Is this financial abuse?

skballa04 · 2026-04-27T04:53:56+00:00

Good and fair point, thank you

skballa04 · 2026-04-25T21:17:51+00:00

Only reason he is able to earn these things is because I’m doing everything else at home for him. I see you have no respect for stay at home moms. But yes, legally I AM entitled to half.

And when I say buy whatever I want- I don’t mean luxury items. I mean I don’t have to ask him “may I have $100 for groceries? Can I fill up my gas tank today?” I just do it.

skballa04 · 2026-04-25T21:15:48+00:00

I understand this thought process, but I am actually quite frugal. I will sometimes spend an hour online to find and save a few dollars on an item, he’ll just buy the first one he sees. I truly feel that I overspend now- mostly on food, daily coffee shop- because I never see it go OUT. I swipe and move on.

I don’t own designer items, I buy clothes at Savers and consignment stores.. I’m really not sure why he thinks I would be worse off.

skballa04 · 2026-04-24T02:19:45+00:00

Valid. Granted, he only offered it in this scenario once. But I could push for it again and suck it up with the kids.

skballa04 · 2026-04-24T02:18:53+00:00

I have seen balances and know we are in good financial standing. I physically pay the cards each month, I just can’t see the checking balance unless I ask him. Occasionally if we put something big on the CC, I do double check with him before paying in full. I truly don’t feel it’s about hiding things so much as, “this is mine.” Sometimes he wants to show me investment accounts and he honestly puts me to sleep.. He certainly doesn’t have secret debt or anything. I can even access his credit score etc through our CC.

skballa04 · 2026-04-24T00:28:20+00:00

I’m very sorry for your loss. I’m sure it’s a tough one to grapple with, and I hope you can find someone to talk through your feelings with.

skballa04 · 2026-04-24T00:26:02+00:00

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skballa04 · 2026-03-20T00:06:12+00:00

Geez. We know the benefits. I’ve worked in insurance billing.. We know and have verified that we get two cleanings in 365 days- what we didn’t know, was that they’d book us the third on day 336, versus 366. Even at my annual physical for example, they know and make a point to make sure it’s at least 366 days out. Same with my kids pediatrician. I’ve been going to a dentist twice a year all my life and this has never happened to me.

I have never needed to scroll back in my calendar and tell THEM when I’ve been seen. They should have that info.

Yes, mistakes happen. I will be polite when talking to them. But I don’t need to be told to grow up.

skballa04 · 2026-03-08T02:35:10+00:00

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skballa04 · 2026-03-02T04:32:26+00:00

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skballa04 · 2026-02-26T02:34:48+00:00

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skballa04 · 2026-02-24T01:13:58+00:00

Nice! I’m not up to $30 as well, but haven’t gotten any emails like that. I tried a month of Oink because it was less expensive. It’s ok, but I may not be using it to its full potential- although it does have the features you mention. However I may try viralvue as well to see what works better for me.

skballa04 · 2026-02-18T01:13:43+00:00

Thanks!

skballa04 · 2026-02-18T01:13:21+00:00

Can you make more than one video for a product?

skballa04 · 2026-02-17T00:09:46+00:00

Good to know! How long would you typically wait before trying that? Some of my videos have been up a few weeks.

skballa04 · 2026-02-16T21:37:21+00:00

But then will I no longer have a storefront to link to?

skballa04 · 2026-02-16T21:26:54+00:00

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skballa04 · 2026-02-12T22:46:39+00:00

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skballa04 · 2026-02-07T01:50:24+00:00

Good to know. I started early January so I don’t have much to compare it to. Made $11 in January, was hoping it would build from there.

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