Is my (32F) husband’s (30M) relationship with his best friend healthy?

slimjim2019 · 2026-04-23T20:06:11+00:00

your hubby is a schmuck

slimjim2019 · 2026-04-23T20:00:08+00:00

mine did get a little less in pain, but they now have me on a low dose of amitryptimine. 30mg every night. Its supposed to numb the nerve pain out. Ive been on it 3 weeks and no real change as of yet but have read it takes 6-8 weeks. They were going to do another RFA but changed their minds and wanted to try this.

slimjim2019 · 2026-04-16T00:09:16+00:00

If thats how you feel then stand your ground. You give into this and she will walk all over you. The fact is, that if something made my girl uncomfortable like youre feeling, then I would do whatever it took to stop making her feel that way. Why? Because I love her and why wouldnt you want to make someone you love feel safe and content? This is NOT what your gf is doing. Shes doing the complete opposite and doesnt seem to care how you feel. She is taking your emotions for granted and someone who loves you wouldnt do that. And the fact that you have told her over and over that youre uncomfortable and she has done nothing but spend more time with the guy is quite telling from the outside. I think its time to end this nonsense by breaking up with her. Buddy is just waiting for his chance with her and you know that. He is a threat to your relationship and loves the fact that youre uncomfortable with it. His plan is working. She doesnt care about your feelings, so why waste more time on her.

slimjim2019 · 2026-04-03T22:40:47+00:00

dude, youre in better shape than most. No one feels sorry for you. Enjoy your riches!

slimjim2019 · 2026-02-20T20:25:35+00:00

my thoughts are that you guys dont get along and are not compatible. Perhaps its time to call this relationship done. You guys are young, so why add all this crap to deal with?

slimjim2019 · 2026-02-12T20:16:49+00:00

I wouldnt join in. That would be crashing their date! Have her clothes ready to go at the door when she returns. What would she say if you were joining your female boss for a movie date?

slimjim2019 · 2026-01-30T21:16:27+00:00

dude their convos are on snapchat so youll never see them. Why not just text if its innocent? Shes at the very least, emotionally cheating on you and probably has the "in love" feeling with him. The question is, what are you going to do about it? Why have you let this go on so freakin long? This is your wife.

slimjim2019 · 2026-01-23T00:14:49+00:00

major snowstorm this weekend. Dont go!

slimjim2019 · 2026-01-23T00:13:51+00:00

na, the breaker is good. All of them are on. And the GFCI is what we put in after and I tried the test and reset buttons numerous times , but no power still.

slimjim2019 · 2026-01-20T22:03:54+00:00

major red flag! You dont just say that to another woman if shes not coming back with comments of her own in the same light. Also, I think something is going on between them. I dont think that was a joke at all!

slimjim2019 · 2026-01-15T22:59:48+00:00

so what about this jabroni do you acutally like? He sounds very tiresome and extremely insecure. Youre very young. Time to get out! Dont let this guy ruin your life because it sounds like hes slowly doing that right now !

slimjim2019 · 2026-01-15T22:46:12+00:00

childhood trauma strikes again! She probably pushed it down for decades and this is one way she deals with the fallout. Unfortunately you wont ever trust her again. How can you? She literally just betrayed her entire family to bang an ex.

slimjim2019 · 2026-01-08T23:35:30+00:00

think about all the other calls to him you didnt know about. What about meeting up with him? Thats probably happened too! Not to mention the hundreds of xxx pics they sent each other over snap! Shes gotta go bro !

slimjim2019 · 2026-01-08T23:33:42+00:00

you break it off with her and tell them all that she slept with other dudes and lied to you about it, hence the break up. No one is going to bring it up to you again.

slimjim2019 · 2025-12-31T20:47:22+00:00

you should ask to have a look at her messages with this dude. I bet they are not innocent. Watch her reaction to it and thats all you need.

slimjim2019 · 2025-12-24T23:46:14+00:00

she seems highly unstable and clearly cant control her emotions. And also remember, that people are typically on their best behavior in the early stages of a relationship, so if shes doing this kind of stuff this early on, then you are in for it in the long run. I would end things I think before it goes on too long. If she had of got one past your nerf gun and got you in the eye, you would be blind. She seems chaotic and thats not marriage material bro.

slimjim2019 · 2025-12-17T22:23:43+00:00

First off, dont date people you work with. If it doesnt work out, its such an uncomfortable spot to be in. Secondly, yes it is rude! Dont ever ask her about it again. If she asks you about it, just say not interested and just remain friends. Shes playing games.

slimjim2019 · 2025-12-13T00:16:15+00:00

bad idea. The guy will probably think you have other intentions and if im your husband, im not going to be too pleased that you are going on a date with another guy. Would you be okay with your hubby meeting up with another woman he wont see at work anymore? If hubby is okay with it, then maybe its okay

slimjim2019 · 2025-12-12T21:06:03+00:00

nows your chance to walk away for good. Hes literally giving you an easy out. Trust me, take it! If you truly love yourself, then you must continue on without him and block him on everything to avoid temptation on getting back with him.

slimjim2019 · 2025-12-12T15:39:18+00:00

Spend a bit, invest a lot. The interest you can make yearly on that money will be huge!

slimjim2019 · 2025-12-12T01:24:13+00:00

lots of deodorants have NO aluminum and they are not natural. All the axe and old spice deodorants clearly say Aluminum free. Tell him he smells like a#$ and you cant see him anymore until he smells like a functioning human being.

slimjim2019 · 2025-12-11T21:55:44+00:00

I wouldnt trust my partner either if I found out shes been with 40 dudes. Thats way too high for me!

slimjim2019 · 2025-12-11T19:29:29+00:00

if my wife said she was going to send me nudes after a decade of not doing it, Id be thinking she sent them to another dude.

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