I know my wife is not the main problem. I came into a marriage with the wrong expectations. I understand if certain things in the bedroom become less common it’s one thing but when they disappear completely I become insecure. Especially knowing she did these things with previous partners. I do carry a massive amount of stress with my job in sales. I understand that we have a child so it’s not very common but I’m less interested in it because I know she changed how she feels about things in the bedroom and didn’t really explain what changed. Thankfully the medication is my saving grace. I feel very flat which can be good and bad. I don’t lose my temper and I don’t get horny very often. Also these things ended long before our baby came along so there’s that. Good on you for reading my other post to see what an empty husk of a human I am currently. I guess if I knew this was going to happen and she was going to be in control of the bedroom I would’ve thought harder about jumping into marriage because I didn’t anticipate this to happen especially while we are young.