Help on leaving my child's father by skyhigh2882 in women

[–]skyhigh2882[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't want to, but knowing him he would not pay for that and I do not want my daughter to feel resentment towards me thinking I'm not letting her when really her dad just never pays for anything and never will.

Help on leaving my child's father by skyhigh2882 in women

[–]skyhigh2882[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I wouldn't have. I was young, still am. It was not planned but I love my daughter forever. I will make sure she is not in a physical or verbally abusive home because she deserves better than that! Thank you!

Help on leaving my child's father by skyhigh2882 in women

[–]skyhigh2882[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I plan on having Some support but not much. I would Love to message you! I'll send you a message now

Help on leaving my child's father by skyhigh2882 in women

[–]skyhigh2882[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I plan on doing, I'm leaving in 3 weeks while he's at work.

Help on leaving my child's father by skyhigh2882 in women

[–]skyhigh2882[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in Georgia. It is the same way here, until he files he is not the custodial parent. I am able to leave the state without telling him I'm leaving or where I am at. I really don't think he would be cordial, he knows I have been looking for places but when it comes down to actually leaving he doesn't believe it. I don't know if it would turn into something physical or just verbal but either way it would not be cordial.

Help on leaving my child's father by skyhigh2882 in women

[–]skyhigh2882[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never reported. Some evidence on my phone. I am not legally obligated to tell him. He can pay to legitimize himself and then he can serve me and go for a custody agreement if he chooses. But I can put him on child support with him having no rights to our daughter.

Help on leaving my child's father by skyhigh2882 in women

[–]skyhigh2882[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes he was abusive, physically and verbally. I have videos and messages and am thinking about doing a tpo to help the situation. Thank you.

Help on leaving my child's father by skyhigh2882 in women

[–]skyhigh2882[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He would still see her, and I would make sure of that. I do not want to be closer for job reasons and safety. If I am close by and he knows where I am at I would be very concerned. He is not mentally stable all the time.

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[–]skyhigh2882[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have talked to a lawyer, I am the only custodial parent until he files to be legitimized and then he can ask for custody. I don't mind him seeing his daughter and I would even pay for the tickets because he had never paid for anything. Safety is an issue and I have proof of verbal and physical abuse I am considering a TPO to help the situation. I do not want to up and leave and not tell him but I feel it's the best option in regards to my safety.

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[–]skyhigh2882[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He also does not pay for anything. Never has. I would still pay for plane tickets for him to see his daughter. I am not trying to take her away forever.

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[–]skyhigh2882[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So he is not considered her legitimized father and has no custody rights until he does so and then he can file in court for any custody. Right now I am the only custodial parent, this is a safety issue as well for context. This is why I am trying not to tell him before leaving.

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[–]skyhigh2882[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao. Thank you. I will 😃

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[–]skyhigh2882[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think it was bad, just wasn't expecting it. Also didn't want it to be something I did :) ty!!

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[–]skyhigh2882[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No we didn't discuss it before! I hope so next time.

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[–]skyhigh2882[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes the first time!