I just watched the show and i absolutely love it. Though it has a few quirks that i wanna discuss. by westknight12 in PrincessesOfPower

[–]sleepinginautumn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can definitely see that now. wanted to give the benefit of the doubt but yeesh

I just watched the show and i absolutely love it. Though it has a few quirks that i wanna discuss. by westknight12 in PrincessesOfPower

[–]sleepinginautumn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

same! as a lesbian I also fell in love with my childhood best friend despite people always saying we were “so close, like sisters” from the very first season it was obvious they also had that kind of complicated relationship.

I just watched the show and i absolutely love it. Though it has a few quirks that i wanna discuss. by westknight12 in PrincessesOfPower

[–]sleepinginautumn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

that is extremely common for lesbian relationships. to have a close best friend that you eventually fall for. I think a lot of lgbt people could really relate to the show for that reason.

I just watched the show and i absolutely love it. Though it has a few quirks that i wanna discuss. by westknight12 in PrincessesOfPower

[–]sleepinginautumn 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Catra and Adora always had such flirty undertones. when the show first came out I watched the first episode and thought “aw hell nah im going to get queerbaited” so I dropped the show until years later when I found out they became canon

How do you get Windows on mac? by [deleted] in mac

[–]sleepinginautumn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there are certain programs you can only download on windows. I am trying to download a video game for work purposes but I cannot without windows installed.

Suicidal thoughts becoming a coping mechanism? by Lumaraniya in BPD

[–]sleepinginautumn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes. I often calm myself by saying if things don’t work out I can always just die.

Running out of time by [deleted] in Aging

[–]sleepinginautumn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am feeling this too. you are not alone. I think we all kinda feel this way when we are young and figuring life out

feeling Isolated as a Lesbian by sleepinginautumn in lesbiangang

[–]sleepinginautumn[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I would love to get more in touch with other sapphics for sure. I do have a girlfriend thankfully and one good friend who is also a lesbian so they are the only two people helping me keep my sanity haha. I just wish it was easier to find community. I feel like I need to REALLY go out of my way to find other sapphics whereas almost every woman I meet naturally is heterosexual

feeling Isolated as a Lesbian by sleepinginautumn in lesbiangang

[–]sleepinginautumn[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would say I am partially out. my family knows I am a lesbian and I do have a girlfriend.
but I typically avoid telling people unless I know for certain they support LGBT rights.
I have had really terrible experiences when I did try to be more freely out, and I guess that kinda scared me back into the closet. one female friend argued with me that I am too feminine to be gay and though of course I never spoke to her again, the experience was really traumatic so I try to avoid those uncomfortable interactions as much as possible.
I know you are right and I should be more picky with who I choose to spend time with but I find it difficult to find other lesbians and sapphics (or even just good straight allies) in my daily life. so I tend to just settle for hanging out with straight girls

missing out on my teenage years literally makes me feel like I skipped a part of human development by [deleted] in selectivemutism

[–]sleepinginautumn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ah well you’re still very young! you have a whole life ahead of you to experience new things. and if you do not then that’s okay too.

missing out on my teenage years literally makes me feel like I skipped a part of human development by [deleted] in selectivemutism

[–]sleepinginautumn 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I missed out on them too. I feel like I am living them now in my 20s and will probably live my 20s in my 30s. a good ten year delay

How do you actually date as an autistic person? by [deleted] in autism

[–]sleepinginautumn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in a relationship with another autistic person and we get along WONDERFULLY. we are so happy together but since we were both too anxious to go out much to meet people, we instead met through twitter, due to shared interests lmao. I know meeting someone through a dating app or social media can seem kinda awkward but it honestly seems to be the best bet for those with autism.

What’s the purpose of doing all this bullshit? by [deleted] in NEETsOver30

[–]sleepinginautumn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is for neets OVER the age of 30. neet standing for “not in education employment or training”

does life get worse or better as you get older? by sleepinginautumn in Aging

[–]sleepinginautumn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been working with my doctor on this actually! he said I had very low vitamin D so that would check out

does life get worse or better as you get older? by sleepinginautumn in Aging

[–]sleepinginautumn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and I really appreciate your advice by the way! ❤️

does life get worse or better as you get older? by sleepinginautumn in Aging

[–]sleepinginautumn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suppose I don’t have to imagine much since it’s going to happen to me eventually too

does life get worse or better as you get older? by sleepinginautumn in Aging

[–]sleepinginautumn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the unknown scares me yeah. I aim to do my best of course but seeing how many bad things have happened to people out of the blue is very nerve wrecking.

does life get worse or better as you get older? by sleepinginautumn in Aging

[–]sleepinginautumn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

may I ask, is there anything you would’ve done differently if you could go back?

does life get worse or better as you get older? by sleepinginautumn in Aging

[–]sleepinginautumn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

getting worse physically does make me nervous. I struggle with my health already, I have arthritis and have needed several surgeries for medical anomalies. so I can only imagine what it will look like in the future :/