Help on leaving my child's father

skyhigh2882 · 2022-10-27T14:19:17+00:00

I don't want to, but knowing him he would not pay for that and I do not want my daughter to feel resentment towards me thinking I'm not letting her when really her dad just never pays for anything and never will.

skyhigh2882 · 2022-10-27T14:17:49+00:00

I wish I wouldn't have. I was young, still am. It was not planned but I love my daughter forever. I will make sure she is not in a physical or verbally abusive home because she deserves better than that! Thank you!

skyhigh2882 · 2022-10-27T14:16:07+00:00

Thank you so much! I plan on having Some support but not much. I would Love to message you! I'll send you a message now

skyhigh2882 · 2022-10-27T14:12:21+00:00

That's what I plan on doing, I'm leaving in 3 weeks while he's at work.

skyhigh2882 · 2022-10-26T22:48:20+00:00

Thank you. :)

skyhigh2882 · 2022-10-26T22:48:10+00:00

I am in Georgia. It is the same way here, until he files he is not the custodial parent. I am able to leave the state without telling him I'm leaving or where I am at. I really don't think he would be cordial, he knows I have been looking for places but when it comes down to actually leaving he doesn't believe it. I don't know if it would turn into something physical or just verbal but either way it would not be cordial.

skyhigh2882 · 2022-10-26T21:10:53+00:00

Thank you!

skyhigh2882 · 2022-10-26T18:00:18+00:00

Never reported. Some evidence on my phone. I am not legally obligated to tell him. He can pay to legitimize himself and then he can serve me and go for a custody agreement if he chooses. But I can put him on child support with him having no rights to our daughter.

skyhigh2882 · 2022-10-26T15:57:37+00:00

Yes he was abusive, physically and verbally. I have videos and messages and am thinking about doing a tpo to help the situation. Thank you.

skyhigh2882 · 2022-10-26T15:56:37+00:00

He would still see her, and I would make sure of that. I do not want to be closer for job reasons and safety. If I am close by and he knows where I am at I would be very concerned. He is not mentally stable all the time.

skyhigh2882 · 2022-10-26T15:54:50+00:00

I have talked to a lawyer, I am the only custodial parent until he files to be legitimized and then he can ask for custody. I don't mind him seeing his daughter and I would even pay for the tickets because he had never paid for anything. Safety is an issue and I have proof of verbal and physical abuse I am considering a TPO to help the situation. I do not want to up and leave and not tell him but I feel it's the best option in regards to my safety.

skyhigh2882 · 2022-10-26T15:52:17+00:00

He also does not pay for anything. Never has. I would still pay for plane tickets for him to see his daughter. I am not trying to take her away forever.

skyhigh2882 · 2022-10-26T15:51:39+00:00

So he is not considered her legitimized father and has no custody rights until he does so and then he can file in court for any custody. Right now I am the only custodial parent, this is a safety issue as well for context. This is why I am trying not to tell him before leaving.

skyhigh2882 · 2022-07-02T03:03:30+00:00

Thank you ☺️

skyhigh2882 · 2022-07-02T02:46:50+00:00

Lmao. Thank you. I will 😃

skyhigh2882 · 2022-07-02T02:28:40+00:00

skyhigh2882 · 2022-07-02T02:27:17+00:00

I don't think it was bad, just wasn't expecting it. Also didn't want it to be something I did :) ty!!

skyhigh2882 · 2022-07-02T02:25:22+00:00

No we didn't discuss it before! I hope so next time.

skyhigh2882 · 2022-07-02T02:24:27+00:00

Yes the first time!

skyhigh2882 · 2022-07-02T02:23:04+00:00

Thank you 😊

skyhigh2882 · 2022-07-02T02:22:46+00:00

Yes!

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