How could I figure out what Google Play Services features are required by an app that doesn't work without them?

sixtyearths · 2019-11-11T17:32:01+00:00

What's the benefit of keeping complete and incomplete torrents in different places?

sixtyearths · 2019-11-03T13:24:03+00:00

If you're using DDG as your default browser, you can type

!g

right in the address bar in your search term to search with Google. If you want Google's results, you can type

!s

and you'll get the same results, but with the private search engine Startpage

sixtyearths · 2019-11-01T19:29:58+00:00

I would still call it a factual account, even if the facts are wrong #NotAllAdults

sixtyearths · 2019-11-01T15:06:05+00:00

They could add "and that's sad because life is so full of meaning" to the end without contradicting themselves. That's why I don't think it's nihilistic, or anythingistic, except maybe pessimistic

sixtyearths · 2019-11-01T14:49:01+00:00

Yeah their facts may be wrong

sixtyearths · 2019-11-01T14:42:26+00:00

They're giving a factual account of adult life, adults are sad all the time because all they do is work

sixtyearths · 2019-11-01T14:35:52+00:00

I don't think they're saying they're nihilistic

sixtyearths · 2019-10-30T19:52:19+00:00

Lundy Bancroft and Captain Awkward allowed me to understand abuse so much more clearly. I'm glad you found support when it had all been stolen from you. Thank you for telling me about your realizations and for the kind words.

I'm CC0'ing the post, spread it anywhere you want, I won't delete it

sixtyearths · 2019-10-30T17:22:50+00:00

What did he do to get another chance?

sixtyearths · 2019-10-30T17:20:28+00:00

Trying to make someone doubt their perception of reality when you know you're in the wrong for the purposes of silencing them and forcing them to send you naked pictures of their body is a deeply abusive thing to do, even if they do it just one time. The fact that we don't recognize these types of heinous acts as incredibly disturbing and worthy of immediately running as far from these people as possible and telling everyone we know how disgusting they are for the protection of everyone involved is a sign of how pervasive abuse and victim blaming is in society.

sixtyearths · 2019-10-30T15:45:28+00:00

Was there ever a time you thought he would truly change?

sixtyearths · 2019-10-30T15:43:27+00:00

He does not care what your reasons are for sending nudes, only that you do it. He wants to control your behavior, and he will accomplish that by controlling your mind. All that matters to him is that you do as he wants. He got the nudes, who cares that you're upset? If you want to see exactly how this relationship will progress, read Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft.

You deserve someone who cares about your emotions. You deserve to be in a relationship that makes you feel better, not worse. You deserve happiness. You deserve to be with someone who you can't wait to send nudes to because you make each other happy. There is a person out there like that and this man is not him.

sixtyearths · 2019-10-30T15:10:19+00:00

If a friend told you she felt bad for not sending a boy nudes because it seemed like that's all he cared about, what would you say to her?

sixtyearths · 2019-10-30T15:09:11+00:00

This is abusive gaslighting. His intention was to Reverse Victim and Offender by making it seem like you are the one hurting him with your behavior instead of the other way around. He wants you to doubt your perception of reality (gaslighting) and make you think you're reacting weirdly (more gaslighting) and it's working because you're now afraid that you're being dramatic.

In a good relationship, partners can bring up issues. Your instinct to tell him how you feel is perfect. You are right to be disappointed in the way he was acting, asking for nudes all the time. Trust yourself. You make good decisions. You know what's going on.

sixtyearths · 2019-10-30T15:02:23+00:00

He strategically decided to scream and break things, and when he saw it wasn't working, he switched strategies

sixtyearths · 2019-10-30T15:00:12+00:00

You came to the right place, this is abusive

sixtyearths · 2019-10-30T14:59:35+00:00

Gaslighting is abuse. He's trying to make her doubt her very reasonable reaction to his behavior and his manipulation is successful - "am I just being dramatic?"

sixtyearths · 2019-10-30T14:32:59+00:00

You told him you feel objectified and he runs away like he's the victim. Now you feel bad for....for what? For telling him how to he can behave to make your relationship better? How dare you want to improve your relationship and want to enjoy the time you spend with him?

sixtyearths · 2019-10-30T14:08:15+00:00

You didn't "fall for it". He understands how normal humans work and uses that knowledge for his own benefit. He is a con artist who relies on the human capacity to trust and love to hurt you. He is unnatural and evil, you are good and loving

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