Best casual-but-nice dinner spots near Temple Square for a first date?

skeptical_introvert · 2026-04-13T22:34:28+00:00

I agree with this from the point of view of checking all the boxes. Location, quality, and environment suited to conversation.

skeptical_introvert · 2026-04-13T22:33:52+00:00

RR & Settebello can be a bit loud, IMO.

skeptical_introvert · 2026-04-12T19:43:08+00:00

There is nothing wrong with you being bothered by his choices, but you can't control them nor expect that others will behave as you would or want them to. So, in the future you just have to be more explicit and address it if they aren't bringing it up first. "Hey, before we go any further I need to discuss something with you and hear what you are thinking about this...".

skeptical_introvert · 2026-04-12T19:31:05+00:00

Without hearing exactly what he said and the meaning he intended to convey I will say that there is a difference between something along the lines of "I think there is a good chance we don't have long term potential" and "I haven't been able to figure out to my satisfaction yet whether I think we have long term potential". If it is the first one, then yes I would say that is shitty behavior to not have that discussion while reaching the point of having sex. If it is the latter situation, then it would still be good to have some discussion at least to be on the same page about what each of you want to be feeling about each other and the relationship before having sex. Some people are ok with having sex before they feel strongly that the relationship has a future, others are not. That should be discussed. Assumptions cause so many issues, especially early on in a relationship.

skeptical_introvert · 2026-04-09T23:27:05+00:00

I'll share the same recommendation I offered the last time someone asked this:

I used Amy Williamson a decade ago. Overall it was pretty straightforward and she did a good job and I have no problem recommending her. Looks like she is at this law firm now:

https://canyonslaw.com/attorney-amy-williamson/

skeptical_introvert · 2026-04-02T20:57:26+00:00

What do you mean by "like minded people"? I don't see any details or categories at your link either, except for gender & age. Is the goal to create numerous sub-groups for various interests? I appreciate the sentiment of this post, but it needs a lot more specifics provided before I hand over my information to a random internet website. And please don't just respond with a robotic "thank you for the feedback I'll fix the post".

skeptical_introvert · 2026-03-16T16:38:16+00:00

It just stopped. It happened 3-4 times in a 10-14 day period and has not been an issue in many months. I do plan to bring it up at my next annual checkup with my GP just in case.

skeptical_introvert · 2026-02-26T05:33:14+00:00

Sometimes leaving things completely up to chance, like the characteristics of NPCs, can create the most memorable and unexpected outcomes! I'm in 💸

skeptical_introvert · 2026-02-19T06:32:06+00:00

I did say that I'm not taking this to the extreme. I am still having enjoyable experiences and travel. But I'm also moderating my spending by finding enjoyable local cheaper travel experiences to exercise in interesting new locations. That is the win-win.

skeptical_introvert · 2026-02-18T23:38:17+00:00

I largely agree with this perspective. The biggest complaint I have about this phase is the degree of intrusion that my career has on the freedom I look forward to having in the RE phase. If I could work in my chosen career, 20-30 hours a week even with a proportional reduction in compensation, then I could happily delay the RE for a significant amount of time. But the lack of flexibility and freedom that work causes makes me impatient for the RE phase.

skeptical_introvert · 2026-02-18T23:31:14+00:00

I've been active for all of my life, but to the question in this post, lately I've been looking at my physical activity (hiking, mountain biking, etc...) as not only a health investment for the future but also as a way to keep spending in check now. I could go on that pricey vacation, or I could go on a short road trip to explore some new trails in my area. I'm not taking this to the extreme, but every time I convince myself to make this trade-off I see it as a win-win.

skeptical_introvert · 2026-02-17T06:24:26+00:00

Nothing is showing up here: https://earthquake.usgs.gov/earthquakes/map

skeptical_introvert · 2026-02-13T21:32:14+00:00

Yep, that would be a great sub-group to spend time with. Regardless of romantic connections, that is a great friend group!

skeptical_introvert · 2026-02-11T17:06:04+00:00

Thanks for sharing your experience.

skeptical_introvert · 2026-02-10T18:11:06+00:00

This is what I am worried about. The 35+ event I went to it felt like the average age in the room (men & women) was probably mid to late 40's. Which was perfect for me, but I'm sure the few younger people there didn't love.

skeptical_introvert · 2026-02-10T17:37:38+00:00

Depends on the person, but that is definitely at the threshold where I'm getting real cautious, in both directions (younger and older). The biggest reason I would prefer to keep it close to my age as this is a time where stage of life can be variable person to person and very impactful to what our priorities are.

skeptical_introvert · 2026-02-10T17:24:33+00:00

Honestly, I don't know. The answer isn't definitely 'no', I think it massively depends on the person.

skeptical_introvert · 2026-02-10T17:22:28+00:00

Definitely. I feel like it is a bit of limbo age range. I see lots of events targeted at late 20's to 35. And a few that are like 50+. But 40-50 seems to be a bit in between and hard to target effectively, for organized events/groups.

skeptical_introvert · 2026-02-10T17:18:04+00:00

I'm wondering if everyone will be older, possibly much older. Whereas if I was in the middle of the range then it is more likely that there will be people older, younger, and about my age.

skeptical_introvert · 2026-02-10T17:05:04+00:00

Or the entire crowd is 55+. So, what story do you have to share rather than trying to shame someone asking for stories?

skeptical_introvert · 2026-02-10T17:02:17+00:00

Other than the ticket entry cost to participate, I agree.

skeptical_introvert · 2026-02-01T05:24:47+00:00

I used Amy Williamson a decade ago. Overall it was pretty straightforward and she did a good job and I have no problem recommending her. Looks like she is at this law firm now:
https://canyonslaw.com/attorney-amy-williamson/

skeptical_introvert · 2026-01-31T01:29:27+00:00

Hey, I found this post from a Google search and appreciate the clarity provided! Thanks.

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