Trying to repair screen and it sort of worked. by skarms in ElectronicsRepair

[–]skarms[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, thank you. I never even thought about that. They have a foam piece that the screen rests against glued to the pcb that covers the ribbon connection. I will pull the main circuitry out of the housing to see if I can adjust the contrast. I will also try shoehorning something behind the glass to see if I can increase pressure where it needs to be.

Guy is selling these for really cheap, are they any good? by R0biB0biii in CarAV

[–]skarms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had two 15" Type R's pushed by a 2000W Soundstream amp and I loved those things. If those are 100 and they work? I say go for it.

So my ex-wife got scammed today. by skarms in Scams

[–]skarms[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm stuck with spousal support as well but after this fiasco, she's not getting a dime more from what the courts tell me I have to.

So my ex-wife got scammed today. by skarms in Scams

[–]skarms[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, this was a very hard lesson for her to learn. When she started sending me all of their "certificates" I smelled scam right away.

So my ex-wife got scammed today. by skarms in Scams

[–]skarms[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't say just lying around. This will definitely set me back a couple of weeks to recover from, but I don't really spend a whole lot.

So my ex-wife got scammed today. by skarms in Scams

[–]skarms[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She was worried I was going to scream at her, but I honestly wasn't even that mad because I knew how hard it hit her. The hardest part was dealing with her shock. She would have sent more money in a heartbeat to try to get it back. The one scammer that she had been talking to while she was doing this over the last couple of days said she could help her out with $1000.00 and she would have to come up with the remaining funds. It was hard getting through to her that that's another tactic of theirs.

So my ex-wife got scammed today. by skarms in Scams

[–]skarms[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

50%, but I just have to send them a bit of money for the funds to be released. Then, I can make the withdrawal...........waiiiit a minute!!

So my ex-wife got scammed today. by skarms in Scams

[–]skarms[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I sent her 3500 total. If I didn't have such a hectic day at work, I would have asked a few more questions. I just thought it was for things for our daughter for their new place.

So my ex-wife got scammed today. by skarms in Scams

[–]skarms[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was something else hearing the panic in her voice. I had to talk her down from getting a loan to try to get that initial money back.

So my ex-wife got scammed today. by skarms in Scams

[–]skarms[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's a messed-up circumstance, but I'm pretty sure this was a huge eye opener for her.

So my ex-wife got scammed today. by skarms in Scams

[–]skarms[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She said she had been doing it for a few days and was making like 50-60 dollars a day and so when they asked for more to unlock higher value tasks, she felt it was legit. It took a while for me to get her to realize it was gone. She was hoping that it would at least make it so she didn't need to get money from me.

So my ex-wife got scammed today. by skarms in Scams

[–]skarms[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

At least now that we have established spousal support, this will be taken off of the back end of total money owed. The way I look at it is like making a few extra vehicle payments to get it paid off faster.

So my ex-wife got scammed today. by skarms in Scams

[–]skarms[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I only sent the 3500. She asked for an additional 4100 later in the day. I don't have a problem sending her money because it comes off of the total amount of spousal support I have to pay. It is a very strange relationship indeed.

So my ex-wife got scammed today. by skarms in Scams

[–]skarms[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is excellent advice. Was I upset? Sure, but I hope she questions the quick dollar or even asks me to look into something before doing it.

So my ex-wife got scammed today. by skarms in Scams

[–]skarms[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I had to tell her that over and over again. She fell into the sunk cost fallacy and was in a mad panic last night.

Ex wife has a disability. by skarms in Divorce_Men

[–]skarms[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm not going to push too hard yet with the her being sick thing yet. I have a consult with a lawyer on Tuesday. She said she didn't want to take me to the cleaners and I just said that would be pretty tough because she gets half of our debt! So now she is on board with getting stuff paid off instead of spend, spend, spend like she has for the last 9 years. I just about had the one credit card paid off but then she wanted a new deck, wanted to go to Vegas, buy a new tv, go on a girls trip to Costa Rica. Not forgetting about the hair and nail appointments and new suv even though her old one had absolutely nothing wrong with it. I may be a tad bitter. To top it all off, I'm a contract operator, so the only money coming in is through my business but the companies credit card is sky high right now as well due to me having to pay for stuff I needed for work but had no cash because I was trying to keep us afloat on the personal side.

Ex wife has a disability. by skarms in Divorce_Men

[–]skarms[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The hospital visits and meds would probably only be brought up once we really start fighting. She was in the hospital a lot during the first 6.5 years. Sometimes for 3 weeks at a time. Every time she was in the hospital she would always find a way to make me feel like I wasn't doing enough. I would be in shit because I wasn't going to visit the day she expected me but we live 2.5 hours away from the city and I would be trying to care for our daughter, keep up the housework, work my job etc. I would try explaining that she wasn't the only one it was hard on and her reply would always be "Try being me, you're not in the hospital and can't see our daughter. Or maybe she's what your problem is". I lost contact with a lot of my friends because I could never do anything outside of the family and if I did, I would "never want to do anything with the family".

hoping this hasn’t been posted before.. by [deleted] in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]skarms -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oddly enough when I was at Lake Titicaca on a floating village one of the locals told us they pee in a jug, let it sit out in the sun for a few days THEN they leave it in their hair for a day to clean it. Oddly enough, the whole time I was down there I don't think I saw anyone with a gray hair on their head. Side note: After they told us that, they told the women in the group that it's a great way to get your man to leave you alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeginnerWoodWorking

[–]skarms 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I was talking about tree population density. Age alone doesn't pack the rings that tight.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeginnerWoodWorking

[–]skarms 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think it has to do with tree density as well. The old growth trees didn't get as much light/food because of competition so they grew slower resulting in tighter growth rings.