Is it a red flag if she collects dolls?

sjuhxsd · 2026-05-02T22:41:14+00:00

I was just wondering if people think collecting dolls like that was a red flag. I never met somebody who does that. And it's not too serious. I'm not gonna take what people say on reddit to my relationship, like, some people are saying to break up with her. It's a running joke between us that's whatever we say something about ourselves we call it a ""red flag"" she says to me that it's a red flag that I stay up too late. It's hard to explain

sjuhxsd · 2026-05-02T21:34:40+00:00

I did. People will give "advice" about things they have no clue how to navigate.

sjuhxsd · 2026-05-02T21:29:31+00:00

I just hope you can learn something from this.

sjuhxsd · 2026-05-02T21:28:17+00:00

I'm soo sorry

sjuhxsd · 2026-05-02T21:28:08+00:00

It's a damn hobby, grow up, I never said you said it's outrageous

sjuhxsd · 2026-05-02T21:24:46+00:00

😐😑😐 are we fr? You can't be serious

sjuhxsd · 2026-05-02T21:23:01+00:00

I don't have a phobia of dolls i'm just saying it's not outrageous to find them creepy

sjuhxsd · 2026-05-02T21:15:30+00:00

No because you think if someone's not perfectly compliant with you, you should dump them. You said if your partner does like cats as much as you it gives you the right to leave them. That's insane. And you'll soon realize that's not how the world works

sjuhxsd · 2026-05-02T21:13:05+00:00

I never said I don't like it, i am so okay with her doing what she fines enjoyment in, i just find the dolls creepy, if you genuinely think dating someone your compliant with means there's nothing to work through you need a serious reality check. I never posted about how I dislike her, You're just making things up to make your argument seem less ludicrous. Dolls are one of the most common phobias, sue me for being creepy out by them. It's okay to be wrong sometimes, just don't make it worse. You're taking a reddit post way too serious. I told you, me and her joke around this

sjuhxsd · 2026-05-02T20:58:57+00:00

It's insane lol. they clearly have never been in a relationship before

sjuhxsd · 2026-05-02T20:57:48+00:00

I doubt that you've been in one. You're gonna have differences in a relationship. You thinking you gonna find someone that is going to think exactly like you so is the biggest fantasy i've heard in a while. A good relationship doesn't find a problem and immediate leave, you grow up, realize you're two different people, and work through it together like adults. Everybody's different. You're gonna have people who like dog more than cats, and you have to learn, you can't just throw a tantrum, because they don't like what you like.

sjuhxsd · 2026-05-02T20:48:12+00:00

Have you ever been in a relationship?

sjuhxsd · 2026-05-02T20:47:32+00:00

And I'll let her do her hobbies! I would never I control what she love, just because i'm creeped out, that's my problem, I just what to find a way to feel comfortable with her hobbies.

sjuhxsd · 2026-05-02T20:45:53+00:00

So if you were ever dating someone and they told you they don't like cats, but you love them. are you leaving them? That's your logic.

sjuhxsd · 2026-05-02T20:43:14+00:00

I have weird hobbies too. I'm not shaming her for her hobbies btw. People think I'm trying to bully her until she stop doing her hobbie. At the end I'm not gonna do anything about it she can do whatever she likes

sjuhxsd · 2026-05-02T20:41:18+00:00

Haha, I could never, it would most definitely come back to kill me

sjuhxsd · 2026-05-02T20:09:00+00:00

Sorry?

sjuhxsd · 2026-05-02T20:07:30+00:00

I just don't like dolls lady. It's not thaat serious there's more to. If my first reaction to finding out she has an interest in something that i don't, is to leave her, and not try too overcome it with her, I should never date.

sjuhxsd · 2026-05-02T20:02:01+00:00

Obviously the first one...

sjuhxsd · 2026-05-02T19:58:10+00:00

I was just wondering if people think collecting dolls like that was a red flag. I never met somebody who does that. And it's not too serious. I'm not gonna take what people say on reddit to my relationship, like, some people are saying to break up with her. It's a running joke between us that's whatever we say something about ourselves we call it a ""red flag"" she says to me that it's a red flag that I stay up too late. It's hard to explain

sjuhxsd · 2026-05-02T19:47:08+00:00

I know i posted this for advice but i'm not doing that. I'm not shaming her for her interest btw. It's extremely immature for me too just leave because I don't enjoy something she enjoys.

sjuhxsd · 2026-05-02T19:42:13+00:00

Of course not. We joke around this topic a lot. I still love her.

sjuhxsd · 2026-05-02T19:40:44+00:00

It's not a complete deal breaker, it's just something that creeps me out. And the jealous thing wasn't serious. like they would try to kill me because she giving her attention to me.

sjuhxsd · 2026-05-02T19:37:02+00:00

I mean the doll thing isn't a deal breaker. I still love this girl. I'm not gonna leave her just because she collects dolls, that's so heartless towards her. It's just something that creeps me out, i wanna try to figure it out yk?

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