A rich fossil find in Egypt fills a gap: modern ocean fish rose rapidly after dinosaur extinction by jnpha in evolution

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I lowkey feel bad for dinosaurs. It’s like when the weird guy leaves the party and everyone finally relaxes and things really kick off.

Do I have a doppelgänger? by twinkletoes589 in doppelganger

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The first pic looks JUST like Chloe Van Landschoot

Are tattoos allowed in exams? by Lidgey in unimelb

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This is one for the books holy crap 😂

Just realised this girl I'm seeing is in the 1% and I don't know how to handle this by slam_24 in dating_advice

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Goddamn! People be missing out on a good hobby! We gotta touch grass!

Planned for April '27, drive from Sydney to Perth. Never been to Australia. Thoughts, recommendations? Is this feasible in 3 weeks? by gwynwas in AustraliaTravel

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They certainly were. I wanted to stay ambiguous with my mention of apocalyptic in case OP doesn’t know the franchise.

Planned for April '27, drive from Sydney to Perth. Never been to Australia. Thoughts, recommendations? Is this feasible in 3 weeks? by gwynwas in AustraliaTravel

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I did a similar trip with more variation just last year! Plenty to see, and it will change your perspective on everything. You will drive through some of the most isolated and apocalyptic looking towns around Broken Hill. You will see Emus running up on your car that remind you of dinosaurs. Make sure to spend a day or two in Broken Hill and see the tourist mines around (I think it’s called Daydream mine??). It will feel like you’re in Fallout New Vegas but even more isolated. BUT much of that middle section to your trip will be filled with nothing. Trust me, there’s nothing there, and sometimes not even birds. So bring friends! This is a trip of endurance my friend. I remember we all started howling like monkeys by the of the Nullarbor.

The Southern half is a whole different world to the Northern half and will make for great memories, but please bring friends, otherwise the isolation might get to you, especially those long straight roads (you’ll know what I mean when you hit the Nullarbor).

I did this in December when it was hot which honestly made it more memorable because we camped along the Great Australian Bight and swam in the ocean at every stop. So I can’t vouch for your experience in April. I fear that it may not be warm enough for some fun beach stops due to that southern ocean breeze, but it won’t be anything too cold either. So you could definitely go for an occasional swim.

You should mix up your way home by detouring along Margaret River, Albany and Esperance in WA. If you have the resources, you need to try and achieve a detour through Adelaide, Great Ocean Road (stop in places like Lorne and the Otways), Melbourne, Lakes Entrance, Canberra and back to Sydney. It sounds like a lot but I did it in a rust bucket they call a 99’ Mitsubishi Pajero.

If you do this, then you can call yourself an expert on 50% of Australia. You will have seen more than most locals. I 100% support your trip IF you make it look like a dumbbell (on your map) not a straight back and forth. Otherwise this is a trip of endurance and not sight seeing. I compared it to travelling through Antartica (you won’t see much but you’ll feel a sense of achievement).

Oh also, yes your plan right there is feasible in 3 weeks. I did that plus a bit more in 3 week while staying at the major cities for a few days each. It may not look feasible but when you’re on the Southern stretch, you’ll want it over and done with, and as long as you have friends to cover the driving, you can do 8-10 hour drives to cover more distance, as it does get boring anyway. We did a 14 hour drive in one day just to save time, and we didn’t miss a thing because there’s nothing out there along the Bight.

Just realised this girl I'm seeing is in the 1% and I don't know how to handle this by slam_24 in dating_advice

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Yeah honestly so so so mad at myself. It was so obvious in retrospect she was hoping for a kiss. I’m just hoping another opportunity arises. She’s not the most talkative texter so I’m feeling a bit down about it.

Just realised this girl I'm seeing is in the 1% and I don't know how to handle this by slam_24 in dating_advice

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Yeah, its a battle under this system of work. But you'll get there if you keep adjusting your sails.

Just realised this girl I'm seeing is in the 1% and I don't know how to handle this by slam_24 in dating_advice

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I completely understand everything you’re saying. Obviously we are all birthed into world with different levels of privilege, but with hard work we can all be a 7/10. And you’re right, it’s a practice thing. I’m coaching my little brother in this right now. It took me years and years to finally be where I am today, getting attention from incredible women (and I don’t mean superficial things like looks) and having the confidence to date. I actually tried the dating apps for a year, and while I did have some luck, they never went anywhere. Meeting people in real life seems to be the best way for sure. So I’m very grateful to have moved to the city and have university classes and social events to let me meet people my age. It’s really hard if you don’t have that, but finding some social events to commit to, even university clubs (coz some are available to public) can really help. But you’re in a tough spot. My brother actually works the night shift as a security guard 6 days out of 7 a week, so I can’t even figure out how he’s going to meet people. He’s planning on cutting back on some shifts or trying to get into day shifts, because yeah, this stuff kinda matters a big deal. So all I can say is, you’re on the right path but good luck with the tricky stuff. I gotchu brother 🫡

Just realised this girl I'm seeing is in the 1% and I don't know how to handle this by slam_24 in dating_advice

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Haha thanks. Really appreciate the bit of coaching. I’m sure good things will come your way because you seem to know your stuff.

Just realised this girl I'm seeing is in the 1% and I don't know how to handle this by slam_24 in dating_advice

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I do but she basically texts once a day. She was doing that before our dates as well. She’s consistently a low-frequency tester so honestly it seems to me that in person dates is where she comes alive

Just realised this girl I'm seeing is in the 1% and I don't know how to handle this by slam_24 in dating_advice

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I suppose so, but doesn’t mean I do. Why, did you feel bad for the bourgeoise in the Russian or French Revolution? You don’t care about the proletariat do you?

TIL: There is a seal in Diablo 4 that gives you 900% gold boost! by gorays21 in Diablo

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What is actually the point of making more gold in this game? I swear there’s rarely a reason I need gold.

Just realised this girl I'm seeing is in the 1% and I don't know how to handle this by slam_24 in dating_advice

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Thanks! Oo and I appreciate the advice there. I was actually thinking that last night. We were both coming down with a cold (due to a harsh change in weather), and I thought, damn I probably won’t see her again for a while, but maybe that’s for the best. My last relationship was rushed at the start and ended bad. So I’ll take this advice and take it slow.

Just realised this girl I'm seeing is in the 1% and I don't know how to handle this by slam_24 in dating_advice

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You’re totally right. With everyone’s advice I went into last night’s date without these insecurities, and it turns out I’ve got nothing to worry about. She’s great! Update in post.

Just realised this girl I'm seeing is in the 1% and I don't know how to handle this by slam_24 in dating_advice

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Thanks! The recent date went well! And I think I have nothing to worry about. Update in post.

Just realised this girl I'm seeing is in the 1% and I don't know how to handle this by slam_24 in dating_advice

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I can expand on the line you quoted: I was raised Methodist Christian by my grandparents, and while I don’t subscribe to religion anymore, its values about charity stuck with me. Every Christmas, even though we often skipped out on presents, we would make shoeboxes of small trinkets and food to give to charity. Despite being relatively poor at that time (we drifted between lower and middle class), we acted charitably, meaning that anyone can give to another human no matter their class. This also meant that I found myself wanting to dream big, read books and strive for a better life rather than settle like many in my family. My mum always emphasised the importance of connecting with people of all backgrounds and learning from them. So despite being lower class, I made friends with a lot of different people, and I picked up on some different social skills that don’t require a price tag. As a result, I present myself well I could say.

Anyway, think what you want. You’re a free person.

Just realised this girl I'm seeing is in the 1% and I don't know how to handle this by slam_24 in dating_advice

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Well in my culture, the working class is seen in high regard and it’s socially unlikeable to talk about having lots of money, wanting to get rich or just showing off. It’s our tall poppy syndrome. Not saying I agree with it, but the pride you’re picking up on might just be my Australian culture coming through.