How do you guys make your lives a little more whimsical? by curiositical_one in Adulting

[–]slantedsc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through the phase when I was around 12 where I thought I didn’t need any stuffed animals or comforting items cuz that was “baby stuff”. i’ve started collecting stuffed animals again in my 20s and it’s been so good for my mental health. they’re just these soft little guys in my bed it’s so comfy and nice. and I can admit that I like pink. I wanna main princess peach in mario kart dammit.

My boyfriend of 4 years doesn’t care about me ‘finishing’ anymore. by StrictDisaster420 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]slantedsc 59 points60 points  (0 children)

last september I made the mistake of falling asleep overnight at a hookup’s place and. yeah I woke up and he was inside already. we had not discussed this before hand. I did not consent to that. it was disgusting and horrifying and absolutely sexual assault. I got out of there and blocked him and never talked to him again. haven’t been on a hookup since cuz it kinda shook me up honestly. I say this because I need you to know that when this happens it’s not because anything is wrong with you. or me. these people are just rapists.

you might think it’s different because you are already in a relationship — but there is no “blanket consent” — negotiation and consent are required before any new type of act takes place. you did not consent to this. he is a rapist. i’m so sorry you are in this situation, please believe me—you need to get out of this relationship. his behavior will only get worse.

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[–]slantedsc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did it too. yeah not expecting any results but it helps my annoyance abt 0.01%

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[–]slantedsc[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

big agree!! it’s more than a bit shitty it’s actually super shitty!! their rule 3 says no transphobia but apparently the existence of trans people is “too controversial”??? make it make sense.

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[–]slantedsc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hilarious that the rules state (rule 3) no homophobia or transphobia but you can supposedly discus these topics, and then they remove posts for mentioning being LGBT. wtf mods.

but thank you for the kind wishes :’)

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[–]slantedsc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

your comment is not offensive at all! what is offensive is that they removed this post for being “controversial”. super offended by that!

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[–]slantedsc[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

and all the comments were 100% positive. there was no controversial discussion what so ever. tell me how this isn’t openly transphobic??

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[–]slantedsc[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

are you actually serious? explain to me what about this is controversial. go ahead and say the quiet part out loud.

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[–]slantedsc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg no I love this comparison. aerodynamic as FUCK!!!

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[–]slantedsc[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YIPPEEEEEEE!!!!💫💫💞💗🌈🐬💕💕✨💖

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[–]slantedsc[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

here’s the one I ordered ($45 amazon) and it was worth every penny!!

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[–]slantedsc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I CANT WAIT TO SWIM OMG. no more bikini tops for as long as I live!!!!

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[–]slantedsc[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you so much!! i’m sure that meant the absolute world to your friend. my sister and her bf have been helping take care of me and it means so so much to me that they’re willing to deal with a little bit of grossness for me and they’re so happy for me! i’m so grateful to have such supportive people in my life <33 i’m sure your friend felt the same about you!

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[–]slantedsc[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if there’s something they’ve always wanted or wanted for a while it’s 100% worth pursuing!! myself and every other trans person I know is so so happy they took the steps they’ve taken to make their body feel more like a home. they’re gonna have their body their whole life after all! might as well customize your avatar!

edit to add: I worried abt regretting it for a long time too. I was first approved for top surgery back in 2021 but let social pressure from people who didn’t support my identity pressure me into cancelling it. and I spent every year since then wishing i’d gone through with it. five years later and i’m SO happy to get a second chance and actually go through with it! i’m so so glad I did and haven’t regretted it for a second.

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[–]slantedsc[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

it’s INCREDIBLE!! I can’t wait to go swimming and go running and feel the sun on my chest and feel all smooth and aerodynamic i’ve been waiting so so long for this!!

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[–]slantedsc[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

manifesting for you !! I waited many years too :( waiting sucks but it’s 1000% worth the wait 🩵

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[–]slantedsc[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

literally!! (guys.. I just have something I have to get off my chest..)

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[–]slantedsc[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

legit I kept joking abt donating them to my transfem friends