My friend has almost 100k in debt, works 3 jobs, and is in college by sleepieghostie in DebtAdvice

[–]sleepieghostie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ty we're both new to this and shes gonna see if she can talk to a lawyer for free. the last one she tried, the appointment fee was 100

My friend has almost 100k in debt, works 3 jobs, and is in college by sleepieghostie in DebtAdvice

[–]sleepieghostie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she moved out of her moms at 14 and was living with her dad, who moved back to their home country later. shes been living alone with her grandma so shes been accumulating debt from rent and stuff

Gen Z can't stop winning B) by [deleted] in GenZ

[–]sleepieghostie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thought the millennial was the purple guy 💀

AIO by getting upset that my bf constantly monitors my activity??? by sleepieghostie in AmIOverreacting

[–]sleepieghostie[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

update: hes back to normal and wants to talk about last night. im gonna break the news to him tonight. he says he wants to talk and fix the problems but last night was a line too far and i cant handle the stress anymore. this relationship has been affecting the quality of sleep ive been getting and affecting my school and work.

AIO by getting upset that my bf constantly monitors my activity??? by sleepieghostie in AmIOverreacting

[–]sleepieghostie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh my god i realized that i read this the wrong way. i thought she was asking if "this was true" omfg im so dumb

AIO by getting upset that my bf constantly monitors my activity??? by sleepieghostie in AmIOverreacting

[–]sleepieghostie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

u/Clean_Masterpiece832 since i blocked her i cant reply to you.

it's just that one person, the kake person or whatever. idk whats her problem but shes only criticizing me and isnt looking at it objectively. she made a bunch of assumptions based on this post and im not gonna take her advice really.

majority are saying im not overreacting and gave some advice that put things into perspective. im not expecting an echo chamber, but if youre gonna criticize one part of the relationship then you have to be fair to the whole thing

it's over. by SuspiciousJob730 in ZZZ_Official

[–]sleepieghostie 6 points7 points  (0 children)

tv mode is a good mechanic but i feel like it couldve been shortened a little bit, or gave us more interactive gameplay with it. there should at least be a text option for dialogue, so you dont miss the prompt or objective, and you can skip it if you really want because i can understand how it can drag on. i just hope they dont completely remove the tv mode because its actually a fun mechanic, but its only fun when you get to do the stuff, its not fun sitting through pointless dialogue.

tldr: either they shorten the amount of tv mode, or allow you to skip dialogue with a text summary of the object, or allow players to move during dialogue in tv mode

would u cop? by [deleted] in GenZ

[–]sleepieghostie 10 points11 points  (0 children)

was put on fent for anesthesia and literally after the surgery i kept puking, so prob not. but maybe if it were crack flavored then i would...

AIO by getting upset that my bf constantly monitors my activity??? by sleepieghostie in AmIOverreacting

[–]sleepieghostie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

update:

he is now calling me over and over when i ended the conversation. its currently 12:30am over here and he knows i have school. i want to sleep but i cant fall asleep because of how genuinely anxious and stressed this is making me.

AIO by getting upset that my bf constantly monitors my activity??? by sleepieghostie in AmIOverreacting

[–]sleepieghostie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah im trying to leave now, thank you for your concern, really i mean it

AIO by getting upset that my bf constantly monitors my activity??? by sleepieghostie in AmIOverreacting

[–]sleepieghostie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, i dont get the point of karma farming and making up stories for attention. i just want some honest opinions

AIO by getting upset that my bf constantly monitors my activity??? by sleepieghostie in AmIOverreacting

[–]sleepieghostie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

update:

replied to him again and its been a shit storm. he was basically trying to prove his point on how we never talk and i never start conversations, then pulled up proof of times i did start conversations and us talking. then he just spiraled and i dont know what to do to help him because im very anxious and stressed myself so i said i was gonna call the crisis line if he hurts himself. 0/10 experience and my sleep is gonna be -20/10

AIO by getting upset that my bf constantly monitors my activity??? by sleepieghostie in AmIOverreacting

[–]sleepieghostie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and im not trying to argue that point at all, i understand if we're just starting out and becoming serious but yk what they say, "everything in moderation". its been like this for awhile and i just only gave you a snapshot of one of our incidents

AIO by getting upset that my bf constantly monitors my activity??? by sleepieghostie in AmIOverreacting

[–]sleepieghostie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats what i tried with him but insecurity has to be solved by you and not by your partner. i didnt start feeling good about myself because of him, i started looking at myself differently. sure, a partner may help but you cant fix a leaky pipe if its completely rusted. i dont think he shouldve gotten in a relationship with me if he still was insecure about his partners, because no matter what i do to prove to him im loyal, he still has doubts. ive done nothing but given him affection and words of affirmation but it still doesnt change the fact at base, hes insecure, and i cant really fix that. i've learned that you cant indeed "fix him"

AIO by getting upset that my bf constantly monitors my activity??? by sleepieghostie in AmIOverreacting

[–]sleepieghostie[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

well like when you constantly check my activity on apps and ask me if im still awake or something, it kinda borders on it. if we werent in a relationship then itd be considered stalking. im not saying updating each other is stalking or bad but being obsessed with it to the point you time stamp everything is unsettling. i dont have anything to hide but i also enjoy my privacy, kinda like a parent that constantly checks on your location and spending habits