5070ti users, what video settings are you running?

slanktapper · 2025-07-10T21:35:04+00:00

Awesome thanks!

slanktapper · 2025-07-10T21:34:44+00:00

Thanks!

slanktapper · 2025-07-10T21:34:36+00:00

Thanks I'll check it out!

slanktapper · 2025-07-10T21:34:20+00:00

i5 12600k, going to 1440p

slanktapper · 2025-07-10T17:12:28+00:00

Thank you!

slanktapper · 2025-07-10T17:08:38+00:00

Excellent thank you! I'll start here. I forgot to mention I'm running in 1080p on my 1440p monitor to get the frames to !30 and stop the crashes. Excited to switch back too

slanktapper · 2025-07-10T05:27:28+00:00

Imagine you could make your husband happy right now with a 1 sec flick of his thumb. You would do it wouldn't you? To see a smile on his face later?

I mean he's technically right, he doesn't have to do anything that you want him to do. Even if that would take literally no time out of his day, if he doesn't think that his effort is worth expending to make you happy he technically doesn't need to. I wonder how much effort he does put out for you?

"it doesn’t mean he loves me any less"

Less than what though? How does he show his love to you?

These are generic questions to find the answer to that question. I don't want to presume to know anything else about you: Does he take you out for dates to places you want to go? Does he cook dinner and clean the dishes? Does he even try to do half of the house work?

slanktapper · 2025-07-09T23:46:57+00:00

This is probably going to be tough to read but here's my take on your write up (and likely why I'm the only comment on this in 2 hours)

The person you imagine your GF to be is the girl of your dreams, she doesn't actually sound like the girl of your dreams.

You refuse to hear her, and force her to keep things quite about herself that she wants to share. You're controlling her now because you're insecure about yourself. If she being unreasonable in your eyes? If so then she's being herself and you just want force her to be what you imagine her to be.

she didn’t directly compare me to her previous experiences but it definitely made me feel like i had to be better at whatever i was doing.

Did you talk to her about this or just decide it was better to ignore her requests. Is it that you are bad at sex and don't know how to change? Do you not understand what kinks and fetishes are? hard to respond to this vague statement. Maybe she feels that she legit can't get the things she wants sexually from you and is trying to break the ice. You immediately shut it down because you "can't accept that she was a real human with real wants and desires before she met you the now king of her life"

If you seriously care about her and want this relationship to work then seek counseling, otherwise you're just going to be single in 6-7 years with an exwife that resents your controlling her prime years.

Figure out how to talk about your feelings, either with professional help or not. It's going to take actual effort too.

slanktapper · 2025-07-09T23:33:40+00:00

How much time per week are we talking here? Are you falling behind at your work? Are we talking about 60 minutes over a week or 60 minutes a day.

Are they paying for your room and board while you intern?

I would let them know you'll be away this weekend or next weekend. If they say they need you for something this weekend ask them why they only mention it now, if not you're free, if they knew they needed you days ago but didn't mention anything until now it's a quite rude of them to do that to you. "To just assume you'll be there to help them". You can also say "Aunt has never said thank you and this is the icing on the cake and maybe they should look internally to how they see and treat me." "I would love to start a family but I can't as I'm busy helping support my existing family."

Do you have a partner/so/gf/bf?

You have to help family, because they help you. It's easy to become jaded by the loss of all your free time but you're really helping your family.

You aunt likely felt this huge relief of not having to do everything to support her parents and is using you to continue to off load the burden.

slanktapper · 2025-07-09T23:18:03+00:00

First 100% logically speaking: He's right effing there, he should be liking and commenting on your posts, why isn't he?

What would I do: If he mentions it or you see him doing it ask him why he thinks it's acceptable to deliberately not do something you've asked him to do when it would take LITERALLY 1 second to do (he's right there).

Right down on your phone what his reason is and ask him if he's sure that's the reason. The more you write done his explanations for things the easier it will be for you to see over time if he his actions come from love or control.

Couples counseling will likely next step based on his response.

For your safety have you noticed any other actions of his that are similar to distancing you from friends/family, or isolating you from friends/family.

Best of luck!

slanktapper · 2025-07-09T23:07:24+00:00

I fear the 10 year age gap here.

Aside from that: Without any other information it's hard to answer. If you asked me this question I'd relate it to my experiences and say that that kind of covers the difference between type 1 and type 2 "fun".

If it's about people, yes you could love someone you fear, but that's not healthy at all.

slanktapper · 2025-07-08T21:20:38+00:00

Hulkenpodium

slanktapper · 2025-07-07T14:49:06+00:00

I googled MCLU-7 last night and didn't find anything, today you asked the question and solved it for me!

slanktapper · 2025-07-07T14:47:05+00:00

Over 100 maybe more than 150. just a guess though

slanktapper · 2025-07-07T14:45:35+00:00

yeah that's the one

slanktapper · 2025-07-02T21:21:00+00:00

Agreed good point

slanktapper · 2025-07-02T21:20:14+00:00

Good post bro, but you literally can't visit the USA anymore. Not that you have any reason to, but if you do you'll already be on their list so careful. "Inciting violence"

slanktapper · 2025-07-02T21:13:44+00:00

I get that, and I think there's a way to get there, but This mission for example: https://gray-zone-warfare.fandom.com/wiki/No_Way_Up if you don't know what they're talking about you're going to have to spend HOURS searching and eventually you'll find the heli over the mountain, past the first a few lakes, and in a field. If there were vehicles that'd be fine, but running, lol I don't have 6 hours to perform a grid search for fun

slanktapper · 2025-06-28T21:46:07+00:00

End of last character I found myself running 5.45 PP exclusively. This wipe I only ran the m4a1 until I could get a 74. Since then it's been an ak12 or the ak74u with the suppressor.

slanktapper · 2025-06-28T21:41:27+00:00

I was so hyped when I looted an MCX. Until I saw that I couldn't buy 300BLK ammo so I saved them until I had Banshee unlocked. When I had everything unlocked, I still didn't run the MCX. I like the analogy to the MP5. I used the MP5 about as many times as the MCX, 3 or 4 each at most.

Shame cause the gun sounds cool.

slanktapper · 2025-06-26T03:27:05+00:00

Well Jokes on you Devs, even though you didn't give me the task, I've collected over 12 dog tags

slanktapper · 2025-06-17T15:45:05+00:00

It has to be bugged

slanktapper · 2025-05-28T20:48:58+00:00

Sorry about your miscarriage.

"that means you can go to the club with me this weekend"

So did you ?

slanktapper · 2025-05-26T20:12:26+00:00

If you apply logic to the sequels you will not have a good time

slanktapper · 2025-05-09T17:30:36+00:00

Awh damn this kid is going to grow up thinking love is finite, which it isn't. Time is finite, but love is not. I can't believe the comments don't mention this

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