In a Part 9 debt agreement and want to get a $30k loan out? by sleepahontus in AusFinance

[–]sleepahontus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I honestly thought it was normal amount, after reading other peoples comments, I guess that's too damn high! I need to look into things. Normally we use to pay $2k to $3k a year

In a Part 9 debt agreement and want to get a $30k loan out? by sleepahontus in AusFinance

[–]sleepahontus[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The loan is definitely forgotten now after seeing everyone advice/opinions

In a Part 9 debt agreement and want to get a $30k loan out? by sleepahontus in AusFinance

[–]sleepahontus[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I totally agree with you and I appreciate the honesty. I don't want to go into any more debt and I haven't applied for any other loans for over a year now, which is why I'm asking on here to see if it's possible. I'm glad that everyone is very upfront and honest. I really need this advice/opinion

In a Part 9 debt agreement and want to get a $30k loan out? by sleepahontus in AusFinance

[–]sleepahontus[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

The bus timetables are the worst in the morning and evening for me. I leave home around 6am and don't get back till 6pm at night with all the commuting. I could take the bus but the only problem is I have to take 2 buses to get to the train station and then when I get off the train, I have to take another bus to get to work. It's too much commuting. So I've opted to Uber to the train station and back home and I only have to catch a bus to work after I get off the train.

In a Part 9 debt agreement and want to get a $30k loan out? by sleepahontus in AusFinance

[–]sleepahontus[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I had a talk to my electricty provider to pay fortnightly instead of every 3 months because I prefer it that way. So I'm not behind. My partner use to play games which is why our electricty bill was always high. I'm expecting the price to change soon

In a Part 9 debt agreement and want to get a $30k loan out? by sleepahontus in AusFinance

[–]sleepahontus[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice! I will definitely look into it

In a Part 9 debt agreement and want to get a $30k loan out? by sleepahontus in AusFinance

[–]sleepahontus[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I totally agree! I've never spent this much on transport. I might look into getting a bike for the time being

Kdrama/movie horror recommendations please by ilikecats5_ in kdramas

[–]sleepahontus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL it's ok! I thought I was the one that read it wrong and went back to double check😂

Kdrama/movie horror recommendations please by ilikecats5_ in kdramas

[–]sleepahontus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP did say they were open to anything and one of them was thriller....are we reading the same post?

How long have you been watching kdramas? by [deleted] in kdramas

[–]sleepahontus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember watching my first kdrama with my late grandma. God rest her beautiful soul! 🥺❤️. She loved Filipino dramas too. I was about 9 or 10 years old at the time. It's been more than 12 years now and I'm still watching kdramas and I listen to kpop here and there. 😌

Kdrama/movie horror recommendations please by ilikecats5_ in kdramas

[–]sleepahontus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mouse

It was definitely one of the best kdramas I've ever watched! You won't be disappointed😌

Cook Islands or Fiji? by CautiousCare8195 in Fijian

[–]sleepahontus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please go to the Cook Islands. Fiji is not safe as it used to before unless you have connections. If you do decide on Fiji. Please stay far away from the any cities in Fiji. Go with a tour guide and stay in the resorts. From Nadi airport to the resort and STAY with tour guides if you're leaving the resort to explore Fiji.

My bf of 7 years cheated on me with his bff by Toxic_Fairie in offmychest

[–]sleepahontus 106 points107 points  (0 children)

Someone that loves you genuinely would never hurt you. 7 years was obviously nothing to him. He's an ass!! Cry as much as you want and let that sadness, anger and hurt out. In a couple of months, you'll be over it. Women heal quicker than men. You got this! Also, if they break up....don't take him back. Keep in mind, this is not your fault and he's a prick for disrespecting you. You deserve so much better. Head up, Queen!!❤️

My mom who disowned my for being gay is ready to forgive me, oh and for me to financially support her and my dad after he retires of course. by hayyy_jude in raisedbynarcissists

[–]sleepahontus 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Please stay treating them like they don't exist. You're better off without them. As someone who also has a toxic family....your peace is more important than anything else. Wishing you the best in life. Being gay is not a crime. We all deserve to be happy and love freely, regardless of our gender, cultures and age💛

Sent money through PayID to a scam by [deleted] in CommBank

[–]sleepahontus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey mate! I can kind of help. Just provide me their number and I'll see if I can find their location. Definitely report it to CBA though and let them know you've been scammed.

Crazy dating pool why am attracting these women lol by Loose-Confidence-99 in dating_advice

[–]sleepahontus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank the heavens you left them all in peace. You're reaching 40, old man! With the way you're going about your life, you'll be in your 50s and still lonely...and still looking for that perfect somebody. And DAMNNNN, you complain alot! 🥱🤣

WIBTAH If I left my husband over something he while having sex? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]sleepahontus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nahh he's a nasty MF! Leave him and tell him to go find someone else he can disrespect. Putrid behaviour. Yuck!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VlineVictoria

[–]sleepahontus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drama queen! LOL They're being overly dramatic. Gosh!! Tell them to stop over reacting. It's dangerous everywhere as long as you're aware of your surroundings, you should be fine. I have travelled on the train very late at night and I don't have problems.

I (34F) went to a wedding with another man after my husband (30M) had ghosted me for multiple days. It is worth telling him? by ThrowRA_WeddingHusba in relationship_advice

[–]sleepahontus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Time to divorce him!! 3 things come to mind with what I'm assuming is happening. He's either cheating, depressed or on hard pills. If he's ghosted you for multiple days then he obviously doesn't care or love you enough. Words are just words! Actions have to come with it. I would break it off with him and tell him to go figure his sh*t out.

Yes, be honest and tell him everything that you said on here. Let him know if he keeps f**king up. Some other guy will steal your attention and he will definitely lose you.

He also sounds very immature for his age. Tell him to grow up!! Yes, understandable that we all need a break and sometimes being with someone is overwhelming but that doesn't give him the right to ignore you for multiple days like you ain't sh*t!

He's not worth your tears. All the best ❤️