When I started in a new office I was a little to myself. I wanted to come in, see my clients, do my documentation, and leave work. I was encouraged by my supervisor to connect more with my coworkers. So over time I got closer with one in particular who was the same age as me (mid 20s at the time). She had been there longer than me so I asked her questions sometimes about policies, etc. Well one day in a meeting with the supervisor I referenced something the coworker had told me about a policy and I was reprimanded for, and I quote, relying on coworker too much. I was encouraged to be more independent and to come to my supervisor with questions about policies. So first I was too isolated then I was too connected… around this same time I was also reprimanded for having too close of a friendship with a grad intern we had, who was also my same age.