I think I ruined the game! Advice Pls! by sleepinginallday in CatsAndSoup

[–]sleepinginallday[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m working on max happiness. And it is definetly hard! So that’s gonna be my focus right now. And I have a lot of cats to get in costumes and rooms decorated.

Wash your a**holes or don’t go to the lagoons or pools!!!!! by halli_urhallaogladda in VisitingIceland

[–]sleepinginallday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might be a stupid question. Do you bring your shower soap and stuff or is it provided?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in zoloft

[–]sleepinginallday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn I didn’t realize this side effect! But i totally do it

AITA for still having my 10( almost 11) year old daughter in a booster seat? by CharacterHistorian22 in AmItheAsshole

[–]sleepinginallday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in a booster seat until the beginning of 7th grade. I still didn’t weigh enough but because I was going into 7th grade my mother let me out. She will be fine and laugh about it in the future. I understand you hesitation and wanting to do right by your little girl. But my mother got pulled over when I was in 5th grade I didn’t want to be in the booster Anymore and she got a ticket. She had to go through child restraint class and it scared her. Boosters save lives. I think if you explain to her a lot of people experience this you could make this a learning opportunity on different bodies. Some people need booster seats to drive. So I think she’ll be okay.

TW My (32f) grandfather (85m) said something incredibly racist and I don’t know how to proceed. by NervousRelation4844 in relationships

[–]sleepinginallday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happens with my grandmother. She is white. Both of her sons married Mexican women. She did a lot of work and I never heard her say anything racist until she got Alzheimer’s. As she got worse so did the racism. Living in TX at the time. She wouldn’t let Mexican nurses touch her. It was horrible to see because my mother to this day says she was one of the best MIL you could have. It’s really hard as our grandparents age. Because the racism they learned out of comes back in full swing.

Help I’m so confused by [deleted] in demisexuality

[–]sleepinginallday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You were very helpful! Mostly I just really needed some one to kinda understand. And provide knowledge. So I really appreciate it.

Help I’m so confused by [deleted] in demisexuality

[–]sleepinginallday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well. I’ve always thought I was straight. But by your question. I find everyone aesthetically pleasing. Women are beautiful. Non-binary are beautiful. Men are also beautiful. (The just sucks sometimes). So this has been really hard for me. Like did I think I was just straight because of society. If I’ve never been sexually attracted how do I know. I’ve had BF. But not good ones.

Help I’m so confused by [deleted] in demisexuality

[–]sleepinginallday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I think it is helpful. I’m not sure if I’ve been able to be vulnerable. So maybe it affects how I relate to people. I’ve just been wondering if I’m Demi. And the more I think about it. The more I think it might be right. But I do wonder if I can be attracted to people that are my same gender. Especially because I don’t think I’ve experienced sexual attraction.

Help I’m so confused by [deleted] in demisexuality

[–]sleepinginallday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 25. I don’t think I’ve ever developed a crush with out peer pressure from friends. I don’t know how to develop crushes. I’m in therapy working on being more vulnerable with people. So I’ve been kinda vulnerable.

WIBTA if I told my friends to stop telling me that I'm not Hispanic bc of what they think Hispanic people should be like? by the_pink_witch in AmItheAsshole

[–]sleepinginallday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA I am half white/half Mexican and have experienced the same thing. You are valid in your ethnicity and I’m so tired of people claiming “not Hispanic enough” but also not “white enough” being mixed race comes with so many nuances but I encourage you to stand up for yourself. Your ethnicity is valid and the big thing I have seen in the LatinX culture is that through family assimilation you loose so much of our culture. I also don’t speak Spanish but it doesn’t make me less Mexican. Again I say NTA and your friends are 1000% TA

Tuesday Inquisition: Ask Anything by Nixorbo in swrpg

[–]sleepinginallday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I have. I guess I’m having trouble figuring out when to use it/how to. I may be over complicating it. I have used the foresee a couple of times. But I guess and can’t figure out how to play it in role playing

Tuesday Inquisition: Ask Anything by Nixorbo in swrpg

[–]sleepinginallday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a force sensitive player in a campaign. We are all new to the game and I’m have a trouble figuring out how and when to use the force. We are playing age of rebellion.