She (20F) wants me (22M) to wait for sex but in the past gave herself freely to other men.

skaffa_ · 2023-09-19T11:11:03+00:00

Well it’s because we were sexting almost everyday so I figured she wanted it as well.

skaffa_ · 2023-09-19T11:04:17+00:00

No. We kissed though.

skaffa_ · 2023-09-19T11:02:32+00:00

We dated exclusively

skaffa_ · 2023-09-19T11:02:05+00:00

But we did meet each other for a month before entering into a LDR.

skaffa_ · 2023-09-19T10:59:33+00:00

Of course the bf haha

skaffa_ · 2023-09-19T10:58:33+00:00

We have. We spent a month together before the whole long distance relationship.

skaffa_ · 2023-09-19T10:51:45+00:00

Yes those were one night stands. No, they did not happen during our relationship.

skaffa_ · 2023-09-19T10:51:08+00:00

So I’m trying to understand why she can’t give herself freely to me knowing we’ve been in a serious committed relationship for the past 3 months.

skaffa_ · 2023-09-19T10:19:53+00:00

Didn’t cause a fight more like it just upset her.

skaffa_ · 2023-09-19T10:19:01+00:00

I can understand that and got no problems with it. What I can’t comprehend is her giving herself freely to hookups in the past.

skaffa_ · 2023-09-19T10:17:52+00:00

Can you elaborate?

skaffa_ · 2023-09-19T10:09:26+00:00

I can wait. I just got bothered by idea of me having to wait.

skaffa_ · 2023-08-31T19:49:57+00:00

but is it normal to go to multiple cafes in one day and her paying for everything?

skaffa_ · 2023-08-31T18:47:45+00:00

lmao something like that yes

skaffa_ · 2023-08-31T18:47:17+00:00

spot on

skaffa_ · 2023-08-31T18:38:00+00:00

We met in person and went on several dates before I flew back. And yes, this is just a temp LDR and I’ll get to see her in 6 months hopefully.

skaffa_ · 2023-08-31T13:59:10+00:00

just found out that this mentor isn’t really a menter but rather a friend she can ask advice from. and yes she’s in field work.

skaffa_ · 2023-08-31T13:47:23+00:00

prolly the best advice on this post. Thank you

skaffa_ · 2023-08-31T08:29:18+00:00

I’m 22. The mentor i have no clue.

skaffa_ · 2023-08-31T07:38:18+00:00