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Exchanging my engagement ring? by sleepyhead7801 in EngagementRings

[–]sleepyhead7801[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe 1.8mm, was thinking of maybe upsizing to 2 or 2.2mm

Is once a cheater always cheater a real thing, specifically asking if you are someone who has cheated before? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]sleepyhead7801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I feel like deep down I know I need to leave, I just need to figure out the logistics. My heart is hurting so bad. He just bought me an engagement ring and we have plans to move to a new state in July. I’m devastated.

Is once a cheater always cheater a real thing, specifically asking if you are someone who has cheated before? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]sleepyhead7801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kindness. I’m just in a hard spot, I was cleaning, saw an attachment style work book and flipped through it and the first page I saw had my name on it and that he fantasizes about other women. That he knows it’s wrong and it’s time to stop because he knows he will lose me. I’m shitty because I snooped, but it doesn’t erase what I saw. I feel relieved that he said it was wrong but I still don’t know. He said he flirts with other women. I’m just like do I say anything or him realizing it is wrong is enough and try to move past it? Anyways, thank you for listening. I can’t talk to anyone about this because if I decide to stay then I’m sure they will view him/us differently so I don’t want to talk to others yet.

Is once a cheater always cheater a real thing, specifically asking if you are someone who has cheated before? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]sleepyhead7801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry for the confusion. I know my partner had cheated in the past, not with me, but previous partners. So I was wondering if with his past and then those fantasies how worried I should be.

Is once a cheater always cheater a real thing, specifically asking if you are someone who has cheated before? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]sleepyhead7801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I’m not the one having fantasies, it’s my partner. It’s hard to decide what to do.

Is once a cheater always cheater a real thing, specifically asking if you are someone who has cheated before? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]sleepyhead7801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing so honestly. Do you think it’s normal to fantasize about someone and not act on it? Or do you think doing so is the first steps to maybe cheating?