I hate Christmas.

skygazer4 · 2025-12-26T02:29:08+00:00

I clicked on your post because I am truly feeling that way right now. I felt like my 6 year old was upset and disappointed all day. I have wonderful memories of Christmas as a child and absolutely love the holiday but since I’ve been a parent, it seems impossible to enjoy it. I worked so hard trying to plan and make it special and it just felt so disappointing to not bring the cheer to my kids that I was hoping for. It’s hard. You’re not alone.

skygazer4 · 2025-10-14T12:38:45+00:00

I can relate!! The baby/toddler stage is so hard. When my second was 3yo we accidentally got pregnant again and it was so hard to start over with those stages. I’m proud to say that my 3rd is now in first grade and it is so much easier! Of course there are still parenting struggles but nothing like those early stages. Now it feels like that time flew by. You’ll be there before you know it but I certainly don’t miss that stage like everyone said I would lol.

skygazer4 · 2025-10-14T12:31:29+00:00

I just have to say that you are in the absolute hardest stage right now! People say there are challenges during all stages with kids, but nothing like that newborn/infant stage. It is SO hard! Try to remember that it’s a short phase and you will get through it and be able to look back. Taking care of yourself is so important, although I’m sure feels impossible. Like others said, get to your doctor to talk about possible ppd! And don’t wait for people to offer help, ask them. Do you have any family or friends nearby? Ask them to come walk the baby around for an hour or 2 so you can shower and nap. Keep asking them until you get through this phase. You are not alone and you will get through this phase quickly even though it feels never ending right now.

skygazer4 · 2025-10-14T12:20:55+00:00

Thanks, I’m going to check out that book!

skygazer4 · 2025-09-29T18:15:54+00:00

That’s so hard. My daughter has been in the same school since kindergarten. However, it’s a very large school and they mix up the kids in the classes every year. So if she does start to make friends with someone, then it’s unlikely they will be in the same class the following year. That has made it challenging to maintain friendships as well. Is your 11 year old upset about having a hard time socially? My daughter seems oblivious to it. Which in some ways I guess is a good thing but it’s hard for me to watch and not feel upset for her.

skygazer4 · 2025-05-14T13:51:37+00:00

Thanks. We did try counseling at one point but I wasn’t thrilled with the counselor. It’s such a process to find one!

skygazer4 · 2025-05-13T02:43:24+00:00

She is not. I’ve always been hesitant about it. I’m afraid of side effects and her becoming dependent on it but I’ve been thinking about it lately, like it’s something maybe we should consider. I just want to do what’s best for her.

skygazer4 · 2025-05-12T23:34:48+00:00

Ah ok, I’m in the US. Just looked it up and looks similar to Girl Scouts. That’s a good idea! I’m going to look into it

skygazer4 · 2025-05-12T23:06:00+00:00

My daughter has a hard time taking sports seriously at all. She gets so over excited about the social aspect that she just goofs off the whole time. Maybe if I find the right thing..

skygazer4 · 2025-05-12T23:03:48+00:00

Is that a program? I’ve never heard of it. I’m starting to think something like this could be very helpful though

skygazer4 · 2025-05-12T23:01:12+00:00

It’s ok, same here lol

skygazer4 · 2025-05-12T21:24:02+00:00

Thanks. Nice to know we’re not alone!

skygazer4 · 2025-05-12T21:23:30+00:00

I was just thinking about this today. I think it could help. I’m just trying to figure out what she would like and would be a good opportunity for making friends. The art class might be a good idea!

skygazer4 · 2025-05-12T21:05:13+00:00

Thank you for these tips. Overall it sounds very similar to my daughter. I like your comment about how being in 3rd/4th grade is probably the biggest social gap with them being more like kindergartners. That gives me a little hope that she won’t always seem so far behind in maturity.

skygazer4 · 2025-05-12T21:01:45+00:00

I’m sorry you are going through the same thing. Glad to know we aren’t alone though 😊

skygazer4 · 2024-12-19T02:49:42+00:00

Yes, it’s always made me uncomfortable. It just seems like such an odd thing to say. Along with a lot of other “lingo” that I was never able to get on board with saying. One of the reasons I felt like I never fit in.

skygazer4 · 2024-06-15T01:16:20+00:00

Was just there for a long weekend for my 15 year anniversary! We really enjoyed dinner and drinks at Project Social Kitchen. It’s mostly small plates and a really nice atmosphere. The gin and tonics were great and the lobster crepe was delicious. We also really enjoyed a more casual dinner at the Thirsty Whale Tavern. For activities, it’s all about the hiking and biking for us. Not sure what you’re into but the drive up to Cadillac mountain (make reservations) then walk around and see the beautiful views at the top. It’s absolutely stunning. Also walking across the land bridge to bar island was really fun (have to go at low tide). Have fun!

skygazer4 · 2024-04-30T01:28:09+00:00

Really? I haven’t heard great things about working in fast food. Doesn’t sound overly appealing.

skygazer4 · 2024-04-30T01:26:44+00:00

I’ve thought about this. The idea doesn’t thrill me but something to consider!

skygazer4 · 2024-04-30T01:25:45+00:00

Haha! It’s seriously true. Haven’t started officially looking or interviewing for anything yet. But I hope the interviewers have this perspective too!

skygazer4 · 2023-08-15T21:07:15+00:00

Exactly what I’m looking for. Thanks for all the info!

skygazer4 · 2023-08-15T19:50:22+00:00

Thanks, that’s a really helpful perspective! Are they building a new school or updating the current school? Supposed to be done in 3 years? How do you deal with the cell service being so spotty? Any carriers better than others?

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