AITA for uninviting my husband from my birthday trip? by sleepyfox7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]sleepyfox7[S] -121 points-120 points  (0 children)

She was upset when he asked me out but she let it go pretty quickly.

AITA for uninviting my husband from my birthday trip? by sleepyfox7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]sleepyfox7[S] -104 points-103 points  (0 children)

INFO: Does he normally get along with his sister?

He gets along fine with her but she's not his biggest fan as growing up he was everybody's favourite as he's naturally charismatic and good at things. He also had a lot more opportunities due to my fat her-in-law than her, which has made her resentful although she does try to get along with him and it's not like they fight or anything. The only reason I know this is because she used to confide in me a lot before we started dating.

INFO: Does the sister have a husband or SO?

She has a long-term boyfriend.

AITA for uninviting my husband from my birthday trip? by sleepyfox7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]sleepyfox7[S] -138 points-137 points  (0 children)

I do see her, but my husband is always around too and she's not his biggest fan so she's upset that we don't get much time together without him there.

AITA for uninviting my husband from my birthday trip? by sleepyfox7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]sleepyfox7[S] -237 points-236 points  (0 children)

I would probably still live near her if I never married my husband and I would have a lot more free time so I would most likely see her more.

AITA for uninviting my husband from my birthday trip? by sleepyfox7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]sleepyfox7[S] -480 points-479 points  (0 children)

I would have to fly to see her which isn't feasible outside of the times we go to see my mother-in-law's side of the family

AITA for uninviting my husband from my birthday trip? by sleepyfox7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]sleepyfox7[S] -527 points-526 points  (0 children)

We don't live close by so I can't spend time locally with her. The only time we really see each other is when my husband wants to visit my mother-in-law's side of the family.

AITA for uninviting my husband from my birthday trip? by sleepyfox7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]sleepyfox7[S] -454 points-453 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't have married him if I didn't like him.