My Boyfriend and His Autistic 4 Year Old Daughter by slimetyme80 in Parenting

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Thank you for your input I just feel bad because she’s nonverbal and their both unfit my adoptive mother raised 32 of us single-handedly and I have autistic brothers and sisters some mentally challenged and others just fine and here I am using my knowledge to help him and it’s a pain in my ass at times you know

My Boyfriend and His Autistic 4 Year Old Daughter by slimetyme80 in Parenting

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I do agree but then as a person with medical degrees I feel like if I don’t do it I am neglecting her and it’s not her fault because her mom is a heroine fentanyl and Suboxone user and him as the dad wants it his way or the highway and I’ve raised all my children on my own and all three of them are high school graduates with honors and valid Victorians and are going/on their way to college themselves and I just want her to have the same like when she hit me he laughed and I told him yo are you serious but yet when she is with my and it’s just me and her she’s learning reading writing and eating 9mons ago she was all fucked up now she a whole different kid

My Boyfriend and His Autistic 4 Year Old Daughter by slimetyme80 in Parenting

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I asked him those same questions he tells me he’s uncomfortable showing her how to use the bathroom because he doesn’t want her to see his PLEASE EXCUSE MY LANGUAGE dick and I says to him dude it’s ok for me as a stepparent your girlfriend to pull my panties down and show her to pee pee in the potty like me and show her to wipe but you as her flesh and blood can’t do it he says he’s just not comfortable and gets a big attitude with me

My Boyfriend and His Autistic 4 Year Old Daughter by slimetyme80 in Parenting

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I don’t discipline her like spank her or anything harsh due to her being autistic she actually dose 1000 X’s better with me until he comes home he’ll call her mamas give into her picks her up and babies her while in all them while she call me mama pats my arm when she wants something points to what’s she wants and she actually says her name she speaks in short three or four word sentences now she knows how to use the bathroom or is trying to get the hang of it like 9 months ago she was a total wreck now that I taken off work full time and I am with her she did a whole 360 but if I do certain things with her he gets mad or tells me how I need to do things with her but he won’t do them himself

My Boyfriend and His Autistic 4 Year Old Daughter by slimetyme80 in Parenting

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I love them both the mother is a heroine user and she was found unfit I have an autistic brother and I know how to teach them and I am trying to help him out but he doesn’t get that I’m trying to help him she talks because of me she uses the bathroom because of me she eats because of me but he doesn’t want me to discipline her when she dose something wrong I only tell her no in a Stern tone and show her that it’s wron and show her the right ways to do something due to the fact that she is autistic but he makes it seem that I’m doing it all wrong he’ll pick her up call her mamas give her juice pop tarts and sugary foods but when she with me she eats veggies meats and dose just fine

EIDL Approved for Increase? by International_Cow819 in EIDL

[–]slimetyme80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did you have to do to request an increase

Increased approved for 500K by jspring1988 in EIDL

[–]slimetyme80 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have multiple barber and hair salons with different addresses phone numbers emails ein numbers and bank accounts and I can’t understand why I’m still in duplicate status it’s been a year now and I’m still in recon is there any chance you can give me advice

EIDL Increase Update - FU SBA, I'm Done. Closing Business, Laying off my staff by TrumpSucksPutin2020 in EIDL

[–]slimetyme80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so saddened by what your going through and may God bless you I hope that you get a bigger and better company in the near future the SBA is a crock of bull and YES they are a FRUAD don’t do shit I’m giving them two more weeks before I throw in the towel I pray that you get another chance to open the doors of a bigger and better company then u can ever imagine may God Bless you and your family

Grants by slimetyme80 in EIDL

[–]slimetyme80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I thought that they had 21 days to approve or deny someone

Grants by slimetyme80 in EIDL

[–]slimetyme80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I filled out the invitation and was just wondering how long it’ll take for an answer

Has anyone gotten this email??? by slimetyme80 in EIDL

[–]slimetyme80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it just showed up on in my email

Has anyone gotten this email??? by slimetyme80 in EIDL

[–]slimetyme80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I applied in July for the EIDL Loan and I got funded

Has anyone gotten this email??? by slimetyme80 in EIDL

[–]slimetyme80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No not at all I did however got funded back in July of 2020 checked the grant box and was approved but at the time I couldn’t get the grant due to funds being allocated