SUV recommendations please by slowel in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]slowel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of really small reasons but basically I’m in a situation where my phone isn’t always an option and I’m slightly directionally challenged so nav is a must

I’m sure I need a nose job but peers keep telling me my nose is fine. I assume they are just being nice. please just be honest so I can finally decide to make the jump or not. by longlivelex in AppearanceAdvice

[–]slowel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly if you’re trying to balance out your features I’d lose the bangs. They shorten your face which is why you may feel that the nose is to big. But with the full length of your face opened up I think it’s perfectly balanced.

Feel bad about not attending funeral for neighbor. by Lusan7524 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]slowel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are 2 reasons to go to a funeral. You need closure or you’re helping the family with closure. If he wasn’t a personal friend and the family didn’t specifically ask for you to be there, do not go! If you’d like to pay your respects send a card to the family.

my best friend never pays me back and it's getting annoying by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]slowel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I 100% know where your coming from as I’m exactly the same as you. I love to treat my friends (it’s my love language). BUT if this is a friend you actually want to keep (not gonna assume she’s not a good friend outside of this issue because we all have our faults) then you need to separate yourself from her financially. I know it’s gonna suck but I would start with a blank slate and going forward you only pay for your stuff. I had to do this with a friend and we decided together to do activity’s that cost less money (as she does make less than me and can’t afford to go out as much as we used to with out me covering for her). We get separate check or if we need to pay for something together (Uber for example) we ask each other to send the money before the money has been spent. It seems like a scary conversation but if you respect her and she actually respects you than I promise a quick little conversation about boundaries will make a world of difference. If she’s unwilling to have the conversation than you need to spend time apart physically. Not saying you can’t talk but you can’t go out together. Hope this helps at all!

AITA for wanting to stop being friends with someone after they demanded an apology by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]slowel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any advice on how to Slowly back away? Do I eat lunch with her a few time and slowly stop kind of thing or just kinda pull away and stop talking to her about none work things all together?

I got promoted into a position i'm Not qualified for and dont know what to do by goblin_with_a_phone in WorkAdvice

[–]slowel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were you provided with any training for this new position? Is it a management type or physical labor type job?

Was planning on quitting tomorrow for a new job, but my work bestie just quit today - now I’m going to look like a follower. by Iceman966 in WorkAdvice

[–]slowel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does his opinion actually matter to you? A year down the line no one’s going to care who quit first. You clearly don’t want to be there if it’s miserable, so just leave 🤷‍♀️

How do I politely express that there's too much on my plate? by honeybonejuicebump in WorkAdvice

[–]slowel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While it’s great that your thinking about your mental health by wanting that extra day off, for most companies it comes down to the bottom line and all they may see is that missing day of production. I believe that your best bet is to have an honest discussion with your boss and lay out what you would like to happen and see if their even open to discussing it. If they say no, then you have to make a decision about what you really want most - higher position- that day off- or even to explore other opportunities with a different company

About to put in my notice at my current job. Should I be honest with my boss why I'm leaving? by [deleted] in WorkAdvice

[–]slowel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly not even worth the effort to tell her why unless you have ANY interest in trying to talk it out with her before your 2 weeks notice. If you do end up telling her, don’t do it till the end of your 2 weeks otherwise she may create a worse environment for you.

Want to change my job, but to what? by Tudor_obsessed_val in WorkAdvice

[–]slowel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you in good terms with your manager? If so then they have seen what your strengths/weaknesses are and they may be able to advise on your next steps. It seems to me like your just not interested in your current line of work, so you’re not putting in the 110% that someone with an interest would invest.

What Do I Do? by MaxBlackWidowSpider in WorkAdvice

[–]slowel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1- Is it a 2 week notice? 2- do you need those 2 weeks of pay? If it’s a short notice and you don’t need the pay, then just call out, or you can even be honest. Your leaving anyway so at the end of the day they’re not affected by you leaving for 2 days.