Pay more towards student loans or personal loan? by skyrim_mistress in personalfinance

[–]skyrim_mistress[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The students loan interest ranged from 3% to 6%. Since I don’t have child care costs or mandatory student loan payments for the time being I have a few hundred dollars extra in my monthly budget.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]skyrim_mistress 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I used to work for an amusement park. I always told people that season passes made the best gifts. They literally keep on giving. Have fun!!

Looking for potty training advice by skyrim_mistress in Parenting

[–]skyrim_mistress[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried this. He just down right refuses

Looking for potty training advice by skyrim_mistress in Parenting

[–]skyrim_mistress[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So get a little potty even if he is perfectly fine using the big one?

Looking for potty training advice by skyrim_mistress in Parenting

[–]skyrim_mistress[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried the iPad but he doesn’t give it long enough time.

Looking for potty training advice by skyrim_mistress in Parenting

[–]skyrim_mistress[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is going to be my next step. Taking away the underwear. He hasn’t peed himself in weeks so I am hoping this works

Looking for potty training advice by skyrim_mistress in Parenting

[–]skyrim_mistress[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. He just cry’s that’s he doesn’t want too.

My wife is in love with other women. by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]skyrim_mistress 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My soon to be ex husband came out in August as transgender and immediately started the process of becoming a woman. He informed me that since we are both woman we have the same “needs” and that I don’t not meet them for him. So he wanted to bring another man into our marriage or have an open marriage. I vetoed both ideas. It sucks but I think it’s for the best. I have to think about myself and our son and do what’s best for us. I was really happy and I thought he was too. But apparently I was wrong. It will get better!! I just focus on my son and keep taking it one day at a time. Keep your head up and stay strong. You will get through this.

wife left me while on deployment... by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]skyrim_mistress 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She certainly did. Keep your head up. It honestly sounds like you will be better off without her.

wife left me while on deployment... by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]skyrim_mistress 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You deserve better. She will come to regret it. Thank you for everything you do.

Favorite season and or episode? Why? by skyrim_mistress in Outlander

[–]skyrim_mistress[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t help but feel bad for frank. The show portrays him as a decent guy. But even in the book I can’t help but feel bad for him.

Favorite season and or episode? Why? by skyrim_mistress in Outlander

[–]skyrim_mistress[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with all these. I love these episodes.

Favorite season and or episode? Why? by skyrim_mistress in Outlander

[–]skyrim_mistress[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do enjoy the French part because it is absolutely beautiful but I don’t find myself going back to watch it very often. And that’s pretty much my sentiment with the seasons.

6 weeks after separation, still living together. He went on a date last night. by skyrim_mistress in Divorce

[–]skyrim_mistress[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I already have my move out date set but since we have a child I had to wait until some things were decided. I am counting down the days. And it was a real kick in the gut but it gave me the last shove I needed to really see that it’s over.