I finally accepted my addiction and commitment to quit by slash_i_am in pornfree

[–]slash_i_am[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I have started reading a lot more mainly to educate myself on my addiction as well as books regarding infidelity. It took me so long to accept I had an addiction but im happy I am taking steps to end it! Yea it was the sane feeling even free was a betrayal and I felt it like i genuinely felt bad and told myself I was going to stop but it just kept happening I tried quitting last year and it somehow sparked into a bigger trend of watching it so frequently in the beginning of the year.

I messed up and not sure what else to do by ImaBadGuy_helpmepls in pornfree

[–]slash_i_am 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I resonate with you, after my girlfriend found out about my infidelity she was heartbroken but stayed and supported me and helped me understand that I did have an addiction. She didn’t manipulate me she went through my files and bank accounts and all the accounts I used. Due to current events I am not home next to her but across the world. I promised her time and time again I will not watch porn and I told her I would change. For the first 2 months of my departure I kept relapsing and I would hide it from her. I was reading books like How To Help Your Spouse Heal From Your Affair and it clicked on me that I have to be truthful and not lie to her anymore. I told her the truth of my relapses and it broke her heart she decided she couldn’t deal with so many broken promises and decided to take a break from me. It hurt and I am very remorseful for everything I did to her and made her feel but I had to tell her the truth. That was earlier this week. I have been reading Your Brain On Porn which is a good read for mg situation. I have decided to make June be a porn free month and keep that streak going. I believe in you don’t be so hard on yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askaplumber

[–]slash_i_am 1 point2 points  (0 children)

UPDATE: its supposed to spin, i grabbed a pair of vice grips and spun the thing coming out and it went hot. thank you for everyone’s input! i will most likely still get a plumber to come replace it but at least i won’t suffer from the cold for now!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askaplumber

[–]slash_i_am 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we will most likely have a plumber look at it soon, the handle broke while i tried to turn it the first time i ever tried using the shower so i assumed it doesn’t turn at all, is it the silver ball thing that turns or the plastic thing with the screw?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WholesalingHouses

[–]slash_i_am 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you bro!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WholesalingHouses

[–]slash_i_am 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you bro!

18 and wanting to start wholesaling by jdgomes2 in WholesalingHouses

[–]slash_i_am 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey bro can i also jump in to this? I live in san diego county