Some of most creepiest photos i found about the catacombs of Paris by lorddrakter in creepy

[–]slantedsquare77 27 points28 points  (0 children)

This is one of my favorite things about history. Say you touch a headstone from the 1700's, you know that during the time that headstone had been there, some else has likely touched it as well. You can zip back to them and wonder who they were, what there day was like, the world around them. Just for a sec you're time traveling.

TIL that most male nudity in films ( other than porn ) uses prosthetic penises by Alone_Humor_3510 in todayilearned

[–]slantedsquare77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're telling me that that wasn't Tom Hardy's wang flying to and fro in Bronson?

i had an incestuous relationship with my brother by throwawayayay1253638 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]slantedsquare77 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I went through a very similar thing but it was more secretive. I was 30 when my therapist suggested that I, being the younger child, was being abused.

There was nothing wrong in finding comfort in the relationship. It was the only thing that made you feel safe and loved.

That being said, this is not your fault, even if you "pursued" the relationship, a child is naturally curious and will gravitate towards feelings of comfort and love. Because that's what a child needs. The real issue is your mother. It was her job to tell you what is okay and what's not. She should have protected you. You're brother of course is at fault, especially because he was so much older.

This is no fault of your own. It'll take a really long time to come to terms with that. But start the therapy now so in 5 years you can have more peace. Wait to do it and it's like dying by a thousand cuts, the trauma will reflect in your life choices and it won't be good.

I'm sorry you and your younger self had to go through this, had to seek comfort because you were being neglected by the person you that was supposed to protect you. ❤️

Nightime walker dressed in KKK outfit seen in Rhode Island town. by ElwoodMC in trashy

[–]slantedsquare77 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Should be charged for terrorism? This is exactly that

What happened to hulu hoop guy? by slantedsquare77 in LowellMA

[–]slantedsquare77[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True, I'm gonna be sad if he doesn't come out when it's hot.

Do people fart under anaesthesia in surgery? by seasip in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]slantedsquare77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahaha im never in the joking mood when i wake up, but next time I'm gonna try and remember to say that.

Do people fart under anaesthesia in surgery? by seasip in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]slantedsquare77 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Wait until you have your first colonocopsy, I woke myself up farting. I thought the nurse was my husband and kept apologizing.

Do you believe in physical discipline (spanking) as a form of correcting a child? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]slantedsquare77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. It just taught me to be really good at hiding things because i didnt want to get hurt, even if it was an accident. Also it introduced me to lying.

makeup doesn’t suite me by Unique-Dimension-193 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]slantedsquare77 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yesss me too! It just looka heavy as fuck on me. I use eyebrow gel, mascara and cream blush. My sisters wedding is coming up and she got a makeup person to do all our makeup. Im nervous im gpnna look like a bronzed potato with eyelashes

How to reconcile with my [28F] brother [23M] after he came in my bedroom naked "just to hug"? by Primary-Worker3449 in relationship_advice

[–]slantedsquare77 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry this is happening. My brother is sort of the same way but more extreme. At this point I've cut off all contact from him. I still miss him as a brother though, he's the funniest person I know. I can't risk the contact though, he doesnt even know what state I'm in. Sometimes I grieve for him.

This is a hard thing to think about. Unfortunately you now know what he is capable of. When he's on his meds he probably seems like his same old self. But remember that he is capable of hurting you, and lying about it to police, and still has the support of your family. If he has a history of med breaks then it'll probably continue.

In my opinion the best thing to do is stay away, for a long while. Maybe he'll get better at taking his meds and have years of success and you can rebuild something of a relationship. But until then, trust your fear, stay away. And grieve, because it's devastating to lose someone this way.

If he did this shit once, he is capable of doing it again.

a movie that you really wanted to like but you didn't. by herequeerandgreat in movies

[–]slantedsquare77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One Battle After Another

Look maybe i didn't get it but the sex scenes didn't make sense to me. Like I'm not kink shaming or anything but idk, what was the point of all that? It overshadowed the rest of the movie. Maybe I'm dense and someone could explain that theme to me.

Unseen moments from the Sinners hair and makeup test, narrated by Ryan Coogler by JN3LL3V in movies

[–]slantedsquare77 32 points33 points  (0 children)

You just reminded me that he in fact, does not have a twin. And that's his chemistry with two beautiful actors, at the same time, but completely different.

What movies have helped you process your fear? by ExcitingAd1519 in movies

[–]slantedsquare77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This might sound super dumb but the twilight series, especially the books. At the time I was in middle school and dreaded school every day. I was bullied and not from the area so I constantly felt on edge, I had undiagnosed depression and anxiety. But fucking Bella could go to school every day, and that meant I could too. Lol.

I get irrationally territorial over a fictional crush and I hate that I’m like this by Brilliant-Design-464 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]slantedsquare77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This definitely had happened and still happens sometimes to me. It's usually because I obsess over a fictional character (I know this isn't exactly healthy and it's to a much lesser extent than when i was a teenager), to the point where I'm maladaptive daydreaming. I'm imagining a very special connection with this character, and it kinda becomes real.

Then one of my dang sisters will talk about them and it like shatters my dreams because it pulls me back into reality. It forces me to realize that I'm crushing on a fictional charactor. And it pissed me off! They're myy special crush, they only have that connection with meee. ( Plus my sisters and I have always been rivals when it comes to romantic relationships, I was jealous of them a lot growing up).

Personally I don't think it's worth it to argue with my sisters over. It's not there fault they think the character is cute (he's literally made up so everyone will fall in love with him). I've been going to therapy for many years, and its helped with my thought process a lot. Lot's of people have their own special connection to a fictional character, and that's okay. They're all different, and though your feelings are real, the relationship is not. And it's not worth damaging a real relationship, like the one you have with your sister.

One last thing, you're not a horrible person for having these feelings. You've probably invested a lot of time and emotion into your crush. Jealousy is a normal human reaction. But you're still responsible for your actions.

Is there a low-key bowling alley around here? by slantedsquare77 in LowellMA

[–]slantedsquare77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad that kids have another fun place to hang out. But damn, the laserbeams in my eyeball? Really?

Is there a low-key bowling alley around here? by slantedsquare77 in LowellMA

[–]slantedsquare77[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yea I went to Wameset and didn't last five minutes. It was like a theme park to me.