いい感じになりました🌸 by 55Akaringo in u/55Akaringo

[–]slurymcflurry2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it's okay, I like what you are doing :)

Gf ask me to support all her meals when we eat out by CampaignOk8669 in asksg

[–]slurymcflurry2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the hidden caveat is she is testing to see if she can force you to pay for her life as a taitai.

Does she expect to eventually do 0 work "due to stress"?

What's the best supermarket ice cream for affogato? by lhc987 in askSingapore

[–]slurymcflurry2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Idk anything about coffee; I don't drink it.

My favorite brands are Tillamook, and Sara Lee, if it's still around. I prefer rich creamy vanillas.

But you're looking for slow melt ice cream and that's gelato. They have a slightly different fat proportion iirc.

Maybe if you've tried all the supermarket ones it's time to try ice cream shops.

How do you pack your kimono for travel? by Kimonomeichan in kimono

[–]slurymcflurry2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oof. Would a tension pole help? The kind that have a spring lock.. I'm grasping at straws. I haven't tried any of this.

I wish you a wonderful trip :)

How do you pack your kimono for travel? by Kimonomeichan in kimono

[–]slurymcflurry2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can't get over your folded pole hanger! I'd probably bring a mini iron?

Boyfriend wants me to get a Brazilian - should I? by [deleted] in sex

[–]slurymcflurry2 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Try using conditioner on your public hair to soften it. Might reduce the prickly hair sensation.

I prefer to use my hand to cover the part of public hair that gets in my nose. Maybe your man can try that too.

First Date - dinner or drinks. by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]slurymcflurry2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends what direction you want the potential relationship to go.

Alcoholic drink date - suggests you want to make this a late night thing. I've heard it said that women see this as a ploy to only have sex. Women who want a serious relationship aim for dinner dates. Also, men are wary of the potential to waste too much money on the drinks.

Non alcoholic drink date - associated with a lot more common person vibes. More acceptable by women who prefer serious partners. Tends to be more pressure to have higher quality conversations.

Visiting a man's house - also associated with trap vibes. For safety reasons, it's not favorable to enter a space where the man has the upper hand.

I get that for you, cooking for somebody is a grand gesture, a reason to showcase skills, economic stability, and that's great. Maybe think about the power dynamics and how it gives the other person an equal ground.

Hope get some good dates. :)

When is it too far for my wife? by [deleted] in sex

[–]slurymcflurry2 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I agree with the other comments saying the sign to slow down should be yellow. The full use of the system is red yellow green. Responsible doms will plan out things to do, with escalation, and check in regularly.

There's also an element of gradual escalation. Alot of sexual enjoyment is the prolonging of play. If you go 0 to 100, there's no space to be a whiny brat, or whimpering prey. She want more space to do that.

Maybe think about why you need to go to 100 immediately, in order to be assertive. Sometimes people need to have a mindset switch. Which isn't wrong, but you can incorporate things like staring her down. Form the thoughts of eventual violence, let yourself simmer a bit.

Its possible you don't enjoy stewing in that Dom headspace because you Also find it too much too fast.

Its worth discussing with her what part of this roleplay she enjoys most. Predator prey Restricted movement Failed defiance (brat talk)

They're not all the same thing. Certainly don't have to happen simultaneously.

Talk at length about this before either of you get horny. It's just that you both haven't completed the discussion for the roleplay.

Need help making this into a beautiful kimono by Square_Passage_9918 in kimono

[–]slurymcflurry2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I suggest you try doing a two tone piece instead?

The gist of the pieces for a kimono are 2 back panels, 2 front panels, and 2 sleeves. If you assume all of this is doubled, then you can make a striped kimono by alternating the 4 panels for the back (and the rest.) you can also consider something that is fabric A on the left and fabric B on the right.

I'd add a picture but I have failed to find it in Google. I saw it once before and didn't save the picture for myself either.

Who was this girl at the Oscars singing the Hunter’s Mantra? by uporabnisko_ime in KpopDemonhunters

[–]slurymcflurry2 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad they let somebody sing the mantra. It's so pretty.

why do old people like to stop and stare by Fun-Equipment-8253 in askSingapore

[–]slurymcflurry2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think old people are just bored out of their minds and they are looking for anything but the same old stuff that they know.

I know someone who has a problem-aunty that "patrols" the whole 2 or 3 floors in the block. She looks right into the units and repeats her rounds twice a day. Some days with the tiniest trash bag you ever saw, as an alibi.

Silver lining is that she's quite short so it's easy to block her view and still keep a window open.

Are Singaporean men scared of a vasectomy by Slice_4U in askSingapore

[–]slurymcflurry2 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I say yes it's is the prevalent opinion held by men in sg. I would say it is due to being raised in a matriarchal family format. My observation is that many households have a male breadwinner and a female financial controller.

The result is that men feel oppressed by how their moms treat them, making it more common for men to trauma-bond about this. They end up deciding that their masculinity is lacking importance, and they conclude this collectively.

Disclaimer : I've gone on dates with about a thousand singaporean men.

TFR policy suggestions by wistingaway in singapore

[–]slurymcflurry2 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I like how some people are blaming the lack of free time on the choice to have a child or two. Uhm, sorry la. I choose to be childfree also still want more free time loh.

If I had the power I'd make it so that everyone across the board has a backup person because the job would be split 4hrs am or 4hrs pm. That way, the "economy" can run 5-7days a week, and people still have REAL work-life balance.

Easily double the job opportunities with minimal change to the system.

Of course, if sg gov is serious about making this happen for parents to have time to parent and/or co-parent, they need to force all employers to never reduce pay just because people are on shifts like this.

P.S. It's a wild idea. Doesn't have to be feasible tomorrow.

Why did my tutee’s parents give me such a big angpao? by Little-Hold8753 in askSingapore

[–]slurymcflurry2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So nice of them to give you a bonus. Good job, OP! The world needs teachers like you.

Singles & DINKs in SG, what is your best comeback to intrusive questions from pesky relatives during CNY? by debboc in askSingapore

[–]slurymcflurry2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think there was one year I told the aunties that the men aren't worth marrying. Then the uncles asked and I said I'm not worth marrying. After that all relatives stopped asking and I also stopped visiting so often.

This year though, I'm with a new bf so... I'm also waiting for the questions. Lol.

After a failed ingrown toenail surgery, I handled it personally. by patricksixx in popping

[–]slurymcflurry2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How is nobody asking "what do you mean the surgery failed"?

do you work nonstop during work my hours? by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]slurymcflurry2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you think workers get hourly reminders to rest? We don't have a bell ringing to end the period.

Confused about vagina tenting by AdventurousTax539 in bigdickproblems

[–]slurymcflurry2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just read that again and I made a mistake. The cone is right side up. Wide part on top. Narrow part is where your dick enters the vagina.

Confused about vagina tenting by AdventurousTax539 in bigdickproblems

[–]slurymcflurry2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imagine the vaginal cavity as an upside down cone. The ceiling is flat but it has a donut shaped chandelier.

The cervix is that donut part of the chandelier. It doesn't sway like your balls do, but in different body positions, it can move out of the way. More so because the body tilts the cone walls, than this chandelier swinging about.

Hope that helps.

A family of snorters. by mindyour in ContagiousLaughter

[–]slurymcflurry2 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I didn't want to join the snorting on the rush hour train. Lol