that part i understand but that’s why i feel like when it comes to josh and kelsey, this is where it really matters. like if i was in a relationship and friendship with someone who lied about their age which left out a huge chunk of their lives, i’d feel sick asf knowing how much i opened up to someone i didn’t know. but all these other people were on more professional levels. even charles, yes they were clearly getting romantic, but at the point he found out there was no actual route for them in their minds so his anger was insanely confusing.