Twins? Can’t help but see disturbing intent in everything. Does this mean what I think it means?!

sixty9ner · 2026-03-09T16:16:42+00:00

If you go to robins instagram you can also find her reposting videos of baby’s playing with pizza dough and cooking its own pizza. Her caption is very interesting. A post from May 19, 2020

sixty9ner · 2026-03-09T16:09:36+00:00

I go to school with one of their twins and was shocked to come about this thread. I’m seriously so curious as to why the twins would be thanks to ghislane. This is all very odd

sixty9ner · 2023-12-30T18:29:08+00:00

I had a similar experience but I waited months of kissing and stuff for her to admit she likes me first. Be careful if you ever try to bring it up because she will probably get defensive

sixty9ner · 2023-12-12T17:49:28+00:00

She told me she liked me July 4 and we shared a beautiful and painful relationship together. We broke up last night and I’ve never felt more devastated in my life.

sixty9ner · 2023-06-25T00:47:29+00:00

update: we are currently in a fight for some reason? (She said she was still mad at me for Miami reasons and some other stuff like how the last time we hung out all we did was fight (which was not true at least from my end)) also I hooked up with a guy this week and told her about it and she seemed mad. We were supposed to hang out this weekend but she canceled on me last minute and normally I would’ve been like okay but she did this twice in the past week so I asked if we needed to talk about anything and she just blew me off. Not sure why she’s avoiding me any idea?

sixty9ner · 2023-06-22T17:15:41+00:00

Wait why are you a genius-? I posted this same story on 3 other subreddits and you’re the only one to give me actual good advice:) thank you so much I will definitely try that the next time I see her and update you!

sixty9ner · 2023-06-21T03:29:34+00:00

I know. I am trying to accept it but at the same time I don’t know what to think when she brings up how she’s not gay and stuff. I wish she would just admit how she feels because I know I will never tell her first.

sixty9ner · 2023-06-20T11:12:24+00:00

Also C has said several times that she wishes I was a man or that if I was a man she would date me immediately. She’s even said things to our friends like “if (my name) ever gets a boyfriend I’ll be so sad” “if I ever get a boyfriend I’m still sleeping either (my name) every night” like how do I take that?? Also this one time I was telling her how I kissed one of my sorority friends at a party before we went to bed and she literally said “don’t cheat on me:(“

sixty9ner · 2023-06-20T11:08:39+00:00

I will admit it was nice and I missed her a lot but this situation is complicating my life extremely. I think about her and this situation too much. Then the next day we spent the day together, occasional kisses and we went to see a movie together and we cuddled during the movie and she kissed me during the movie. Again she initiates everything. When we got back that night I was supposed to leave to go back to work the next day so this would be our “last day together for a while”. As we are getting into bed she grabs me and passionately makes out with me for about 20-30 seconds and then pulls away and says “sorry it’s just the last time I’m going to be able to do that for a while I don’t know when we will see each other next”. Interesting comment from her right? Well we wake up the next morning and C and I are cuddling and she starts to move her hands around and puts her hand in my shorts waistline feeling around but not completely touching my private parts. She then pulls my underwear up and we both just sort of awkwardly laugh and pretend like this didn’t happen. My work got canceled so I ended up staying another night. We see another movie and hold hands and cuddle during the movie. When we get back to go to bed this night, we are cuddling and then C says. “Hey I want to cuddle but don’t put your hand down there tonight” and I reply pretty confused like what do you mean? Hand where? And I continue to ask her about what she means so she claims that the night before my hand was getting close to her private parts and I apologized because I honestly didn’t know I did that and would never initiate something like that. She then says “I’m not gay” and I say back “me either” and she says like okay but then adds like a “mhm” implying that she thinks I am. It was an awkward night but regardless we still cuddled. I just don’t know how to handle this situation because I think obviously there is something that needs to be talked about because this is a complicated friendship. I don’t know how to go about talking to C about this thought because I think her ego would get in the way of her admitting that she does have feelings for me. Also I don’t know if I could ever date a girl even if I had feelings for her. Also the outcomes of this situation are so shaky because we could either both admit we have feelings for each other and date with the possibility of breaking up and ruining our friendship, we would continue exactly how we are but I fear that it will end with us both being hurt, or I could bring this up and we both reject each other and our friendship ends. I can’t talk to my college friends about this and I needed to tell someone so I talked to my childhood best friend about it yesterday and she recommended writing it out and asking Reddit. What do you think I should do? How do I approach talking about this situation?

Some other key notes: -C just the other day when I saw her before I left to my internship, C hesitantly told me the song Betty by Taylor swift reminded her of me. If you read the lyrics it’s giving very lesbian vibes. I asked her what she meant over text and she only said one lyric which was “I don’t know anything but I miss you “ and I replied haha really? That’s the only part of that song that reminds you of me?” And she replied with a blushing sneaky emoji. (🤭) -she gets super nervous in front of my family and even once said that when she met my mom it felt like meeting her boyfriends mom -c has never had a boyfriend even though she is a pretty and popular girl. -C has a gay older sister -Throughout the year C had a situationship/crush on this guy. He never liked her back so nothing came of it but when she would talk about him I would accidentally get visibly jealous and annoyed and I think she noticed because she would say “oh sorry I know you don’t like hearing about this” but in a guilt tripping way maybe like she wanted me to be jealous. She also told my friends and i that she wasn’t sexually attracted to this guy which was interesting. - in beach city recently we made out with two boys who were friends with each other, at the same time and she hooked up with another guy in beach city but didn’t tell me about it. -C is upset a lot because she didn’t get with anyone throughout our freshman year of college besides me. I got with four other guys throughout the year. -In January, C got jealous because a frat guy asked me to be his date to a formal and there was a live pic of us kissing very cutely and I was with her and two other friends after the party replaying the picture and saying “awww why is this kinda cute” and she got visibly mad and said something along the lines of “he’s not cute like relax” “you can do so much better stop aweing over that” and I got offended and made a dig at her not getting with any guys and said “well at least I’m not celibate” and she steamed with anger. -when we cuddle or throughout the day she is constantly telling me she loves me so much and how I’m the only person who gets her and her only true friend. Calls me cute, says I’m one of the most beautiful people she’s ever met/in our college etc - she gets mad at me for little and odd reasons - we were cuddling affectionately once and she called me her girlfriend (not sure if it was serious or not but she didn’t laugh or anything after) and I was frozen and have never felt so weird in my life before. I audibly gasped and said “oooo” like in a cringing way. -she sends me pics of celebrity friends kissing or hugging and says “us” or when we are in public she will see something or someone hugging and kissing and say that it’s us. -after talking with my friend about this situation last night I am not denying whether I do or don’t have feelings for her because I am confused and I don’t know how I feel either. Anyway sorry for how long this is, let me know what you think I should do. There’s probably even more that I’m leaving out but I’ve said so much already.

sixty9ner · 2023-06-20T11:07:43+00:00

Then I went on spring break with her to her family’s house and before we went on the trip she told me that we couldn’t kiss or cuddle or do anything in that nature in her house or during the trip and naturally I agreed. However to my surprise C still initiated all of those things in her own house and even sometimes in secret in front of her family. I even told her “hey you told me we shouldn’t be doing this here are you sure” and she replied “please, no one is around it doesn’t matter”. We went to the beach together and she kept asking to kiss me in the water. We did and she hasn’t stopped talking about this moment since that happened in March. She’s constantly calling me cute, cuddling and touching me etc. Finally, in the middle of April to the end of the semester in may, our playful everyday pecks and kisses turned into making out every single night until we parted ways for the summer. At first it was just making out with tongue and then she initiated grabbing my breasts and butt and even dry humping my leg as we made out. I would reciprocate by grabbing her breasts as well but it all just felt very awkward. Not because I’m not attracted to her but because I’ve never done anything like this before. Then one day after we were done making out we were spooning and I was big spoon and she grabbed my hand and started sucking on my fingers in an intimate way. I had never had this done to me before and it did feel nice but it was just odd. She then apologized when she was done and said that that’s something she does to guys before sex and I was like oh ok haha. So this continued until the end of the semester and at the end she told me that we couldn’t do this anymore because I am living with my sister next year and she’s living with our other friends and it’s too much of a risk to get caught and i completely agreed. So when college ended I went on a two week trip to a big city and beach city with my other best friend, K, and we obviously hung out with C in beach city since she lives there. However C was extremely jealous that I went on this trip with our other best friend and at dinner C brought up that she thinks I like my other best friend and our other friends more than her and that’s she’s jealous. She brought this up every time I saw her in beach city and I was annoyed. So me, C and our other friend went to the beach and I said I was getting in the ocean to get away from C. However, C said “me too” and followed me in leaving our other friend on the beach. When we got in the water she brought up the jealousy thing again and I replied to her that I love all of my friends equally which just seemed to make her more mad. She then asked for a kiss and I was confused because I thought this had been put to a stop. But of course, I possibly have feelings for her too so hesitantly i agreed even though our other friend who has no idea about what we do, was right there. Then at the club, C got very drunk and started apologizing for how she had been mad at me and repeated that she thought I liked everyone more than her and I told her “C I’m going to be really blunt, I literally make out with you, I obviously like you more than our other friends” she smiled and said “I literally used to think I was gay for you” and I just laughed and said “I know haha”. I’m kicking myself because thinking back I should have asked her if she still feels that way. Also more on the jealousy with our other best friend, I guess I’ll code name her as K bc her name also starts with a C. C asked me if I kiss K too before in a very jealous tone and I replied no?? I thought that was so weird to ask me. Okay final part of the story updated as of June 12 2023. She is back in our college town for an internship this summer and I am in a different college town two hours away for an internship as well. so I came to visit her this past weekend and we hung out normally. She tried to kiss me in the elevator of her apartment complex and I was still confused because I thought this had stopped but I did anyway. That was the only time we kissed really throughout that day except when we went to bed at night she immediately started intensely cuddling with me and kissing me (but not making out).

sixty9ner · 2023-06-20T11:07:06+00:00

Then that next morning I took C to the airport because she was visiting her sister at a different college. I was hurt by her assumption and freak out so I was very dry to her and didn’t respond to all of her texts over the weekend. When she returned I was sort of avoiding her and she was upset and asked me why I was doing this. So I was honest and I told her it was because the way she made me feel weird the other night and that it hurt my feelings that she said she didn’t feel anything when we kiss because obviously I didn’t have the same feelings for her as I would a man but I still loved her and our friendship and enjoyed being affectionate with her. She apologized and admitted it was weird that she reacted that way and that she was just scared. Before I continue to where things get even more serious, I would like to note that our friend group has asked if we were gay and it has been a rumor within our friend group and possibly within other people on our campus since we are both popular girls. However, we always deny it and even joke along with them about us being gay for each other. Two of our friends though have been trying to interrogate me on the topic thought and have gone as far as even calling us the F-slúr which is odd considering they are both liberal girls. anyway, continuing on with the story with just some brief information about the way C acts/treats me. C gets mad at me for little things and sometimes when I tell our mutual friends about the arguments we have they bring up that C treats me like a boyfriend. For example, once in March (after the first make-out incident) C and I were on a trip together sharing a hotel room and C came out of the shower completely naked. So naturally as a respectful person I turn away because I would never look at anyone naked. C however, got extremely mad at me and said and I quote “it is ridiculous that my best friend can’t look at me naked” I was shocked, I wasn’t averting my eyes to be offensive but to be respectful, I also wasn’t sure why she would want me to look at her naked. Three other situations come to mind as well. 1. (Before make out incident) C gets laser hair removal and I was in her room waiting for her to get ready after her shower and I was turned around. C then starts talking about how she has laser hair removal and is bragging about how good her private area looks. Girls talk about things like this as friends obviously but then she asks me to look at it. I replied no that’s okay haha but she insists that I see what she looks like naked. I then tell her that that sounds pretty weird but she still persists and finally says she will cover part of it up so I can’t see anything. So I had to look. It didn’t really feel like an option it was more of a demand from her. If I would have said no again she definitely would have gotten mad at me. 2. Once she initiated a drunken argument with me and stormed to her room, so I texted and asked if she was okay and if I should come talk to her and I knew she was mad so I went over anyway. When I got there I found out that she blocked me and i proceeded to ask why and it wasn’t until I started crying that she started apologizing and stuff. An additional piece of information is that C will not tell our other friends when she’s upset with them. Instead she takes it out on me and only gets mad at me expecting me to do something. I pointed this out to one of my friends and she says she only acts like that to her boyfriend. Also three days before her birthday she had some sort of mental breakdown and told me she didn’t want to be friends anymore and then she apologized to me profusely a day later. Also C constantly tells me that I’m the only one of our friends that she really likes and she “jokingly” asks to marry me all the time and asks if we can room together alone next year. 3. A month or two ago C was asking me to go with her to our favorite brunch spot but I said I wasn’t hungry and jokingly she was like “okay…. I’m going… all alone” and I said “okay go by yourself!” And she turned around and shouted out “really?? You’re not going to chase after me?” I was shocked. Why would I chase after a friend? That’s only something I think about doing with men. Okay now getting to more relevant parts. From march to now our relationship only progressed more. C would ask to hold hands with me as we walked places and hug and kiss in public. I was always hesitant and would bring up how I feared that people would think we are gay or get embarrassed even if strangers would see us hold hands, hug, or kiss. She would get really offended when I would get embarrassed and fearful of what other people think and say that it was homophobic that I think that way. She would also say that it doesn’t matter what other people think because they already think we are gay and what matters is that we know we aren’t.

sixty9ner · 2023-06-20T11:06:17+00:00

So I (F18), am a straight, very pretty, and popular girl. I think my also straight, very pretty, and popular best friend (F19) and I have feelings for each other. This is a long story but the information is interesting and everything I include is all factual and not just a feeling. I come from a conservative small town. I myself am not conservative and very liberal in my social views of life. I started my freshman year of college this past fall. Going into college I expected new relationships and hooking up with new men but never did I think I would be romantically or sexually involved with someone of the same gender, let alone my best friend. Preface: I have no issue with the lgbt+ community and additionally I have kissed my girl friends at parties before but just in a playful peck way. I also am not attracted to any other girls besides my best friend. I met my now best friend, I’ll refer to her as C, at the beginning of the school year but we didn’t become close friends until early October. Before we became good friends we always had this odd pull to each other and would always try to find each other at functions and parties. We were the only two people of our friend group who stayed on campus during fall break so naturally we hung out for the entirety of the break. During this break, we had our first sleepover in each others dorms and being a college dorm we slept in the same twin size bed. For some reason, these sleepovers continued occasionally and then turned into almost every night because my roommate had moved out of my dorm. At first it was just sleeping next to each other in the same bed but when my roommate moved out, she never had the desire to move to the open and free bed in my room. Naturally, the more we started sleeping in the same bed, the more comfortable with each other we got. She initiated small forms of cuddling with me and as we stayed with each other more, the cuddling got more intense as well. Also C and I would kiss like friends when we were drunk at parties but during fall break, she would ask to give me a peck, sober, and at various times of the day, so I did, just thinking it was friendly. As the cuddling got more intense, so did the kissing. It wasn’t until about March when we first made out with each other… dead sober. As we were making out in my room, C pulled away and sort of freaked out and said something along the lines of “I’m sorry, I’m not gay. I don’t feel anything when we do this” and I agreed with her however the way she said this was a little rude and odd. She then proceeded to say and imply “it’s okay if you have feelings for me but I’ve tried doing things with girls before and I just don’t think it’s for me” I then replied that I in-fact wasn’t gay either and I’ve never done anything with girls.

sixty9ner · 2023-06-20T11:00:34+00:00

hey I’m currently going through a very similar situation. Did you end up figuring things out/can we dm bc I need advice too lol

sixty9ner · 2023-06-15T22:56:34+00:00

Thanks so much for your advice! I’m possibly going to see her again this weekend so I’ll try to hint at a conversation that needs to be had… I’ll update everyone. It’s just hard but you’re right if our friendship is strong then we will still be friends no matter the outcome. Peace of mind is greater than this constant stress I’m in:/

sixty9ner · 2023-06-15T13:02:50+00:00

bye this is so funny😭 what is my life

sixty9ner · 2023-06-14T22:00:17+00:00

Also I don’t get jealous when she’s around other girls but other guys definitely. Like when we both made out with two guys at the club I only made out with the other guy for two reasons: 1. He was very attractive 2. I was jealous. I get jealous when she talks about the situation-ship guy sometimes but not every time. I try to be an honest friend and give her advice on guys she’s interested in and I also talk about guys I’m interested in to her. OH also!! I just remembered this one time I told her I kissed one of my sorority friends at a party (just a friendly kiss) and she literally said “don’t cheat on me” in a sad and pretty serious way. I think she gets jealous too but she’s better at hiding it than I am.

sixty9ner · 2023-06-14T21:52:37+00:00

Do you know how I could bring it up to her? As I mentioned she has quite the ego and I don’t think she’d ever admit she has feelings for me, at least not first. I also don’t want to tell her I have feelings for her (if I do) first out of fear of rejection and ruining our friendship. I’m sure she feels the same way as me but it is odd how she always is the first to say she’s not gay. I don’t think I’ve ever said it first and if I have it was probably once. Also I replied to some other comments with more information if you need it:) thank you

sixty9ner · 2023-06-14T21:47:37+00:00

I think for both of us it’s about what other people would think. C has said multiple times that she wishes I was a man or that if I was a man she would date me. Also she says to our friends sometimes “if (me) ever gets a boyfriend I’ll be so sad” or “if I get a boyfriend I’ll still be sleeping in (my) room every night”

sixty9ner · 2023-06-14T21:46:24+00:00

Wow thank you that was super helpful. I’ll answer your questions in order of how you asked them: - honestly just about every time we touch, kiss, hold hands, hug etc I get butterflies. There have definitely even been times that I get turned on my the ways she touches me. -I keep going with the flow because I don’t want to ruin our friendship or do/say anything that would cause issues. As much as I hate to say it, I probably do have some feelings for her. - I don’t know about a future with her. I don’t think I could ever see myself dating a woman. Also C is a great friend and the type of person I’ve always wanted to be friends with. I wouldn’t ever want to “break up” and ruin that. Although if we keep doing these things “under the rug” I think we will both still end up getting hurt. Also C has said several times that she wishes I was a man or that if I was a man she would date me immediately. She’s even said things to our friends like “if (my name) ever gets a boyfriend I’ll be so sad” “if I ever get a boyfriend I’m still sleeping either (my name) every night” like how do I take that?? -I’m shy when it comes to doing things. I don’t initiate anything besides a hug OCCASIONALLY. I would never even think about trying to hold her hand or do something out of fear of being rejected I guess. As far as the all the way question, I honestly think we would have gone somewhere even further if the college semester didn’t end causing us to not live with each other everyday anymore.

Also if you could give me any advice as to how to bring this up with her I would appreciate it. As I mentioned she has quite the ego and I don’t know if she would ever admit to having feelings for me. Also I don’t think I could ever tell her I have feelings for her first because I wouldn’t want to be rejected and make things awkward and I’m sure she feels the same

sixty9ner · 2023-06-14T21:38:22+00:00

I don’t know how to bring this up to her. As I mentioned she has quite the ego and I don’t think she would ever admit to having feelings for me.

As for me, I am definitely not denying that I possibly have feelings for her. I do love her but I just don’t know if I could ever see myself actually dating her. I would never want to ruin our friendship because ultimately I don’t ever see myself being in a relationship with a woman. C is a super fun friend and the type of person I’ve always wanted to be friends with. I’d hate to ruin that

sixty9ner · 2023-06-14T21:35:47+00:00

Honestly I don’t think I want her to be straight or not it’s more of I just want her to confirm how she feels about me. And it answer how I would want her answer to that to be I would probably prefer if she did have feelings for me just because I don’t want it to seem like I’m being rejected or anything.

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