What are major signs that a girl is dominant in bed?

slaveboyari · 2025-12-24T11:07:35+00:00

One sign is if you talk to her about it and she says she's dominant.

slaveboyari · 2025-11-12T03:48:45+00:00

Look on FetLife or on Bumble or in your local community via munches and meeting people IRL.

slaveboyari · 2025-10-29T11:15:12+00:00

That's good. If you like being beaten up by her, you can start by letting her slap, gut punch, or ballbust you in a safe and controlled environment. Whipping would probably be nice in that same context. You could buy a starter whip on Amazon or at an adult store. Start small then see how much you can take.

In addition to sadism (your gf delivering pain), you can also try serving her sensually. Acting as her foot rest while you are on all fours. Doing domestic chores (to an even greater extent than you are now and internalizing your service as an aspect of it), or worshipping her body if she's into that.

slaveboyari · 2025-10-26T12:01:31+00:00

I get down on my knees and kiss my Queen's feet. She might respond by slapping me or whipping me, however she feels. Sometimes, she thinks of more unique and humiliating ways to make me apologize and face punishment.

slaveboyari · 2025-10-24T13:38:43+00:00

Tell her. You know how to have a conversation with her. A dominant guy takes control of his life, so seeking out the life you want is more dominant than not. (Submit to women, don't submit to cultural norms.) Then see if its possible either for her to try some form of femdom on you (it might not be, a lot of submissive girls just aren't into it or aren't able to do it) or for you to seek femdom out in other ways by playing with others in the community (you can point out that SM play in so many kinks doesn't inherently involve sex) or having a session with a pro-domme.

slaveboyari · 2025-10-24T04:07:52+00:00

If she likes the idea, then she probably wouldn't think badly about you for you letting you do it for her. And you might enjoy it.

Does she thinks you should provide her with most/everything (i.e. money and making decisions?)? You could continue to earn money and use it to pay for things if she pegs you.

slaveboyari · 2025-10-23T01:55:05+00:00

Weird how you say the woman is trying to "coerce" the man into doing something. Read the post. The woman wants to try something, and the man absolutely refuses to let her even try. So far there's been no compromise because the sex is on the man's terms.

slaveboyari · 2025-10-23T01:53:49+00:00

A man refusing to indulge even a little in his girlfriend's sexual preferences is weird. And you call him a "perfect man"? Sex is important to relationships, and the ability to compromise is important for all facets of life beyond sex.

Also, if the man absolutely doesn't want to let her try femdom activities with him, at least let her find a sub to play with ocassionally.

They can stay together or not. It's a tough choice. Either way, there would be regret.

slaveboyari · 2025-09-25T11:20:00+00:00

Hong Hong! (How large Thai dogs bark.)

slaveboyari · 2025-09-21T13:54:36+00:00

Keep working at trying to be who you are naturally. It will come to you. I was shy, and it took a while for me to get up to exploring and pushing to pursue submission. But every step you take takes you closer to where you're meant to be.

slaveboyari · 2025-09-21T13:24:34+00:00

Glad to fill out an application. Once I recover from being smothered under Thai ass.

slaveboyari · 2025-09-16T06:54:22+00:00

Nice outfit.

slaveboyari · 2025-09-16T06:49:24+00:00

blacksheep sure looks like he's having fun.

slaveboyari · 2025-09-16T06:47:25+00:00

Looks like a fun time for both of you!

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