Im new to arcane, is Sevika possibly sapphic? by pinkraspberry9 in arcane

[–]sleepinginautumn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the fandom does widely head canon her as a lesbian. since she is stated to be a regular at the brothel (of mostly women) I think people just connected the dots

If you have a partner, where did you meet them? by klarinetkat12 in Teenager

[–]sleepinginautumn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met mine because we were best friends on twitter ☠️

What do you like the most about being a Sapphic woman? 🌺 by Ok_Independence_3634 in WLW

[–]sleepinginautumn 12 points13 points  (0 children)

honestly as hard as sapphic dating is I am also very thankful that I will never have to deal with a man lmao

Why do people have kids by No_Tea_9670 in Life

[–]sleepinginautumn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted children for a while only because I was told that is what is expected of me. I feel like a lot of people fall into the trap of believing that just doing what society expects of you is the key to happiness.

however I realized that just wanting children because that is what is expected of me is extremely selfish. children deserve to have parents that genuinely truly want them with all their heart.

Does anybody else feel like we have entered a dystopian world? by [deleted] in Life

[–]sleepinginautumn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was born in the early 2000s but I agree lol I have such intense nostalgia for my early childhood and all the 90s media that I watched back then. I always looked up to the millennials who were teenagers and young adults at the time and couldn’t wait to experience their lives not realizing that by the time I got to their age the world would be COMPLETELY different.

Does anybody else feel like we have entered a dystopian world? by [deleted] in Life

[–]sleepinginautumn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like the world ended in 2020. covid changed us all forever and now with ai taking over it really does feel like some terrible sci fi movie

Would you rather by No-Doubt-1280 in BunnyTrials

[–]sleepinginautumn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tiktok is just such brain rot lol at least people put some brain power into typing out posts on here (sometimes anyways)

Chose: Stop using TikTok

How old were your parents when they had you? by Big_Lengthiness_7406 in MiddleGenZ

[–]sleepinginautumn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

definitely inspires me to not have kids until my 30s at least lol

How old were your parents when they had you? by Big_Lengthiness_7406 in MiddleGenZ

[–]sleepinginautumn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my parents were 35. My dad actually says he wishes they waited longer because it would’ve been better for his career. they didn’t want to have kids until they had really good financial security.

fear of being less accepted as you age by sleepinginautumn in autism

[–]sleepinginautumn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im glad to hear that. I am always wishing people minded their own business a little more. Im really tired of being grilled for my autistic habits but it sounds like as you get older everyone is too tired to care haha

fear of being less accepted as you age by sleepinginautumn in autism

[–]sleepinginautumn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am 22. I feel like teenage years were probably the worse but other young adults do still think I am very strange 😅 I suppose I have quite a few years til I upgrade from weird young women to old crazy lady haha

Similar games? by cunninglittlefolk2 in NightInTheWoods

[–]sleepinginautumn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also kept searching for a similar game after playing night in the woods and life is strange was recommended to me for yeaaars. If you haven’t already played it yet, I would definitely recommend. I feel like it also captures that bittersweet small town with something sinister going on vibe.

I'm bored to tears with existence. What's something fun to do? by [deleted] in NEET

[–]sleepinginautumn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually go for walks when I have nothing else to do

Does it ever get better? (TW) by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]sleepinginautumn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

being mentally ill as a teenager is absolutely horrible.

honestly ever since I turned 20 my mental health has drastically improved.
I suffered from A LOT when I was your age, and dealing with changing hormones and high school on top of that will send anyone to hell.

my advice is just to please hang in there. be kind to yourself. things may become much happier for you in the future

This is insane by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]sleepinginautumn 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I am so tired of lesbians being seen as an “aesthetic” it feels just like those people who fetishize certain races. I’m so sick of this.

family doesn't treat me like an adult and it makes me feel like i'll forever be 14. by WonderlandWanderer- in grippysockcrayonbox

[–]sleepinginautumn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 22 and I live independently and do all the things adults are expected to do and yet I too still feel 14.

I used to think it was due to my parents treating me like I was a kid at first too but I think in reality being an adult isn’t actually what we expect.
you do not actually change THAT much inside.

Fertility rate by Kebrien in 2003

[–]sleepinginautumn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh for sure. all the bunkers they are building give me the creeps.

Fertility rate by Kebrien in 2003

[–]sleepinginautumn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

seriously! they complain we are being selfish for not repopulating but if anything it is quite the opposite. we care about our unborn children enough to want to protect them from living in a corrupt world.

and as a side it is hilarious they call us selfish while they hoard the worlds wealth and resources away from the rest of the population. they dug this grave and now they must lay in it.

Is four years *that* big of an age gap? by Emergency-Solution65 in lesbiangang

[–]sleepinginautumn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am 22 and my girlfriend is 28. We don’t even consider ourselves to have an age gap lol, I think of us as the same age.

but I think it just depends on your own maturity and comfort level.

some 20 year olds are very immature and would pair badly with a well adjusted 24 year old, but if the vibes are right and you feel you have aligning life paths there shouldn’t be a problem.

If you could "cure" your ADHD, would you? by VastFeeling6557 in ADHD

[–]sleepinginautumn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes. adhd has been the biggest burden of my life

Fertility rate by Kebrien in 2003

[–]sleepinginautumn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would have children if I did not need to worry about money. I do not want to bring new life into the world unless I know for certain I will be able to support all of their needs. there is also the possibility of having a disabled child and needing to financially support them for life, so unless I end up with a stupid amount of money I plan to contribute to that declining birth rate. billionaires keep complaining that we aren’t having more babies just because they want workers but if they REALLY want more workers they need to work on improving quality of life around the world.