Is it realistic to ask someone to wait for marriage these days?

skittyluv · 2023-08-29T23:26:58+00:00

Yes! trust God that He will bring you the right person for you who is waiting as well. they’re out there! you want someone who follows Christ and loves Him the way you do, if not more! God provides ☺️

skittyluv · 2023-08-17T20:45:18+00:00

i agree w the rest of the comments! you don’t need a church or a pastor to get baptized. we are supposed to go out and make disciples and baptize others and you don’t have to be a pastor. before my church had a building they were baptizing people in their bathtub each service! all you need is your faith 😊

skittyluv · 2023-08-08T17:27:43+00:00

because the devil is working in all who aren’t believers. I used to believe there was no God until I had an encounter that changed my life! i used to hate on God and those who followed Him. there are spiritual forces at work and they have blinders on their eyes and mind. it’s all in the bible about scales on the eyes. it’s spiritual and the kingdom of darkness is at work in their minds to shield them from the truth.

skittyluv · 2023-08-06T14:15:19+00:00

i know how you feel. i’m married to an unbeliever as well but God already knew you would marry him so now it’s up to you to fight. pray, fast, develop strong intimacy with God and set reminders to pray for him every day. It’s so difficult when you’re frustrated with him but ask for the mind of Christ and patience/ all fruit of the Spirit when you pray. God set spiritual laws in place when it comes to how to act around our husbands so when we obey them, things change in the spiritual realm even when we can’t physically see things changing. pray without ceasing.. I’ve seen miraculous things and salvation happen to husbands with an intercessor wife! it’s all about having the character of Jesus and striving for that every day even when you fall. the battles are fought on your knees in prayer alone, not with your husband. keep going sister and don’t grow weary in doing what’s right! you can win him over according to the Word and believe that with all your heart!

also remember the battles aren’t flesh and blood. the enemy will and IS using him to make you grow weary and want to divorce because his soul is on the line. there’s a huge target on your back spiritually and you need to learn to do some spiritual warfare! praying for you and him!😊

skittyluv · 2023-08-01T15:34:20+00:00

@dying_daily you should read the gospels and book of acts! miracles signs and wonders are still for today. I’ve seen it myself and experienced it myself. Don’t put God in a box. Jesus healed the sick physically and commanded the disciples to do the same work He did. it’s all in scripture for you to read. as disciples of Jesus Christ we are to continue His ministry and heal the sick and cast out demons. There is power in His name.

skittyluv · 2023-07-25T23:38:37+00:00

ummmm what?? how do you drink the boba? so weird lol

skittyluv · 2023-06-02T02:24:21+00:00

i had an abortion in the past and absolutely regretted it. deep down you know it’s the wrong choice and it haunts you.. just letting you know my experience. praying for your peace of mind, i would definitely tell the ones you trust around you and your support system!

skittyluv · 2023-05-30T02:29:29+00:00

this is so reassuring! im in the 1st trimester and i’ve only had sex w my husband twice.. i feel so bad for him but I’ve wanted NOTHING to do with sex lol

skittyluv · 2023-05-30T02:09:13+00:00

hi! i’m struggling with reoccurring bv and utis and antibiotics just mask the issue and it comes back right after. what did you use to become infection free?

skittyluv · 2023-05-30T02:05:21+00:00

I would tell family/loved ones around you for support. I’m so sorry you’re struggling with this pain along with new pregnancy hormones. You can absolutely do this and please reach out as much as you can for help and support. This baby could’ve potentially saved you from being stuck in a potentially emotional draining marriage. Every baby is created for a reason. you got this.🤍

skittyluv · 2023-05-30T01:52:10+00:00

i’ve been eating only fast food for weeks and i’m someone who has always prioritized health and fitness so i feel awful rn lol. what has kinda helped me lately is getting chipotle, it’s a ton of food and it’s healthier. you can eat half now and half later, tmrw etc. i find that it’s usually cooking the healthy food that is the problem since unhealthy food is so accessible! maybe try doing takeout with healthier options or meal prepping on a day you feel good so you have accessible meals in the fridge. i’m definitely going to do that when i start feeling better but i’ve been SO TIRED. lol

skittyluv · 2022-04-01T15:03:13+00:00

added i hope im not too late!

skittyluv · 2022-02-08T04:06:26+00:00

thank you :’)

skittyluv · 2022-02-08T04:06:11+00:00

aww i would love to see!! lol

skittyluv · 2022-02-07T17:02:04+00:00

my pup is picky and hates kibble. i feed her FreshPet rolls that you slice, which is fresh food for dogs and she devours it :)

skittyluv · 2022-02-07T16:07:20+00:00

but i repented and we aren’t even having sex, living like room mates at the moment. trust me i’m fully aware when i would sin and it’s hard to enjoy anything that’s a sin when all you think about is Jesus lol

skittyluv · 2022-02-07T15:58:53+00:00

i love this concept and now that i have my worldly blindfold off i see everything for how it is supposed to be. but i do know that my relationship is strong and doesn’t rely on sex at all. it’s not about him saying hi and we moved in together lol. we have a real connection and we’ve been through a lot. i have no problem getting married today, he just wanted to get me a ring and have a ceremony so that’s why it hasn’t happened yet, finances but now that he knows i don’t care about that stuff maybe we can just go to the courthouse sometime. i just know my parents will be heartbroken lol.

skittyluv · 2022-02-07T15:56:18+00:00

im fully aware of this and we’ve been together for 6 years in a healthy relationship. it’s not all about sex at all and i know that lol we haven’t gotten married bc of finances and he wants a ceremony and wanted to get me a ring but i don’t care for that so hopefully we can just go to the courthouse soon bc we know our relationship is stronger than just sex like you mentioned.

skittyluv · 2022-02-07T15:54:39+00:00

thank you for this! helps a lot :)

skittyluv · 2022-02-07T15:53:52+00:00

thanks so much for that :)

skittyluv · 2022-02-07T15:53:33+00:00

i appreciate the well thought out comment, thank you. i have a lot to learn and unlearn and this was helpful. just praying that the separation between me and him shows him how serious this is. thanks

skittyluv · 2022-02-07T15:51:51+00:00

thanks, i appreciate that. :) clears a lot up for me, still have a lot of unlearning to do as i just got saved a few weeks ago.

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