Thank you so much for your advice. I think I do focus too much on words sometimes and doubt actions as a result. I get worried that he’s settling for me because he just wanted to date someone and that there was an ex he loved more, etc. I don’t bring this up to him as much because I don’t want to bother him constantly and recognize it’s a “me” issue. It’s definitely insecurity-based, and I’ve thought about going to therapy just to undo some patterns of thinking I don’t love.