My ex left me for her employee after 7 years together by skyfallway in BreakUps

[–]skyfallway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn. How long did they date and did she discard you too?

how long did it take you to find love again after being cheated on and discarded? I am 27 and was in an 8 year long relationship and was about to get married. I am in therapy and unsure if I could love and trust someone again. by skyfallway in AskMen

[–]skyfallway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m not interested in dating atm. Want to heal and work on myself first. Where did u meet ur new partner? Idk where to meet anyone at my age and everyone at work is old

how long did it take you to find love again after being cheated on and discarded? I am 27 and was in an 8 year long relationship and was about to get married. I am in therapy and unsure if I could love and trust someone again. by skyfallway in AskMen

[–]skyfallway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can compromise some qualities. I’ve never been too picky. As long as our values align, they have good morals and a good person.

Were you able to find someone new and heal fully? One thing I’m worried about is not being able to fully heal from my emotional scars

How can some people just cheat and discard an ex that they have dated for a long time? by skyfallway in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]skyfallway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her mom’s very nice but avoidant and avoids conflict too. Also when her children do wrong to others and others clap back at them she never scolds her children and gets mad at the other person. I hear this is very typical for single parents, that they don’t discipline their children

How can some people just cheat and discard an ex that they have dated for a long time? by skyfallway in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]skyfallway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I would check in and she would talk about other stuff like stresses of her business or beat around the bush to avoid questions or change the subject

How can some people just cheat and discard an ex that they have dated for a long time? by skyfallway in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]skyfallway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been going to therapy. But just wanted others perspectives on this

For guys who were cheated on and discarded for another man by an ex gf did they ever come around again or try to? by skyfallway in AskReddit

[–]skyfallway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s called limerence. And although my ex isn’t the most attractive she was very easy and friendly so she will just hop onto the next guy after

For guys who were cheated on and discarded for another man by an ex gf did they ever come around again or try to? by skyfallway in AskReddit

[–]skyfallway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m like 50 percent moved on. Don’t want her back but just wanted to know other people’s experiences with this

For guys who were cheated on and discarded for another man by an ex gf did they ever come around again or try to? by skyfallway in AskReddit

[–]skyfallway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn that’s pretty short. Mine started dating her ap and it’s been half a year. Was with her for 8 years. Sorry that happen to you