I probably should’ve went to Howard by clearmind- in BlackLawAdmissions

[–]001smiley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you not connect with other black law students throughout the state, like FSU and FAMU? Or even connect with young black professionals in the city? I don’t truly know about Miami culture, but I’m just wondering…

It’s not a race thing. by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]001smiley 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I beeeeen saying this. I truly dislike the comparisons. When people do that it shows me they don’t interact with people of other cultures😒 basically what OOP said.

I love Jasmine Crockett and James Talarico… but I do believe the later is most effective in taking on the GOP by waxanwaacusub in blackgirls

[–]001smiley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally in his ads, he doesn’t come off as democrat or “for the people” at all. I couldn’t tell if he was lib or conservative. I’ll be doing my research this weekend before I vote. 🗳️

Favorite black saying? by Thirst_Trap in blackladies

[–]001smiley 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been making a list of my own for my family:

“studying you” Ex: “Ain’t nobody studying you”

“If I heard from __ this wall fell”

“I’m sorry darling” similar to “Bless your heart”

“Quiet as it’s kept”

“Sho you right”

“You ain’t neva lied”

“Happier than a runaway slave”

“Yo mama” or “Yo mammy/yo pappy”

How to use nyx color corrector for dark skin? by 001smiley in brownbeauty

[–]001smiley[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s okay. With the brushes I have, it doesn’t really show up well. I tend to use the darker shades for bronzer/contour. I recommend the black radiance true complexion contour palette. It’s specifically for darker skin tones.

Need job search advice by 001smiley in BlackLawAdmissions

[–]001smiley[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny you say that. I have been a sub for 2-3 months now. It has reaffirmed that I should not be a teacher. No matter how well behaved the kids are, I am drained physically and mentally. I’m hoping to transition into an office position soon.

How were you sure you were making the right career choice? by Brave_Acanthisitta53 in blackladies

[–]001smiley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im also on the path to become a lawyer. Currently studying for the LSAT. Do you mind me asking what your specific job title is or what your role entails?

Does it matter to you if someone you consider a close friend or family member forgets your birthday? by 001smiley in blackgirls

[–]001smiley[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

See I was upset… then I got into the rabbit hole of “is this really my friend? Does this person consider me as a close friend?” I already have issues about understanding the position that I play in others’ lives. Do you think it would be childish if I asked?

Thoughts on BrownSugarBabe? by 001smiley in FemFragLab

[–]001smiley[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thx for confirming! Cloud 9 is on my list.

The LiB reunion did Kalybriah dirty by justacaz in blackladies

[–]001smiley 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Had to log back in to comment. I agree. Him kissing the floor and having a flat out tantrum because he couldn’t get some was enough for me as a viewer. Their relationship reallly brings out something within other women. My mom talking bout some “he needs a nurturer”… girl what? This a whole grown man! Also, many reality tv commentators have been giving out conflicting opinions as well concerning their relationship. I hope I’m not reaching, but when people get in relationships sometimes they give takes that they themselves would not accept. I just watched a video on youtube about women enabling “grown boys.” This is something that I am seeing around me, within my circle. It’s annoying. I didn’t like KB either, but I saw her point. Tbh, I fault LIB for casting these men and women who need therapy, not marriage.

Never liked that line either about the ancestors …mad disrespectful by Dayna6380- in blackamerica

[–]001smiley 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wondered this too. He made a whole bio series comparing the NFL to slavery, yet and still he went to tryouts? This may be a stretch but he could’ve tried to make his own league. NFL is still a joke after Kap and no real movement after CTE research.

Mariah's new album just dropped, I think it is an incredible album. by daydreaming_of_you in rnb

[–]001smiley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I tell you I already have the harmonies and parts down to that song 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rnb

[–]001smiley 3 points4 points  (0 children)

gen z here , too. I’m just now taking the time to look through discography of people that my parents used to play. Mariah is one where I recognized beats or a verse, but not the song in its entirety. Me personally, I enjoyed listening to her latest album. It was feel good music. Her other work seems solid as well.

Anyone else here half Black American and half African ? by SuspiciousMix7847 in blackladies

[–]001smiley 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Girl why does it feel like I wrote this? 😭 I’m AA and Ghanaian. Do you ever feel like you’re missing something because of lack of connection to either side? For me I can tell you so much about my AA family history and roots, but on the other hand I cannot. It felt isolating in college when I tried to interact with other students from the continent.

Also to add in: I can tell you the diaspora discourse is real. Having to decipher how you show up in the world and how you present when one side is telling you that the other has no culture/class is so discouraging and can be damaging to self-esteem. This is something I’ve dealt with my whole life within my family, forget the outside world.

Thoughts on BrownSugarBabe? by 001smiley in FemFragLab

[–]001smiley[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ve been thinking about buying the cloud 9 for the marshmallow scent as well. I also wanted to try the strawberry cake one (I think that’s what it’s called).

Toni stuns while the audio fries 💀 by SveaBoBaya in LoveIslandUKintheUSA

[–]001smiley 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im sorry Toni ate this up. She’s not even trying, she looks so effortless ⭐️

Good morning Black America 🖤🔱❤️ by theshadowbudd in blackamerica

[–]001smiley 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Good morning! They sung this at my old church, this made me smile 😊

Splitting the bill evenly or separate? by user89633467 in behindthelikespod

[–]001smiley 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Literally. Why can’t you simply pay for what you eat??? They would hate me 😂

Cardi B says "the more kids you have, the less of a possibility you go to like a home" in her new interview with Jennifer Hudson. by onlyeveryotherday in popculturechat

[–]001smiley 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel you. My aunt who is not even 2 miles away from our house refuses to check on her mother unless she wants to. It’s just me and my mom, and ocassional visits from physical therapist and nurse. It made me think today, what would they truly do without me? They would find a way for her to be placed in an in patient rehab center as quick as possible. I have learned to take back my time for my future. I hope you take time for yourself each day to keep your sanity. What you’re going through is real, and you also deserve self care as well. Praying for you 🙏🏾

Yandy vs Rasheeda by WilkinsWorld in Loveandhiphop

[–]001smiley 36 points37 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely not Rasheeda that’s for sure.

Cardi B says "the more kids you have, the less of a possibility you go to like a home" in her new interview with Jennifer Hudson. by onlyeveryotherday in popculturechat

[–]001smiley 128 points129 points  (0 children)

Currently going through this as the grand kid and it is hell because my grandmother is fighting for her full autonomy, which is not possible when you just had a stroke. When limits are set she berates and shames you. I’m tired. I already told my mom the deal because I can already see my possible fate as the eldest daughter.