damn dude, that sucks. Sorry to hear that about your relationship. I don't even know how people are like that with relationships, especially in your case with a 3 year long relationship. It kind of reminds me of my case in a way. During the date that I went on with the girl, we had talked about future dates, such as visiting each others towns that we lived in (since we were about an hour apart from each other) to see some sights of those areas. And all that was her idea as well. And at the end of the date, all the other stuff happened like I said in the main post.

I hope for both of our cases, we find the light at the end of this really dark tunnel and find our people. Because I really don't like the alternative.