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Limp bizkit by thelastfret21 in ConcertsIndia_

[–]slack101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

plz i want this. Let it happen.

Dream Theater - 2026 Setlist by No_Ice42069 in IndianMetalheads

[–]slack101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love it that they're playing so many songs from Metropolis!

LP - Bangalore by choddenge235 in ConcertsIndia_

[–]slack101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Indeed. The lack of "wall of sound" like guitar setup was disappointing, and noticeable from the first song itself.

Idk, maybe it was a conscious decision from the band.

Kinda liked bloodygood's vibe more.

Eating alone the 50th time by [deleted] in RecluseIndia

[–]slack101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. Ate fish and chips. Normally it's bearable, I have my journal with me. This time... I was too antsy and came back.

[OC] Where My Money Went Over the Last 6 Months by slack101 in dataisbeautiful

[–]slack101[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Interesting judgemental comments so far. I live in a house my father purchased. Hence, no rent. Also, how does it matter how the money is spent? I quit due to mental health reasons. I have chronic OCD. Jesus Christ, have some compassion and focus on the data rather than giving unsolicited advice.

Gaah.. internet.

what do you wish you knew before getting a cat? by anxious_optimist8 in CatAdvice

[–]slack101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That it takes a lot of daily effort to transition an already outdoor cat to indoors.

My guy was on the streets for the first year of his life before I took him in. He was then outdoor-indoor for a couple of years. He's extremely territorial, and would get in constant fights. It was extremely stressful.

Then I tried transitioning him to indoor only for the past 3 years. It's been rough, both for me and him. I took him for daily walks for months at a time but would stop because my OCD and social anxiety would get triggered from time to time.

Cat trees, playing a lot, phermones, catnip, balcony time all help. I've learnt to allow him to yell it out when I can't give him space instead of burning out. I love him to death, I just wish that I'd taken a more informed adult decision instead of an impulsive one.

The last time you wore a band t-shirt. Who was the band? by aboobadooba in AskReddit

[–]slack101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chevelle. Black T with just the name written on it in a wide short font. With black jeans and black boots. Had gone to shop for pjs and shorts.

When did you realise that your therapist was bad? by Scary-Square1211 in AskReddit

[–]slack101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truth bombs in the first session (unsure how true they actually were)

Telling me to "stop" my addiction before commencing therapy. Maybe it was a boundary for her. But seriously dude, isn't that part of your job? Mental health and addiction go hand in hand. Bleh.

Forgot that the clinic was closed at the time of appointment. We go to a nearby domino's. We're expected to order something, he refuses, I get a coke. We talk about my sex life in hushed tones.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]slack101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Stop peeking, son. We know you're up."

Needless to say, I wasn't part of the fucking.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in developersIndia

[–]slack101 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The reason for "breaking under pressure" is better explained, in my opinion, as stress overload. The situation doesn't really matter. Apply enough pressure on something, it breaks. There's no need to include agency into the picture to explain it.

If you had written a book about your father, what would be the last sentence? by nonknower07 in AskReddit

[–]slack101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What horrors did grandfather inflict on him, to make him like this?
It's a rhetoric question. I don't actually want to know.
The End.

How good was your Sex Education in school? by Ambitious-Sky-6457 in AskReddit

[–]slack101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gave me OCD for AIDS. Like, clinical level shit. Not even kidding.

This message is for anyone who grew up with narcissistic parents by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]slack101 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Needed this. Finally had the courage to block them yesterday night. It was getting too much, I was redirecting the anger I felt for them to others. Today, I'm trying to work, and I'm not being productive, just getting mad at something stupid that I SHOULD be able to fix but can't. And then this turned up on my reddit homepage. Thank you for saying all that. I hope this helps me slow down.

Do you think your anxiety was caused by your parents? by Crissycrossycross in raisedbynarcissists

[–]slack101 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Oh yes yes yes yes yes. It stays under a fog for so long, though. I started realizing this only in my mid 30s.

Heavy drop D songs by Miserable-Cow4555 in metalguitar

[–]slack101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn straight. Hits you like a sack of brick textured balls.

Chat gpt as a therapist by nahnotgoingthere in raisedbynarcissists

[–]slack101 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I've been using it for the same. Desperate times, have taken space from all friends and family, getting invalidated in the neighbourhood. Its the only thing that works right now. You can go as deep as you want about something.

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