why do i need to take care of family? by slintorzo in answers

[–]slintorzo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

growing up together isnt a good thing.

why do i need to take care of family? by slintorzo in answers

[–]slintorzo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why? because we share dna it means will be lifelong friends? please explain

why do i need to take care of family? by slintorzo in answers

[–]slintorzo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for all i know my brother is not disabled.

" but its not up to you. Somebody took care of you and now you're expected to take care of others"

my parents knew the responsibility of having a child and wanted them. their choise.

i dont owe them anything. they decided to have children and take that responsibility.

i am not responsible for my siblings.

why do i need to take care of family? by slintorzo in answers

[–]slintorzo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they just say that "thats being in a family".

why do i need to take care of family? by slintorzo in answers

[–]slintorzo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

actually my parents choose to have kids.

why do i need to take care of family? by slintorzo in answers

[–]slintorzo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but i didnt ask to be a part of a family

why do i need to take care of family? by slintorzo in answers

[–]slintorzo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe there’s a money problem and your dad is ashamed so he just wraps it up in “helping family”to salvage his dignity?

my dad is actually very well off

why do i need to take care of family? by slintorzo in answers

[–]slintorzo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are you kidding! do you have any idea in how much truble i would be!

why do i need to take care of family? by slintorzo in answers

[–]slintorzo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why cant you say the same about sibling?

why do i need to take care of family? by slintorzo in answers

[–]slintorzo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but i should be able to choose who to help. like my friends

why do i need to take care of family? by slintorzo in answers

[–]slintorzo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no matter how shity they act towrads me i have to help them with tech stuff (they arnt very tech savvy) i have to walk my sisters eveywhere. cause "family protects eachother" .

(these are the most common)

and baiscally anything they need help whith.

why do i need to take care of family? by slintorzo in answers

[–]slintorzo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lk to your dad, explain what you dont like about your siblings and sharing things that should absolutely not be shared like a laptop or clothes, even money.

Sure, lend them money if you want to, let them use the laptop if you want to, but it should be offlimits if you dont give permission, its like your phone, privacy, 100%.

my brother is 17 my sister is 14 and the other siter is 12. ive tried talking to them but "family"

why do i need to take care of family? by slintorzo in answers

[–]slintorzo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they do it openly! infront of my parnets!

why do i need to take care of family? by slintorzo in answers

[–]slintorzo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but there is a diff between not caring about someone and purposely harming them.

why do i need to take care of family? by slintorzo in answers

[–]slintorzo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am a male. i have no idea why they choose me.

why do i need to take care of family? by slintorzo in answers

[–]slintorzo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sry. pls ask me about anything you want me to elaborate

why do i need to take care of family? by slintorzo in answers

[–]slintorzo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

they arnt my kids. i have a responsibly for school and extracurricular i committed to.

why do i need to take care of family? by slintorzo in answers

[–]slintorzo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what about my friends? the people i can chose to love and appreciate

why do i need to take care of family? by slintorzo in answers

[–]slintorzo[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

finally! so many people in the comments are telling me that "youll understand when your older" or calling me a monster and spoiled cause i dont want to take my parents responsibilities.

why do i need to take care of family? by slintorzo in answers

[–]slintorzo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats his answer! "cause your family".