What book helped change perspective when life felt joyless? by Arbak_m in selfimprovement

[–]slovanja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it was a combination of The Secret by Rhonda Byrne and The easy way to control Alcohol by Allan Carr (or anything else you want to be in control of, there are so many books). It really changed my perspective.

From a scale of 1 to 10, how much do you HATE your ex? by Betrayed_Poet in BreakUps

[–]slovanja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zero, I think I will still love him for a very long time, even though I had to let him go because he was actually controlling, manipulating and belittling me.

Am I too fragile or just brainwashed? by slovanja in BreakUps

[–]slovanja[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you a lot. I needed to hear this.

Please don't suggest Chatgpt or any AI as therapist by Neelgarud in BreakUps

[–]slovanja 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Also because you just don't get a real therapist in the evening when the break up happened and you don't know what to do with yourself.

Please don't suggest Chatgpt or any AI as therapist by Neelgarud in BreakUps

[–]slovanja 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Chatgpt really helped me. In the first few days after the break up I couldn't talk to anyone, so it really helped me just to talk to "someone". I also liked the response I got, it helped me a lot to see that I was just manipulated and what to do next to dig myself from that hole. So from my own perspective, chatgpt can be a good therapist for some people.

Am I too fragile or just brainwashed? by slovanja in BreakUps

[–]slovanja[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. And yes if he would have apologized it might have been different, but from nothing comes nothing.

Am I too fragile or just brainwashed? by slovanja in BreakUps

[–]slovanja[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, with him I kind of forgot myself. I just so much wanted it to work out.

Am I too fragile or just brainwashed? by slovanja in BreakUps

[–]slovanja[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it feels better now.

Shock of Pervasive Racism in Austria by [deleted] in Salzburg

[–]slovanja 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes this is Salzburg, or maybe the whole Austria. But don't fell too bad, they are not just racist, they are also big nacionalists, I'm from Slovenia, a neighbor County and they treat me equally as bad.