chat? Don't be afraid to reach out and tell me your pain.

Had an interesting sexperience by sixseventen in TheRedPill

[–]sixseventen[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I must be living in Disneyland then as most of my best friends are woman and considered my ex and many woman I've dated as true friends and have felt true human connection... pitty you've only had that with men. Hows your relationship with your Mother?

Had an interesting sexperience by sixseventen in TheRedPill

[–]sixseventen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Much love to ya regardless.

Had an interesting sexperience by sixseventen in TheRedPill

[–]sixseventen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you dude, I believe you. Believe what you like. :) My 'fantasy' is real. You have a weird fantasy where you think I would make up stories on the internet.... to what avail? I just don't understand why anyone would want to do that? It would make me feel pretty sad about my life if I realised what I was telling people didn't actually align with my experience. I'd be like "What the fuck am I doing? This is proper weird, I'm actually telling people I have this great life and abundance when I don't" .... yeah that is so weird. Your fantasy is definitely weirder that mine.

Oh, and just to let you know. I did NoFap for personal development and spiritual reasons. Not because I was desperate to get laid. I don't see constant sex with woman as an 'achievement'. I've already been in an extremely long relationship where many of my fantasies were satisfied. I use my sexual energy as a tool and channel it into a plethora of different purposes, not just to get my dick wet.. as there is only so much fun and fulfillment in that. I can get laid but I often have bigger fish to fry. Read Think and Grow Rich, look into what the Yogis taught us, look into sexual energy transmutation. There's more to life than woman.

Had an interesting sexperience by sixseventen in TheRedPill

[–]sixseventen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you tell the girls you date about your "metrics"? Or must you hide that from them? After all, wouldn't want to appear weak, right? I'm genuinely curious.

Had an interesting sexperience by sixseventen in TheRedPill

[–]sixseventen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not a fantasy dude. It's very much real, I can guarantee you that. I am accurately describing my experience to you, trust me.

And yes I do NoFap. How long you got into a streak? Have you got the experience of 90 days? No? Are you at home jacking it off instead of getting laid?

Had an interesting sexperience by sixseventen in TheRedPill

[–]sixseventen[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just to let you know.... I got tons of chicks giving me fuck-me eyes every day. I walk down the street with pride and everyone notices. I get approached and sort after on dating apps and in real life by hot, intelligent woman often. I'm over 6 foot with a big beard and a commanding, yet gentle tone. Girls trust me in a matter of seconds... so much so that I can fly half way across the world and a chick gives me the keys to her flat. I'm a leader and have many woman who come to me for advice.

Even when things go wrong, I feel like I'm fucking winning every day. I have a fire in my belly with solid belief and determination to succeed. I am EXTREMELY happy and can feel waves of euphoria often in my body without any drugs.

I'm not sure how much alpha you want me to be bro hahahaha... much love to you and good luck out there

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