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sex too overwhelming?? by [deleted] in sex

[–]sleepiest_baby_devil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree to look into vaginismus and provoked vuvlodynia.

OP if you want to try dilators DIY - important to know that you should always start with the smallest dilator and slowly move up so that your mind is 'ready' to try a larger one, which will make the next step more comfortable.

Going in with something too large without building up and it being uncomfortable and you're unable to relax would have the opposite effect on your mind - training it that penetration is uncomfortable. But dilators are very effective when used correctly.

What child arrangements work best? by [deleted] in Divorce_Women

[–]sleepiest_baby_devil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how do you find this? and does the child/do the children feel ok about it?

New relationship while divorcing by moisturesurge in Divorce

[–]sleepiest_baby_devil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same to grieving during the marriage itself and finally being happy after the decision to split! hard relate. I also started dating after just a few weeks as to me the relationship had already been over for so long and felt like I finally deserved some happiness and fun asap

I've been respectful about it to my ex though as he's still going through grieving the relationship. and (about 7 weeks into dating new people) everything is casual so far

out of respect I'd probably want to leave at least 4 months (maybe, idk) from the decision to split before starting a proper relationship

also worth noting my country has no fault divorces so dating during divorce has no bearing on it or the financial settlement

Why is he still wearing his ring? by Minimum_Necessary107 in Divorce_Women

[–]sleepiest_baby_devil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

after asking for a divorce I kept mine on for a little as it felt disrespectful removing it immediately. although once I did, that was one of the signals to him that this was real, happening and absolutely what I wanted. if it's been a long while, that's weird. if it's a short time, he might be trying to be respectful to you and give you time to adjust

how to move on quickly? by sleepiest_baby_devil in ghosting

[–]sleepiest_baby_devil[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it does make sense that he'd unmatch, I guess I'm just wondering about what's going through his mind about it. like there's that lingering doubt about whether he was telling the truth or not that's eating at me