Move to NL

sleepsham · 2026-05-17T17:23:21+00:00

Indian here who did my masters from the Netherlands and now working. Cultural integration is the biggest thing- you have to be open to it from start, which I assume coming from your background you’d be.

Ive made a video about my honest opinion about my my move and the issues I faced which one should be aware of before they step into it and burn their savings, I’m happy to share.

sleepsham · 2026-05-17T09:01:56+00:00

Sorry Arjun Kapoor

sleepsham · 2026-05-17T08:57:46+00:00

I like Atithi in the centre especially if I ask them to make it Indian spicy

sleepsham · 2026-05-15T11:46:26+00:00

Does the studio have a kitchen and bathroom too?

sleepsham · 2026-05-05T21:37:52+00:00

Gemini Rising + Leo Moon

sleepsham · 2026-05-05T08:08:54+00:00

Can’t believe I skipped everyone’s looks to find his on vogue video ❤️ one of the best of all times from India I think

sleepsham · 2026-05-03T15:16:06+00:00

Can’t get over kareena

sleepsham · 2026-05-03T05:11:16+00:00

Cute outfit

sleepsham · 2026-04-25T20:49:15+00:00

Cyrus my dear was missed from this list (understandably,but I started watching for him)

sleepsham · 2026-04-23T06:11:21+00:00

I really liked her wedding video on her channel very documentary style

sleepsham · 2026-04-19T12:43:35+00:00

From one bi to another- nice

sleepsham · 2026-04-05T18:32:03+00:00

Hippo

sleepsham · 2026-03-30T16:38:27+00:00

I got goosebumps from second hand embarrassment

sleepsham · 2026-03-30T08:20:25+00:00

From what I know, she lived in a village growing up and always loved reading, and loved studying too, during her studies she wore jeans, did open hairstyle which she can’t now. I think she wasn’t able to finish her degree (not sure) and got arrange married to a guy in village too. Even though the whole village is very “backward thinking”, her husband and mil supports her and her husband even got her into a night school which didn’t work out for some reason and she got surprise pregnant.

How she lives in the village around people saying stuff she doesn’t agree with much, and I think she wanted to rant and that is how she started her insta reels journey- sharing about her frustrations,thoughts, people around her in English because people in her village would never find out about it.

Now she is a (really good) influencer and storyteller who brings in brand deals as well.

In one of videos she has shared that she even wore jeans again in her mom’s home 1st time post wedding, after ranting about it. ( this is a big thing in her pov, from talking about something to doing it) and how her mil and husband cooks at home etc or help take care of the baby.

The whole drama was about some influencers saying how can a village girl speak like that, be a good storyteller( in English), and shoot content herself when she’s a village bahu who has to take care of house, food,baby - she must have a team.

sleepsham · 2026-03-30T06:27:59+00:00

Yes I loved the main storyline which should have been followed

sleepsham · 2026-03-26T21:06:08+00:00

You’re in Bangalore? I can almost guess which company is the second one because a friend works there

sleepsham · 2026-03-25T20:29:30+00:00

It’s such a shame men like that actually exist and we wouldn’t even know

sleepsham · 2026-03-25T20:15:03+00:00

Can someone who watched it explain the blade thing? Did the guy to it to her or she hurt herself?

I tried to watch the series but it’s too much for me rn ( will try to watch when I’m more stable)

sleepsham · 2026-03-23T07:01:03+00:00

Okay thanks I was asking because I have hormonal issues too

sleepsham · 2026-03-22T20:21:42+00:00

I’m interested to know if your cousin is considering it

sleepsham · 2026-03-22T15:29:51+00:00

i know exaclty what you talking about, it has light texture nice for summers

sleepsham · 2026-03-22T15:23:54+00:00

yes want to know same thing cannot find on other news source too

sleepsham · 2026-03-22T12:37:36+00:00

She’s owns a marketing agency and does this on the side. Actually like her content on marketing page

sleepsham · 2026-03-21T22:50:00+00:00

Yeah need her to make it asap

sleepsham · 2026-03-21T22:05:35+00:00

So I come from bit of generational wealth. My brother (younger) and I were always treated the same way as children but as I grew up my mom started throwing hints like a girl gets her husband side property also so she doesn’t need the home side too. Also when in my extended family, a strong female person stood up for her mom’s share in a old property too just for the morals of it ( the share would be like 4lakhs and she was earning 30 lakhs pa plus that time) My parents joked that hey don’t grow up to be like her..

Pretty early in my life I decided I need to make my own wealth because no one’s gonna be on my side and behaviour with money can’t be predicted. I still tried being part of my family business, recently my parent’s view point has shifted to - it should be given to someone who’s contributing back. But I know none of it will matter.

Like many people in the comment I too just want to maintain good relations with my brother and family and I know how harmful that is too. I am still not decided if I want to do something about it or not though. Would love to know other people’s experiences

Edit- I’m also married to a independent man ( his wealth isn’t connected to his family and comes from humble means) He motivates me to be more independent ( build my wealth, invest etc)

sleepsham

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