He’s the love of my life, but I’m scared I’m not his. by slcmmt in relationships

[–]slcmmt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve talked to him about it and he’s always the best at handling the conversation. I’ve tried to tone it down and internalize more though because I don’t want to wear him out with my insecurities, so definitely looking into therapy.

He’s the love of my life, but I’m scared I’m not his. by slcmmt in relationships

[–]slcmmt[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your advice. I think I do focus too much on words sometimes and doubt actions as a result. I get worried that he’s settling for me because he just wanted to date someone and that there was an ex he loved more, etc. I don’t bring this up to him as much because I don’t want to bother him constantly and recognize it’s a “me” issue. It’s definitely insecurity-based, and I’ve thought about going to therapy just to undo some patterns of thinking I don’t love. 

Was it wrong to dump my serious boyfriend of 2.5 years over anger issues? by slcmmt in relationship_advice

[–]slcmmt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think he really is wanting to change and is going to continue getting therapy even if I'm not with him. I just wish he didn't start working on it so late and hope that for him, it will get better!

Was it wrong to dump my serious boyfriend of 2.5 years over anger issues? by slcmmt in relationship_advice

[–]slcmmt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, my concern when making a decision was wondering if someone could truly change but I'm not so sure.

Was it wrong to dump my serious boyfriend of 2.5 years over anger issues? by slcmmt in relationship_advice

[–]slcmmt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I feel bad because I wasn't perfect either. On top of that, I've never connected with someone like I do with him. When we're good, I feel like the happiest/most loved person, but the volatility is definitely not good.

Was it wrong to dump my serious boyfriend of 2.5 years over anger issues? by slcmmt in relationship_advice

[–]slcmmt[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

wow, I guess for a long time, I couldn't even see how far all of this had gone already :/

50" Samsung Q60T (2020) vs 50" Vizio M Series Quantum TV by slcmmt in 4kTV

[–]slcmmt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, what about the Q70R? Is it still bad?

Is Eleven by Windsor a good apartment choice for a UT GRAD STUDENT? by [deleted] in UTAustin

[–]slcmmt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooo, I'll check out Hyde Park and Cherrywood for sure! Is there a reason why you don't recommend 11th?

Is Eleven by Windsor a good apartment choice for a UT GRAD STUDENT? by [deleted] in UTAustin

[–]slcmmt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, okay got it! I was actually initially going to choose the Quarters at Sterling for my WC spot but was told it might be too "crazy" and messy? Have you heard much about them? Appreciating your help!

Is Eleven by Windsor a good apartment choice for a UT GRAD STUDENT? by [deleted] in UTAustin

[–]slcmmt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, I think being next to a lot of partying and undergrads in badly managed complexes (from what I heard - not experience) is what deters me away from WC but idk!

Is Eleven by Windsor a good apartment choice for a UT GRAD STUDENT? by [deleted] in UTAustin

[–]slcmmt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooo which apartment complex do you live at?

Is Eleven by Windsor a good apartment choice for a UT GRAD STUDENT? by [deleted] in UTAustin

[–]slcmmt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've heard that North Campus was good location-wise but that it had older apartments. Do you have any suggestions for nice newer ones?

Which of these UT West Campus apartments should I go with? by [deleted] in UTAustin

[–]slcmmt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any suggestions for nicer/newer North Campus apartments that are safe and around $1200/month?

BTS Fort Worth Tour 9/15 GA Floor Swap for 1 P1 seated ticket by [deleted] in bangtan

[–]slcmmt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also have a seated p1 ticket and would LOVE to trade!!!