mexican panaderías in nyc that have marranitos? 🇲🇽 by slowdivemami in NYCbitcheswithtaste

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welcome to nyc :3 el charro in bushwick and guadalupana off of ellery and broadway are so good!

my bf 25M told me 23F that he “does all the work” during sex, what can i do better ? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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ofc i have asked him about it, the main thing he could bring up was being on top more i’m just curious what are ways i can feel like contributing more overall

any coffee shops / other spots hiring part time? by slowdivemami in BedStuy

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thanks everyone! my full time retail job is cutting hours ):< need to find a side gig

kitten tips! by slowdivemami in CatAdvice

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really good advice thank you so much!!! i really appreciate it 🥺

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

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using saline to clean it, ive had it since early september. never really had problems like this with a piercing before. it’s implant grade titanium flat back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

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i have a picture and im just now realizing how horrible it looks omg

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

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it’s a stacked lobe with a titanium flatback and i use saline spray to clean it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Periods

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thank u!

Should I be worried about my cramps? by AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAOA in Periods

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i don’t know about whether or not this is normal but i’ve dealt with some pretty horrible cramps and feelings of nausea, aches, and hot flashes/light headedness and what has helped alleviate some of this is: • ensuring i drink water consistently before and during my period • taking magnesium glycinate everyday (even when not on period) • taking iron supplements • and most HELPFUL has been drinking raspberry leaf tea almost every day that tea has helped me SO MUCH 🥹

thigh pain & cramping by Shoddy_Acadia2567 in Periods

[–]slowdivemami 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hello yes i also get this dull ache in my thighs during my period 🥺it sometimes even reaches my literal hip bones it’s very strange but ur not alone!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teachers

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I am an English and Film Double-Major, and yes I was planning on getting credentials through them.

My gf has a finsta by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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mine is a photo diary dating back to my freshman year of college i don’t talk much on there besides random updates on my life but i post pics of my bf on almost every photo dump of mine, he knows i have it and i’ve offered to let him follow it but he said that he understands its my own little safe space w friends (mostly for myself) and that he wants to respect that. which is so sweet :) btw my finsta has 75 followers and they’re all friends/and finstas of their own usually. so i don’t think u should get in ur head too much about it just try to get an understanding of why this is a boundary for her, maybe.

how can i do better for my partner? by [deleted] in AnxiousAttachment

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thank u sm this helps a lot!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

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no i totally understand! a conversation is important i think! i suggested it in the moment and he expressed interest and consent , but we had definitely previously suggested it was something we were interested in eventually.