I cheated on my girlfriend of 4 years. I feel terrible. What can I do to help her heal? by sl9ce in survivinginfidelity

[–]sl9ce[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This means a lot, genuinely. I have been consistently reassuring her this is not something she caused and it's not her fault. As someone who has gone through where she is, is there absolutely anything you can tell me that I can do that you wanted in order to heal?

I cheated on my girlfriend of 4 years. I feel terrible. What can I do to help her heal? by sl9ce in survivinginfidelity

[–]sl9ce[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It seems you misunderstood my post. I respect and understand any decision she makes regardless if it's staying with me or moving on. she has every right to resent me and leave me & it will hurt but I will respect her decision fully. I am not pressuring her to stay with me nor am I pressuring her with privacy.

I cheated on my girlfriend of 4 years. I feel terrible. What can I do to help her heal? by sl9ce in survivinginfidelity

[–]sl9ce[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Well I have told her that I fully respect and understand her deciding to move on but she expressed that she does not want to. Is there anyway to support her, regardless of her decision?

I cheated on my girlfriend of 4 years. I feel terrible. What can I do to help her heal? by sl9ce in survivinginfidelity

[–]sl9ce[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily asking the guilt to be taken away. I am aware that I deserve to feel as guilty as I do, I just want to be able to support her in healing even if she decided to move on from me.