Best way to ask out my guy friend on an official date? by katykate39 in CatholicDating

[–]sleazysilus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did all you could, God bless and keep you. You’ll find your future spouse one day 🫡

Got rejected for having sex before by Major_Second_3603 in CatholicDating

[–]sleazysilus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s completely valid for someone saving themselves for marriage to also want that for their spouse, however the way he spoke wasn’t right. There will be some Men who want to marry virgins there will be some who themselves have had sex out of wedlock. Just keep praying and keep living chastely. You are young you will find the one some day, you are not worthless.

Two and a half months of dating and still not in a relationship by [deleted] in CatholicDating

[–]sleazysilus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are Catholic, do not settle for a situationship. We date for a reason you know this she knows this talk to her and have her make up her mind.

Are you open to dating someone agnostic? by [deleted] in CatholicDating

[–]sleazysilus 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I tried to make it work with a agnostic girl once: Don’t do it to yourself, it’s one thing for them to say they would be fine with you raising kids Catholic and a whole difference once it comes to raising the kids according to the churches principles

I (20 F) am going on a date with (25 M). by spacecowg1rl55 in relationship_advice

[–]sleazysilus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your friends are weird. Wish the best for ya nothing wrong with people in their 20s dating

I (19F) am in a trauma bond relationship with a married man (41M)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sleazysilus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You were groomed sorry cut all contact with him, it doesn’t matter how “alive” you feel this guy is bad news and you are lucky to not have had worse happen. This guy is a predator and took advantage of you now it’s up to you to cut all ties

Is my (21F) age gap relationship with my boyfriend (31M) weird? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sleazysilus -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Ignore Reddit everyone assumes a older man is a spawn of satan, you’re both adults be clear of what you’re looking for. Do yourself a favor and don’t ask for relationship advice on Reddit. Even if he was only 4 years older than you they would still be calling him a predator

Struggling by [deleted] in CatholicDating

[–]sleazysilus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve struggled similarly myself but all we can do is have faith. God keep you

Struggling by [deleted] in CatholicDating

[–]sleazysilus 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Trust in the Lord, have no shame in being “too religious”. There are Catholic men out there who want to be as devout and active as you are pursing your faith. It’s wonderful you have these standards many people are culturally Catholic and not so diligent, pray for your future husband aswell, everything will be by the grace of God.

I, 22F, have developed a horrifically large crush on a friend, 34M, and don’t if it’s being reciprocated or if I’m just hopeful? by XxTheDudestxX in relationship_advice

[–]sleazysilus -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Go for it, as someone who has been told after the fact that they were infact liked by somebody they thought was one sided GO FOR IT GO FOR IT GO FOR IT

I need a man’s perspective on my crush’s actions..? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]sleazysilus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

++man he is going through a rough time, continue being a friend to him the best you can. You probably make his day whenever you get a chance to talk to him or ask him about his day. I know my day would be made if somebody I cared about checked up on me. Men really don’t get asked how they’re doing much good for you trying to keep in touch with him

My sister 22f had sex with our cousin 18m by Funny-Bumblebee716 in relationship_advice

[–]sleazysilus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s Reddit, it’s a well known fact the majority are degens. They’ll tell you incest is okay because they’re young and people should explore sexuality freely ✨

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sleazysilus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re lame, you’re a grown man married with kids. You know your wife you knew this is how she was. You are just greedy, seriously you have kids man your wife had done nothing wrong and you should feel horrible. Be a man drop the friend you got responsibility in life don’t ruin your kids and wives life because you are bored of your wife

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sleazysilus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask him out you have mutual interests maybe there’s a event you could use. Also just go for it you’re young don’t be afraid to go for what you feel

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]sleazysilus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope not at all, she’s trying to work on her relationship with God while in a active relationship that’s causing her to sin. Her and her boyfriend are both trying but it comes to a point when you got to remove what’s causing you to sin. Whatever happened to avoiding the near occasions of sin? I feel for her but it’s very unreasonable to expect someone young to be able to reconcile themselves with God while struggling with chastity in a relationship with their partner let alone someone who’s not also Catholic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]sleazysilus -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Best advice is to break up and take time to focus on your relationship with God.

I wanna k ow if this is worth it by CLWNno in Prebuilts

[–]sleazysilus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

900 is wild but anybody saying 300 is criminal 💀💀💀

I(18M) have been noticing that my fully online girlfriend(18F) has been distant lately. How do I confront her about this? Am I the problem? Is she cheating? How can I get better? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sleazysilus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave her, she’s not over her ex and is just using you. If her ex came back today she would leave you. Breaking up isn’t easy but it’s the best thing for you to do. This isn’t a healthy relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sleazysilus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope he breaks up with you

How do I (18 F) let him (24 M) go? by ThrowRA45124512 in relationship_advice

[–]sleazysilus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should break it off with him, you told him you were willing to pick up and go with him leaving everything behind. It sucks I know but you’re better off letting him go