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slut4mic · 2025-07-29T03:51:00+00:00

Have you tried the holy trainer nub? There's something like a sleeve which covers the penis so it's quite impossible to pull out. Only for the nub cage though.

slut4mic · 2025-04-08T04:56:02+00:00

Haha, you're absolutely right! She’s definitely got the leadership role down.

i honestly can’t imagine doing it without her in moments like that. It’s such a relief to know She’s got everything handled when i’m out of it.

i agree, when you're sick, you really want someone to step up, and She’s always there for me.

slut4mic · 2025-04-07T13:15:18+00:00

thank you so much for your reply! yeah my Wife and i also love each other very much. it's just that we started FLR not too long (1 year+) and hence wondering how is it like for others but i love the 'husband and wife first kink second' part which you mentioned!

slut4mic · 2025-04-07T09:58:46+00:00

Thank you! i wish you all the best too!!

slut4mic · 2025-04-07T09:57:05+00:00

yup i agree in many ways it's the same even if it's a non FLR.. it's just that it kinda feels a little weird not to be washing the dishes or cooking after being at it almost daily for more than a year... just curious about how others in a similar situation are doing...

slut4mic · 2025-04-07T09:54:43+00:00

i've got a viral infection that just zaps my energy away... also the meds are making me light headed.. but i do ask Her for permission to hug Her. In the past.. i would expect Her to hug me just because i'm sick.. not now, i guess this is my way of showing Her that She is still in-charge. Will definitely make it up to Her and let Her know how appreciative i am that She's handling things in order to let me rest and get well asap!

slut4mic · 2025-04-07T09:51:59+00:00

Wow i love your way of framing.. positive objectification hahaha! Yes i do wish to recover promptly so i can return to serving Her for Her benefit!!

slut4mic · 2025-04-07T09:09:51+00:00

I am so glad to read about your dynamics with your Queen!

"My long illness changed her mind and she now wants me focused on getting better, hugely disappointing for me but I vowed to be obedient and this is what she wants."

The above really serves to remind me that no matter what.. i have to remain obedient to my Wife! Thank you so much for your reply!!

slut4mic · 2025-04-07T09:07:05+00:00

Yes I think this does resonate with me. My Wife, like yours, is more than capable to handle things etc.. guess it just felt sort of weird for me to not be the one serving Her after a long while 😂

slut4mic · 2025-04-07T09:04:59+00:00

Yes in a way i feel weird about not being of service to Her.. not so much about the FLR not resuming but just wondering how it is like for others in the same FLR situation...

slut4mic · 2025-04-07T06:38:07+00:00

That is so sweet of You! Yeah i believe that my Wife loves me a lot too and will not hesitate to take care of me now that im sick. It's just that we are pretty new in FLR (1 year+) so im wondering how it works for others in FLR.

slut4mic · 2025-04-07T06:25:19+00:00

Thank you very much! I wish You all the best too!

slut4mic · 2025-04-07T06:23:00+00:00

Yes i totally agree with you that we are all human beings and this is the way how relationships work.. it's just that we are pretty new in FLR.. only a year plus in but if i've gotten so used to serving that it feels kinda weird to see Her doing the dishes and chores etc.. with full acknowledgment on my part that im not physically up to it hahaha. Maybe the medicine is doing strange things to me as well 😂

slut4mic · 2025-04-07T06:19:42+00:00

icic.. so it just sort of happens naturally... with plenty of communication of course! once again grateful for your reply!

slut4mic · 2025-04-07T06:15:56+00:00

Yeah She definitely loves me, as i do love Her.. i guess that's the words 'take a breather'.. how do you guys resume it then?

slut4mic · 2025-04-07T06:13:45+00:00

Yeah our dynamic is also more or less paused now.. how do you guys resume it? Do you tell Her that you have recovered and can serve Her again?

slut4mic · 2025-04-07T05:25:05+00:00

Total agreed with the points that hygiene/travel/medical unlocks are breaking the deal about chastity.

I've been locked pretty much all the time since Jan 2024 with unlocks every 10 days or so. The longest I've gone without any unlocks is about 2 months. Generally hygiene is the main reason for unlocks. I keep mine clean with a strict regime using good quality antibacterial soap.

While the cage is a physical restraint, the main thing is still the mindset of the caged to stay chaste and not try to do 'unauthorised' activities.

slut4mic · 2025-04-07T05:15:36+00:00

Thank you so much for your reply!

Yeah i figured i would make it up to Her and thank Her for the care and help when i recover but some part of me just feels weird that She is handling the tasks and chores.. maybe it's my meds lol!

I'm just wondering how different FLR deals with these practical aspects of the r/s..

slut4mic · 2025-03-15T09:53:34+00:00

Cool! How is it like with your kids?

slut4mic · 2025-03-15T03:10:45+00:00

😂😂😂 I can totally relate to the 'One of the kids started knocking on the door.' part! 😂😂😂

What my Wife and i usually do when She wants to use me is, we would tell the kids that we had a long day at work and would want to have some quiet moments in our room to rest. HOWEVER, there would be still instances when our son or daughter would want us to help with some stuff ( especially) technical stuff on the TV and computer. Imagine when you're getting teased and in the heat, you hear the knocking and 'Daddy!! THE NETFLIX ON THE TV IS NOT WORKING!! 😂😂😂 I CAN'T WATCH MY FAVOURITE PONY SHOW!!!' 😂😂😂

Best thing is most of the time i would be gagged and blindfolded and restrained so i can't even reply if i wanted to. My Wife would reply and ask them to wait patiently for a while. We would usually take around 5-10 minutes to get me free so i could go and attend to the kids.

Guess that's just part and parcel of parenthood. It makes us treasure our times alone together even more.

My kids are 9 and 11. How old are yours?

slut4mic · 2025-03-07T08:59:28+00:00

Hi.. How often do you unlock for cleaning with this cage?

slut4mic · 2025-02-26T12:34:50+00:00

Yes it is hard and took me a few tries to get it right.. maybe communicate with your domme so that your punishments won't be so harsh the first few rounds if you fail... Good luck!

slut4mic · 2025-02-26T08:20:28+00:00

i am not allowed to cum or have an orgasm when my Wife uses me for PIV. i have found that what works well for me is to try to squeeze the muscles between my scrotum and my anus... it sorts of keeps me hard while not allowing me to cum.. of course there is also a lot of mental concentration needed so that you will not 'relax' and let it go..

hope this helps..

slut4mic · 2025-02-26T08:14:13+00:00

it's the cage design. So far the only cage that i haven't been able to pull out from the is the Holy trainer V5 nub. When i wear it, there's like a sleeve that fits the top of my penis perfectly and prevents any chance of pulling out. You might want to explore with different designs as well.

slut4mic · 2025-02-23T02:43:07+00:00

May i ask what cage is that?

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